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Small guys love their dicks too and want to show them off just as much as big guys.
And some of us want to see them. (It may be hard to imagine, but even though I like big dicks it doesn't follow that I therefore DON'T like small ones. Especially on a big guy, I find a small cock incredibly erotic.

Do men have subjectively similar experience of sex irrespective of penis size?
Let me answer from a slightly different perspective: I don't notice a correlation between the quality of sex and the size of my partners. Lots of small guys can be incredibly hot, and many big guys are hopelessly clumsy and/or self-absorbed. I can't answer for their subjective state, but I'm guessing that a fair amount of the time when I find it hot as hell with a small partner they are enjoying it, too. That would at least suggest they are having the same subjective experience.
 

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I knew it was going to turn out like this :frown1:

Thread Failure.

Thanks for the introspective Viking...It also goes for those guys who are growers.

I don't see where this thread was a failure. If it was most of the other threads are as well. I think what has been said here needed to be said.

There have been few threads here that didn't incite argument or seem to be condescending to some. It's obvious to me that most (certainly not all) of the more well endowed guys here think they are superior. If you look at posting history and how they reply to certain topics, you can see that.
They brag about everything from their size to number of sexual partners.
Also their intelligence, education, looks, physique, job, social status, etc.

This forum represents a true to life cross section of people. The penis size part may be skewed to the large side, but the general attitudes are pretty typical. After nearly 30 years of working with the public that's my opinion.
We may well be more condescending on here than in real life. At least as far as openly so is concerned. When we call someone an idiot, make fun of their looks or penis size, make racial slurs, etc, at worst one might be banned from here. We won't have to duck flying fists, ball bats, knives, or bullets. It just shows how people really feel when there are little or no consequences to their actions. The same with alcohol. Alcohol isn't a hallucinogen, and doesn't alter personality, it just brings it out. Want to know what someone is really like? Be around them when they're drunk, and you'll find out.

There are very few mostly positive threads here, or anywhere on the net that I've seen. One of the few was the "lpsg voices" thread. I think that was one of the best and most enjoyable threads since I've been here.
Why can't we have more threads like that? More positive, enjoyable, non argument threads. When I see political, small penis, size queen, or racial themed threads, I know there is going to be a war. I don't want wars.
I want supportive intelligent threads. Don't most others here want that too?
 

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Because that's the way the world works. Just look at the gallery comments here. Only those guys who look like a well hung underwear model get many comments. The average (or below) looking guys get only a few. Same goes with the women if they don't have a runway models looks with Dolly Parton's boobs you don't get the attention. Truth is, the few comments the average get are just someone being nice rather than any real interest. .......


Uh... This is a site about large penises. The people who are interested in the gallery here expect to see large penises. The people who are interested in the gallery here are likely even looking specifically for pictures of large penises. I think it is a mistake to take this website as a representative microcosm of the world beyond. Additionally, if you really think feeling sorry for yourself is going to help you, then please do continue to indulge yourself in self pity. It's your perogative. However, let me tell you as a woman that it is as unattractive as it is unneccesary.
 

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I really dislike ...obvious displaying of a small penis.

Europe is great for many reasons, one of which being that public clothing is less of a concern than in the U.S. :rolleyes: It's great being able to go to the beach and not wear anything or wear something revealing.

How good of you to mention why Europe is so great. They don't have to concern themselves with prudes or transvestites telling other men with small, quite likely flaccid, penises to hide them. Isn't Europe tremendous.:biggrin1:
 

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Uh... This is a site about large penises. The people who are interested in the gallery here expect to see large penises. The people who are interested in the gallery here are likely even looking specifically for pictures of large penises. I think it is a mistake to take this website as a representative microcosm of the world beyond. Additionally, if you really think feeling sorry for yourself is going to help you, then please do continue to indulge yourself in self pity. It's your perogative. However, let me tell you as a woman that it is as unattractive as it is unneccesary.

this is true too, i have to admit. It is the sites primary focus.

