Small cock displays

[Quite Irate]

Europe is great for many reasons, one of which being that public clothing is less of a concern than in the U.S. It's great being able to go to the beach and not wear anything/wear something revealing. However, this also leads to something I really dislike, which is obvious displaying of a small penis. For instance, pretty much any cock, no matter how small, will show through pants if you are freeballing. Guys seem to think that since they can see it through their clothes, it's a bulge (and therefore, through completely irrational male logic, it's big). Au contraire! I don't think there's a word for it, but I do know that it's a huge turn off for me. It doesn't leave much to the imagination, you know? I've been told by friends that I'm cruel (not all guys can have big penises, etc., etc.) for thinking this way. Seeing as this is a Large Penis Support board, though, I'm hoping that others will recognize this as a turn off and agree with me. Well...do you? *eyebrow arch*

 

[Principessa]

Hahaha:biggrin1: OMG! I know exactly what you mean! The small penis bulge is not a turn on, for me personally. I am not repulsed by it; but I always feel sorta bad for the guy who is sporting his mini-woody so proudly. :redface:

 

[2322]

Yes, it's like seeing transvestites in public. It's just such a joke to see them pretending to be something they're not! How can they possibly take pride in flaunting themselves like that?? Who on earth would ever want to have sex with them? Obviously they couldn't be good in bed, love me for who I am, or be attractive to any of the other 5,999,999,999 people on earth.

 

[Quite Irate]

Yes, it's like seeing transvestites in public. It's just such a joke to see them pretending to be something they're not! How can they possibly take pride in flaunting themselves like that?? Who on earth would ever want to have sex with them? Obviously they couldn't be good in bed, love me for who I am, or be attractive to any of the other 5,999,999,999 people on earth.

It's an opinion on the purely sexual attraction I have toward others. Not knowing anything else about them, I have no other way of judging them. And don't say "you shouldn't judge people anyway", because everyone does it no matter how bad they think doing it is, especially in a situation where bodies are exposed and people are enjoying it.

 

[psidom]

i guess i would not know what "big" or "small" is for you.
what i see as big you may think is "itsy-bitsy"
it is a matter of perspective.:smile:

 

[SpoiledPrincess]

Small guys love their dicks too and want to show them off just as much as big guys.

 

[simcha]

I think women with itsy bitsy teeny weeny boobies should hide them under big burlap clothing. I mean, who wants to see those tiny things? It's such a turn off. Only large breasted women should show.

 

[benderten2001]

In the LPSG, we have a tendancy to easily lose our perspective. Although we focus on "big", reality is that average prevails in the real world and here, we often start referring to "average" as ..........small.

I personally detest putting others down or making them feel inferior.

Average size or even smaller men DO want to feel good about themselves too, just like everyone else around here. Men (and yes, women :wink deserve to be affirmed period....no matter what their "size". And, I don't buy into that premise that sometimes smaller guys deliberately want to be intimidated and humiliated by larger guys. If they do, it's only a front. Down deep inside? --it's got to hurt them emotionally. No one seeks to ultimately be made to feel inferior. No one.

It does seem average and smaller size fellas can't always feel accepted among their brothers around here, though. And unfortunately, that can be a real negative of this forum sometimes.

And, I doubt this behavioral outcome was ever anticipated by the originators of this site, either. I should know. I've shared IMs and e-mails with them a few times down through the years. I recall those earlier days when the LPSG membership banded together and encouraged each other....those of us who were "large" and those who happened not to be. This verbally attacking one another seldom (if ever) happened.

We've lost a good number of charter LPSG members because of such antics. --And, it's such a shame.

 

[AlteredEgo]

New York is great for many reasons, one of which being that public advocacy of alternative lifestyles is less of a rarity than in other U.S. cities. It's great being able to lead an alternative lifestyle without reproach. However, this also leads to something I really dislike, which is very passable cross-dressers. For instance, pretty much any girl, no matter how pretty, could actually have a penis. Guys seem to think that since they can't see it through their clothes, a penis cannot be lurking (and therefore, through completely irrational trans Logic, a gaff is magical). Au contraire! I don't think there's a word for it, but I do know that it's a huge turn off for me. Grow a beard and warn me ahead of time, you know? I've been told by friends that I'm cruel (not all feminine sides can develop inside femine bodies etc., etc.) for thinking this way. However, I'm hoping that others will recognize this as a turn off and agree with me. Well...do you? *eyebrow arch*

Hahaha:biggrin1: OMG! I know exactly what you mean! The brown skin is not a turn on for me personally. I am not repulsed by it. However, I always feel sorta bad for the guy who is sporting his brown skin so proudly. :redface:

Maybe they don't see their small penises as a bad thing. Just maybe. I mean, that's possible (likely), right? I can absolutely understand that neither of the first two posters find the small penis bulge attractive. I just wonder why they seem to think men with those bulges ought to be ashamed of them. Why should they not be flaunted? Isn't it just a part of who those guys are?






*Please put your irony meters in the ON position, and be on the lookout for sarcasm.*

 

[whatireallywant]

In the LPSG, we have a tendancy to easily lose our perspective. Although we focus on "big", reality is that average prevails in the real world and here, we often start referring to "average" as ..........small.

