Small cock guys, ever been humiliated or embarrassed by having a small cock?

[wayless]

What's funny is you also get made fun of for having a big dick. I know its not the same but it still happens and people feel its ok to talk about it in front of you and others assuming you are ok with it. Its the problem with being guys. People feel we have no feelings and feel free to comment on our flaws publicly. Penis size, weight, height. If a woman is treated like this its virtually a crime.

Make fun is different from being put down as not really a man. Envy shows through "making fun" in most cases.

 

[paskharen]

I have really been at both ends of this stick. Since I entered puberty quite late and didn't really finish growing until my mid twenties I started highschool as one of the smallest guys, but were probably the biggest by the time we graduated. The change of power dynamics in the locker room after PE, and how it spills over to all other aspects of life, is really quite fascinating.

 

[kingmamba73]

Make fun is different from being put down as not really a man. Envy shows through "making fun" in most cases.

Yeah that's why I said its not the same but..

 

[amazzzed2]

I recently discovered some of my medical records from my youth where the doctor indicated low testosterone while in puberty. That likely accounts for my under average member. I’m angry that the notes indicated my mother passed on treatment that could have given me a different outcome. I struggle everyday with feelings of inadequacy, being undesirable, and loneliness. Being gay doesn’t help since most men are cock focused. Seems like everyone in San Diego is a vers bottom looking for hours of penetrative sex. Being a bear helps, guys into bears sometimes know it’s a 50/50 chance. The guy is either gonna be hung or small. So there is some that are ok with it, but it’s rare and doesn’t help that I still feel so little confidence. Losing weight might help but when your locked into depression getting out just seems pointless. I’m in my forties now and the chances of improving my life are slim. I give it three months before I figure out a way to off myself.

Thank you for your courage in sharing your story. As important as sex can be, most people are much more focused on the quality of the person, more than their cock size.
Hope you get help with your depression, and treat your body well.

 

[wayless]

As important as sex can be, most people are much more focused on the quality of the person, more than their cock size.

Wish you had scientific studies to back that up.

I was told by a few women that good sex partners don't make good life partners. They wanted both, but learned not to expect both in one person.

 

[kingmamba73]

I recently discovered some of my medical records from my youth where the doctor indicated low testosterone while in puberty. That likely accounts for my under average member. I’m angry that the notes indicated my mother passed on treatment that could have given me a different outcome. I struggle everyday with feelings of inadequacy, being undesirable, and loneliness. Being gay doesn’t help since most men are cock focused. Seems like everyone in San Diego is a vers bottom looking for hours of penetrative sex. Being a bear helps, guys into bears sometimes know it’s a 50/50 chance. The guy is either gonna be hung or small. So there is some that are ok with it, but it’s rare and doesn’t help that I still feel so little confidence. Losing weight might help but when your locked into depression getting out just seems pointless. I’m in my forties now and the chances of improving my life are slim. I give it three months before I figure out a way to off myself.

There may have been side effects that your mother didn't want to risk for something she thought at the time wasn't important enough to risk her child's health. I'm not gay so I cant speak for what gay men want but women will also say they want hours of sex but in reality they dont really want it and when they get it they cant handle it. They just complain about how soar they are lol. If all these guys want is hours of penetrative sex then they're not for. Confidence or lack of confidence is something we put on ourselves. I have a good dick size but I'd still like more and if someone pulled my pants down in the street my first thought would still be thoughts of people probably think I'm small etc. I have a friend who has a really good body but doesn't have to confidence to take his shirt off because he still feels like the skinny guy he used to be.
Being in your forties is not too late. Lots of movie stars are in their forties and older and still look good, I'm in my late forties and I intend to try my best to look as good as I can for my age for as long as I can. We put limits on ourselves through our own lack of motivation. Do not give up! You are alive there are people all around the world fighting for their lives do not talk about offing yourself because of cock size. Get counselling. You have to give yourself a chance.

 

[wayless]

There may have been side effects that your mother didn't want to risk for something she thought at the time wasn't important enough to risk her child's health.

There is little danger from bioidentical testosterone which is now available as long as a normal, not super high level of T, is achieved during supplementation. In my day, bioidenticals were not available, only dangerous extracts from horses and other animals.

The danger comes mostly to body builders who supplement way above normal max. or use various steroids not normal to the body, but quickly build muscle mass.

As far a penis size goes, supplementing T ONLY works during puberty.

 

[wayless]

but women will also say they want hours of sex but in reality they dont really want it and when they get it they cant handle it. They just complain about how sore they are lol. If all these guys want is hours of penetrative sex then they're not for.