Speaking of Large Penises (thread shift) I decided to go ahead and try some magnums. I haven't tried them out yet, i will tonight. But the freaking Purchase Sequence the most uncomfortable i've ever had. I've bought boxes of condoms before, but just the reaction you get from people putting the "MAGNUM" box on the belt is just...uneasy :frown1:. I didn't like that feeling. Women looking at you like you're a piece of meat...not cool. Does anyone else feel this way buying them?
 

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"Humans are sexually competitive. Men judge themselves against other men and women sure do the same with other women.

Somewhere along the line the bigger is better mantra has been widely adopted for penises. Though it should hardly be surprising here.

Very interesting thoughts Brenderten. Do men have subjectively similar experience of sex irrespective of penis size?"

We have men and women here representing all walks of life and virtually every age, too, I suppose. Each one is here in the forum for their own unique reasons.

My comments reflect "older life experience". I once was also fascinated with "big" and admit to being among those more fortunate. But I've also learned too, that there are consequences to being larger endowed. And THAT seemed to be more of the theme of the original LPSG--encouraging others facing similar concerns.

"Size" might be a driving, obsessive component of day-to- day life right now for some, yes. They are compulsively here 24 / 7. But there are indeed others of us who, through the course of time, have learned that relationships, meaningful relationships based upon other values eventually rule out over any frivilous worries about "size". But, this logic takes time to accept. Younger members often scoff and dismiss such "rhetoric" from us "oldtimers" left in the forum.

I always tell myself...."give 'em time. They'll come around to their senses." :smile:

But oh, how I wish I could spare them wasting such valuable time wanting to be bigger when what they have is just fine as it is. Feeding their minds (their psyches) with constant propaganda about "bigger is better" is eating away at their own personal happiness. And they don't even realize it.....yet.

I find it sad because I've been there, too-as recently as only about six years ago when I signed up to be here.

I've learned a lot. And, fortunately, I've changed a lot.
Much for the better, I think.
 

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How good of you to mention why Europe is so great. They don't have to concern themselves with prudes or transvestites telling other men with small, quite likely flaccid, penises to hide them. Isn't Europe tremendous.:biggrin1:
I knew there was a reason I liked you. Indeed, you make many wonderful observations on many threads.

The OP's reference to Europe and the fact that there are men at the nude beaches that have small dicks. The OP thinks that only the guys with big dicks should be allowed to walk around nude at the beach. i suppose there could be a check in at the beach. All men would be measured. Those whose dicks are below ??? inches will have to wear swim suits that totally hide their package. Now wouldn't that look nice. Every one is nude except certain guys. Don't you think the swim suits would sort of stand out in the crowd of nude people?

We are getting two issues mixed here. The OP made it clear that he DOESN'T want any man with a dick less than whatever size be required to wear clothing that totally disguises their dick as a small dick is a very repulsive thing for all humans to see. And his disdain for men who have a little dick is repulsive. What he is almost suggesting that if a position opens up in management, all the men interested come in and have their dicks measured and the one with the biggest dick gets the job.

The other issue is sexual attraction. Sexual attraction is in the eye of the beholder. Yeah I like big dicks. I am sexually attracted to a guy that is lean with broad shoulders small waist line and a nice thick dick and the guy also has the cutest ass in the world. Yeah, I can droll over that.

But, I am not making a decision about that guy's intelligence, personality or sense of humor. That guy that I am drooling over may be the biggest asshole in all of LPSG land.

Where the OP has shown himself to be an asshole is wanting to not have to look at guys that aren't sexually attractive to him.

These are two totally different issues. We should judge a man for who he is, what is has done, what is doing now and what he plans to be doing in the future. We should judge a man by his character. And for me I am going to judge him by how he acts towards me.

My best friend my have a micro penis. I don't care. That is not why he is my friend.

But yeah, looking at the galleries of guys I don't know personally, it is strictly sexual, there is no evaluation of the guy who owns the penis. And yes, I only comment on the pics I like to. I am not going to post negative comments on any one's pics.

I realize that there are people who judge a man strictly on his dick size. That doesn't make it right. There are guys that will only hire ladies who are sexually attracted to them. They aren't going to hire a woman who is obese even if she knows more about the job than all the other applicants combined. Yeah, and that guy is an asshole as well.

