small/big - what do YOU think?

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  1. MLD1

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    Hey guys - I'm an close to avarage guy when it comes to penis-size.
    I got a real small flacid but a normal hard on.
    I think it's nice when other guys knows/says to me, that I got a small cock. It's a kind of turn on.
    But on the other hand, I have been in three somes, where I've been the biggest man, and that was a great turn on too.
    My point is, It's a turn on to be out-maned by a bigger guy - and also the uppersite.
    How do you think about it? Do you like to be the biggest guy - and do you like to tell smaller guys, that they a small?
    And how do you feal, when YOU are the smaller guy?
     
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    instead of asking, tell me how you feel...
     
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    How I feel? I don't think I understood your question?
    I think it's totally nice to be with a friend, who's got a bigger penis than me. And I think it's nice if we can talk about. He can me "small" and so.. I think that there is no competition. He is the most masculin, because he's got the biggest dick. How do you feel?
    By the way, what I great DICK you got there:eek:
     
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    well, If I am standing in front of other who are smaller than me, I feel better about myself. But, not of much importance. The same thing goes if another guy is bigger than me. My self steem keep about the same level :)

    I wouldn't call anyone names or anything just because he have a small penis. Unless, he think he is better than anyone in the room. I don't think its right to believe you are the best at something, unless it is proven. ( not even in sports )
     
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    hm I hoped for some replice
     
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    I can totally relate, MLD1. My best friend and I have that going pretty hard. I'll post more about it later for ya.
     
  7. pwrdick

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    I'm usually one of the better endowed guys at sex parties and didn't really think much about it. I took it for granted.

    But I remember seven years ago getting undressed for my first porn video - a gang-bang scene. All 7-8 of us tops were in a small space, getting ready. I gradually became aware that in that room I was "only" average in size - most of the other guys were pros and escorts. I have to say it left me really intimidated for about three-four minutes. I started to worry that I might need the Viagra that was offered to all of us after all. Thankfully, we had about fifteen minutes to wait. What turned it all around for me was the excitment knowing I was about to be able to watch the guys even bigger than me in action - a rare treat! So now in any scene, porn or not, I am less focused on me than I am on the other guys (except when I'm actually in action, of course!). It works really well and I'd recommend that approach to anyone who feels intimidated.

    Newbie here - have not yet loaded photos.
     
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    i'm proud of my penis size. i don't see the point in demeaning others because of theirs, or feeling diminished if someone's got bigger. i certainly don't feel like i'm more masculine because of it. all having a bigger dick means to me is that i've got a bigger dick...and that feels good enough, it doesn't have to mean anything else. ;)
     
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