I personally detest putting others down or making them feel inferior.

Average size or even smaller men DO want to feel good about themselves too, just like everyone else around here. Men (and yes, women :wink deserve to be affirmed period....no matter what their "size". And, I don't buy into that premise that sometimes smaller guys deliberately want to be intimidated and humiliated by larger guys. If they do, it's only a front. Down deep inside? --it's got to hurt them emotionally. No one seeks to ultimately be made to feel inferior. No one.

It does seem average and smaller size fellas can't always feel accepted among their brothers around here, though. And unfortunately, that can be a real negative of this forum sometimes.

And, I doubt this behavioral outcome was ever anticipated by the originators of this site, either. I should know. I've shared IMs and e-mails with them a few times down through the years. I recall those earlier days when the LPSG membership banded together and encouraged each other....those of us who were "large" and those who happened not to be. This verbally attacking one another seldom (if ever) happened.

We've lost a good number of charter LPSG members because of such antics. --And, it's such a shame.

This makes a lot of sense. Now I don't know about the guys who are into SPH, maybe they really do enjoy being humiliated. I can't say that I understand that, but there are a lot of things I don't understand.

Yes, I will admit that I prefer larger guys, but I don't want that to be a put-down of other guys. It's just that larger guys seem to be a better "fit" for me. And for those guys, it's a good thing that there are women like me around. :smile:

 

[AlteredEgo]

This makes a lot of sense. Now I don't know about the guys who are into SPH, maybe they really do enjoy being humiliated. I can't say that I understand that, but there are a lot of things I don't understand.

I would have to agree with you.

 

[Drifterwood]

My presumption has always been that people who crotch watch are looking for larger bulges. So I had also concluded that those who didn't happen to have a larger bulge would try not to make it obvious.

I have to admit that when I see guys in speedos who aren't really packing, I wonder why they wear them. But thinking about it now, I think I am wrong to think this.

 

[benderten2001]

Laughing at a small penis is a form of rejection, pure and simple. Reading about such responses to smaller sizes in the LPSG only contributes to the addage "bigger is better" and I'm concerned for those members and readers who don't need further negative mindsets about their endowments. It's difficult enough around here for average and smaller men to even begin to feel good about themselves.

I'm just personally set-off and angered to see the potential of further alienating men and putting them down...men who otherwise are perfectly healthy, normal men. It's nothing to be ashamed of that they just happen to be 4 or 5 inches instead of 8. The younger guys especially need to be encouraged to accept what they have in their respective sizes and not be so competitive in their thinking processes. In many ways, size ISN'T everything. It's more in how one uses the size he is given and the pleasure he learns to bring the other person. THAT'S what is important.
I realize, even learned in this very forum, that bigger men sometimes are sought after for purely legitimate physical reasons and not just pious, selfish reasons by their partners. Okay. Lesson learned. But this too, is an exception in day to day life. Average penises are predominant and they work quite well....all over the world in fact and with very few problems.

And anyway...the impressive bulges on the beach or elsewhere don't always translate into massive erections either. And THAT is yet another story that needs to be told. Over and over. Flaccid sizes are very misleading. Small bulges can easily translate into the very same size erections that a larger flaccid size achieves. But, guys don't hear this too often. Nor do they get to witness this fact first hand around other men. But, it's very, very true.

It's too bad we humans have such hyper-active imaginations tied into our sexuality. Why, we worry more about sex than any other primate!
If other primates COULD just know what we thought about, they would be laughing at us....with our small, average or big penises...whatever, it wouldn't matter. To them? --I think we'd look pretty stupid.

 

[Drifterwood]

Humans are sexually competitive. Men judge themselves against other men and women sure do the same with other women.

Somewhere along the line the bigger is better mantra has been widely adopted for penises. Though it should hardly be surprising here.

Very interesting thoughts Brenderten. Do men have subjectively similar experience of sex irrespective of penis size?

 

[TinyCock]

(snip)I'm hoping that others will recognize this as a turn off and agree with me. Well...do you? *eyebrow arch*

It would be worth remembering that those of us who are less well endowed didn't actually choose to be small and we have to work with what we've got.

TC

 

[viking1]

Maybe they don't see their small penises as a bad thing. Just maybe. I mean, that's possible (likely), right? I can absolutely understand that neither of the first two posters find the small penis bulge attractive. I just wonder why they seem to think men with those bulges ought to be ashamed of them. Why should they not be flaunted? Isn't it just a part of who those guys are?

Because that's the way the world works. Just look at the gallery comments here. Only those guys who look like a well hung underwear model get many comments. The average (or below) looking guys get only a few. Same goes with the women if they don't have a runway models looks with Dolly Parton's boobs you don't get the attention. Truth is, the few comments the average get are just someone being nice rather than any real interest.