This is a large penis support group. Many guys with very large penises have real issues. In puberty, they felt humiliated when they could tell that EVERYONE was noticing that at age 14, they were extremely endowed and the fact that at that age the body isn't all filled out and the guy is underweight makes that dick just that more prominent.

This site is about providing support to guys with big dicks that have issues. Over the years we have found that many of the issues are the same for all guys regardless of penis size.

We really should be a support group for every member regardless of that member's issues. That makes this group a special group. Only here can some of us express our views, our concerns, our problems etc. No way would we voice that "in the real world." And people like me who thought about how nice it would be to be write editorials for the local paper get a chance to write editorials here at the LPSG.

I have learned a lot here about all kinds of subjects. And I have personal friends.

SUPPORT that is the main word in our logo.
 
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Uh... This is a site about large penises. The people who are interested in the gallery here expect to see large penises. The people who are interested in the gallery here are likely even looking specifically for pictures of large penises. I think it is a mistake to take this website as a representative microcosm of the world beyond. Additionally, if you really think feeling sorry for yourself is going to help you, then please do continue to indulge yourself in self pity. It's your perogative. However, let me tell you as a woman that it is as unattractive as it is unneccesary.

I wasn't just talking about penis size. It's the whole attitude in general.
Did you actually read both of my posts in this thread? I was talking about the condescending attitudes of people here and in real life towards anyone who doesn't meet their idea of what they want to see. In other words toward those who aren't "a perfect 10". I know this is a large penis site.
It's become far less of a support group and more of a gripe filled porn site.
To me the people here generally fit the attitudes that I have seen in real life. Most people are very superficial. I think that's very sad...
 

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I think a big man with a small penis is extremely hot. I had a buddy who was 6'3" 225, naturally athletic, extremely handsome, and nicely furry. He wore super tight pants, showed not even a blip on the bulge scale. He told me women were after him for sex but would be disappointed when he took his clothes off. He was very small. I couldn't risk it but I sure did want to do him.
 

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I think a big man with a small penis is extremely hot. I had a buddy who was 6'3" 225, naturally athletic, extremely handsome, and nicely furry. He wore super tight pants, showed not even a blip on the bulge scale. He told me women were after him for sex but would be disappointed when he took his clothes off. He was very small. I couldn't risk it but I sure did want to do him.


Most women probably would have been disappointed, but at least he had some interest.
 
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Personalities matter too. I am only above the average. Nothing more, nothing less. I can't say I've got a "huge fat cock" to women, but I can be proud of the bulge I do have.

And on Viking's comment, just take it easy bro. Be confident, be proud, and reject rejection. I've talked to a few women on here briefly, and the conversations have been anything but cock-related. I enjoy the chatting, and I hope they do too. They're interesting people. The point is, they didn't start chatting one night just because they saw a photo of an 8" floppy dick hanging out of my shorts. Quite the opposite, really.
 

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An extremely large penis can sometimes look really disfigured and gross! I don't understand how a small bulge can be a turn off for you. It may be small but perfectly formed. Big is not always best!!
 

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Look, personalities matter a lot to me. I'd rather spend time with an average looking peep who has a great personality than a good looking one who doesn't. I don't care if a guy is hung big. I don't care if a woman has huge breasts. The personality is my first attraction.
 

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I appreciate the variations from one guy to the next. I'm just average in size yet have a thing for looking at guys and their dicks. I love to see a guy hanging, either freeballing or in boxers, so the head and shaft of his limp dick shows through his board shorts, mesh basketball shorts, dazzle shorts, and track pants. To me, the size doesn't matter as much as the guy being comfortable enough with himself to let his dick hang loosely in revealing clothing where people can see the outline. Judging from all the guys that I see walking around in public hanging in bball shorts, I'm not the only one who likes this.
 

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Most women probably would have been disappointed, but at least he had some interest.

I don't know about that. He messed around with both wifes prior to marriage. He has 2 kids by second wife. He knows he is small, and he knows he tends to be dense about connecting emotionally, and making love. So, he doesn't talk about it afterwards.

If there wasn't a disease out there, I'd be on my way to Denver to hookup with a bud who is a big burly critter. He has less than 4 erect, and tiny balls. I don't mean small, I mean tiny. I think he is the hottest guy I know. He is bi but loves to bottom.
 

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I've never been much of a "shower", and I am sure if I was walking down a beach naked I would not be turning any heads, for largeness for sure and probably get a few laughs, especially if the water is cold and I'm just coming out. But when hard I am 7.25"L X 6.25"G. Been married 29 yrs yesterday and last night showed the wife one of the reasons why she hooked up with me and has stayed hooked up with me. It is all about confidence and believing in one self. that alone turns women on faster that anything, not cocky or brash, just quiet self confidence.
 

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I say to each his/her own. If someone is comfortable walking nude on the beach with a micro penis, it tells me that he is comfortable with himself and perhaps many other aspects of his life. This also conveys to me that I would probably enjoy this person's company versus a person with self esteem issues or other issues that prevent him from being himself. Remember people...dick size does not define a person! Let's not be so shallow.

Also, a person might be freeballing because it is more comfortable versus wearing underwear. It might not have to do with showing his junk to everyone, but a matter of comfort. Lot of other circumstances possible--not cool to jump to conclusions that it is all sexual or the desire to be an exhibitionist.

Just a few thoughts on this topic!!
 

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This isnt directed at any one person or even this topic- but was gonna speak up eventually....

I think people take themselves too seriously too much of the time.
 

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In the LPSG, we have a tendancy to easily lose our perspective. Although we focus on "big", reality is that average prevails in the real world and here, we often start referring to "average" as ..........small.

I personally detest putting others down or making them feel inferior.

Average size or even smaller men DO want to feel good about themselves too, just like everyone else around here. Men (and yes, women :wink:) deserve to be affirmed period....no matter what their "size". And, I don't buy into that premise that sometimes smaller guys deliberately want to be intimidated and humiliated by larger guys. If they do, it's only a front. Down deep inside? --it's got to hurt them emotionally. No one seeks to ultimately be made to feel inferior. No one.

It does seem average and smaller size fellas can't always feel accepted among their brothers around here, though. And unfortunately, that can be a real negative of this forum sometimes.

And, I doubt this behavioral outcome was ever anticipated by the originators of this site, either. I should know. I've shared IMs and e-mails with them a few times down through the years. I recall those earlier days when the LPSG membership banded together and encouraged each other....those of us who were "large" and those who happened not to be. This verbally attacking one another seldom (if ever) happened.

We've lost a good number of charter LPSG members because of such antics. --And, it's such a shame.
I'm not rejecting or bashing men with small penises. If you read the follow up post you'd see that. And I'm not talking about "small" penises, I'm talking about small penises. As a purely sexual thing, I find it disappointing. It has nothing to do with their character or anything else about them. People in this thread are taking liberties and just making stuff up about the first post. I'll quote it for reference:
Europe is great for many reasons, one of which being that public clothing is less of a concern than in the U.S. :rolleyes: It's great being able to go to the beach and not wear anything/wear something revealing. However, this also leads to something I really dislike, which is obvious displaying of a small penis. For instance, pretty much any cock, no matter how small, will show through pants if you are freeballing. Guys seem to think that since they can see it through their clothes, it's a bulge (and therefore, through completely irrational male logic, it's big). Au contraire! I don't think there's a word for it, but I do know that it's a huge turn off for me. It doesn't leave much to the imagination, you know? I've been told by friends that I'm cruel (not all guys can have big penises, etc., etc.) for thinking this way. Seeing as this is a Large Penis Support board, though, I'm hoping that others will recognize this as a turn off and agree with me. Well...do you? *eyebrow arch*

I said it's a turn off. That's it. Nothing about men with small penises not being able to show them, nothing about me disliking those men, NOTHING. Why are you looking to start a fight when there is nothing to fight about? Says something about the state of this board. You'll all too used to bashing each other, you don't even realize when someone is just engaging in conversation.