I have heard these comments so many times. Some guy with a big belly is walking around with no shirt at a car show, and some of my friends will say "if I looked like that I'd be embarrassed not to wear a shirt".
Same thing at the beach: "why do all the guys who wear thongs look like my high school principal". "Why do the women who wear thongs or spandex weigh 300lbs". "Why do the hot guys all wear board shorts"
"The hot chicks all cover up, Why?" That's just how superficial people really are. Those of us who aren't "hot" or "perfect" or "very desirable" to the casual observer are not supposed to feel good about ourselves. Average or small penis guys aren't supposed to show off. Small breasted women aren't either. That's the real world. If you aren't something outstanding, you don't get the best of the opportunities or the attention. Period!

As for this website being condescending toward those who are less than well endowed, or with a less than perfect body. What would you expect from a paid porn site? Really and seriously, that's what this is. Other than a few intelligent discussions among the forums, this is a paid, for profit, amateur porn site. This site has, however, taught me much about true human nature and where I stand on life's social scale. What I have learned wasn't necessarily good for my ego, either. I have learned stuff here and on the Internet in general that I haven't learned from working on machinery. I have just about come to the conclusion that the world of soot, grease, and diesel fumes is much more where I belong, and a better place for me. I have suspected that all along, and now it's be proven to my satisfaction. I really don't have much of a chance outside of the mechanical world. Machinery doesn't care how I look or how I'm "endowed".
I guess I should go back to the land of diesel smoke, and stay.......

 

[2322]

Because that's the way the world works. Just look at the gallery comments here. Only those guys who look like a well hung underwear model get many comments. The average (or below) looking guys get only a few. Same goes with the women if they don't have a runway models looks with Dolly Parton's boobs you don't get the attention. Truth is, the few comments the average get are just someone being nice rather than any real interest.

I have heard these comments so many times. Some guy with a big belly is walking around with no shirt at a car show, and some of my friends will say "if I looked like that I'd be embarrassed not to wear a shirt".
Same thing at the beach: "why do all the guys who wear thongs look like my high school principal". "Why do the women who wear thongs or spandex weigh 300lbs". "Why do the hot guys all wear board shorts"
"The hot chicks all cover up, Why?" That's just how superficial people really are. Those of us who aren't "hot" or "perfect" or "very desirable" to the casual observer are not supposed to feel good about ourselves. Average or small penis guys aren't supposed to show off. Small breasted women aren't either. That's the real world. If you aren't something outstanding, you don't get the best of the opportunities or the attention. Period!

As for this website being condescending toward those who are less than well endowed, or with a less than perfect body. What would you expect from a paid porn site? Really and seriously, that's what this is. Other than a few intelligent discussions among the forums, this is a paid, for profit, amateur porn site. This site has, however, taught me much about true human nature and where I stand on life's social scale. What I have learned wasn't necessarily good for my ego, either. I have learned stuff here and on the Internet in general that I haven't learned from working on machinery. I have just about come to the conclusion that the world of soot, grease, and diesel fumes is much more where I belong, and a better place for me. I have suspected that all along, and now it's be proven to my satisfaction. I really don't have much of a chance outside of the mechanical world. Machinery doesn't care how I look or how I'm "endowed".
I guess I should go back to the land of diesel smoke, and stay.......

One of the best posts from you I've ever read! You may like mechanical thingys, but don't think for an instant you're not contributing in a worthwhile manner when you post something like this! Simply excellent viking!

My issue wasn't with QuiteIrate enjoying the eye candy of big bulges, I enjoy them too. My issue was limited entirely to the idea that I should be ashamed not to have a fat flaccid unit. At one point I was, but LPSG taught me over the past three years, that I shouldn't be. I'm sorry not everyone here has learned that.

 

[2322]

It's an opinion on the purely sexual attraction I have toward others. Not knowing anything else about them, I have no other way of judging them. And don't say "you shouldn't judge people anyway", because everyone does it no matter how bad they think doing it is, especially in a situation where bodies are exposed and people are enjoying it.

No, it went beyond that. You weren't just expressing how much you liked big bulges, you went on to belittle people who weren't packing what you find attractive. There's a difference. Listen to your friends because they're right. You are being cruel.

 

[viking1]

One of the best posts from you I've ever read! You may like mechanical thingys, but don't think for an instant you're not contributing in a worthwhile manner when you post something like this! Simply excellent viking!

My issue wasn't with QuiteIrate enjoying the eye candy of big bulges, I enjoy them too. My issue was limited entirely to the idea that I should be ashamed not to have a fat flaccid unit. At one point I was, but LPSG taught me over the past three years, that I shouldn't be. I'm sorry not everyone here has learned that.

Agreed Jason. My post wasn't directed at QuiteIrate at all. I don't blame him for wanting to see big bulges, if that's what he likes. It was just a generalization of how people are. How all of us who aren't "eye candy" are just brushed off. Also of how I have come to view what this, and similar websites really represent. People are in real life just like they are on the 'net. They are just more open with it because they are anonymous here and nobody can punch them out through their monitor. Just like the off comments I mentioned from friends and coworkers. They didn't make those comments to the people they were about. I wonder why?

 

[avantgarde]

I knew it was going to turn out like this :frown1:

Thread Failure.

Thanks for the introspective Viking...It also goes for those guys who are growers.