Women seldom if ever say they are sore if they are with small dick guy. I can testify to that. But, I'm guessing some big guys keep stroking when natural lubrication is lost due to whatever reason,

More likely, they get tired of futile pounding even it they initially were hot and juicy. Even a really small dick can be irritating even the woman losses lubrication due to boredom.

 

[wayless]

Confidence or lack of confidence is something we put on ourselves. I have a good dick size but I'd still like more and if someone pulled my pants down in the street my first thought would still be thoughts of people probably think I'm small etc. I have a friend who has a really good body but doesn't have to confidence to take his shirt off because he still feels like the skinny guy he used to be.

Confidence is bull in my book. Ya gotta go ahead regardless of likely outcomes, ie. be assertive. So, it's not always just something we put on ourselves.

Being confident about something experience shows to be unlikely doesn't make sense. I could consistently get women hot, juicy and dilated, but then not be able to get them over the hump to the kind of orgasm they wanted.

 

[wayless]

I give it three months before I figure out a way to off myself.

Just noticed this. Hey! Life isn't all about sex. Try to get some perspective.

We can't all be sex athletes just like we can't all be professional athletes.

 

[amazzzed2]

Wish you had scientific studies to back that up.

I was told by a few women that good sex partners don't make good life partners. They wanted both, but learned not to expect both in one person.

I agree that is basically true.
I was a much better life partner than a sex partner, partly because of my small penis.

 

[kingmamba73]

I agree that is basically true.
I was a much better life partner than a sex partner, partly because of my small penis.

I'm both so I must be a unicorn

 

[amazzzed2]

I'm both so I must be a unicorn

Yes, a unicorn with a very large horn!

 

[kingmamba73]

Yes, a unicorn with a very large horn!

LOL!!

 

[thickbit]

Well.. I have issues about my cock. And the source is not the humiliation ...rather my partner didnt wanted to have sex with me - but not because of the size of my cock ...she said. bUT iM STILL THINKING THAT i AM SMALL AND INADEQUATE.
So ..I have been deserted. It hurts and Im on the floor now ..my self esteem is low atm.
Emotionally hurted.


Once I was at the nude beach when I was young and I have been laughed at by my size.
And one of my coworker walkked in when I was in the shower after my shift and said that I am small.
But I am trying to not care about these comments ..my cock doesnt defines me.
But still hurts and makes me feel miserable.

Ah sorry about these mumbles.
Avtually I recently broke up wiuth my partner and I dont know how to get over the situation. I blame it on my cocksize which is insane.

 

[wayless]

Well.. I have issues about my cock. And the source is not the humiliation ...rather my partner didnt wanted to have sex with me - but not because of the size of my cock ...she said. bUT iM STILL THINKING THAT i AM SMALL AND INADEQU

I've had women reject me because I have anxiety or concern about being smaller than average. She said real men are men in spite of that.

It was only after months together, my "front" cracked.

 

[wayless]

Once I was at the nude beach when I was young and I have been laughed at by my size.
And one of my coworker walkked in when I was in the shower after my shift and said that I am small.
But I am trying to not care about these comments ..my cock doesnt defines me.
But still hurts and makes me feel miserable.

Those things especially difficult when you are first trying to deal with being small.

 

[kingmamba73]

Well.. I have issues about my cock. And the source is not the humiliation ...rather my partner didnt wanted to have sex with me - but not because of the size of my cock ...she said. bUT iM STILL THINKING THAT i AM SMALL AND INADEQUATE.
So ..I have been deserted. It hurts and Im on the floor now ..my self esteem is low atm.
Emotionally hurted.


Once I was at the nude beach when I was young and I have been laughed at by my size.
And one of my coworker walkked in when I was in the shower after my shift and said that I am small.
But I am trying to not care about these comments ..my cock doesnt defines me.
But still hurts and makes me feel miserable.

Ah sorry about these mumbles.
Avtually I recently broke up wiuth my partner and I dont know how to get over the situation. I blame it on my cocksize which is insane.

It sounds cliche but you have to find someone that cares about you and your cock second. There are men out there with no penis at all as in born without one or they lost it through cancer and they still manage to find someone. Anyone that makes fun of your penis size isnt worth knowing. Like you say your penis doesn't define you. If you can avoid situations where people wont see it. The only people that see me naked are doctors lol I'm never in a social setting when I'm naked not by choice it just turns out that way. No one needs to know unless you want them to. Its not like skin colour where you cant hide it. But then at the same time you shouldn't have to. Society at the moment has determined big cocks are desirable but it hasnt always been that way, the same with breasts and buttocks. It all depends place to place culture to culture. I find western cultures to be the most superficial. Some cultures don't put as much enthesis on penis size etc.

 

[amazzzed2]

It sounds cliche but you have to find someone that cares about you and your cock second. There are men out there with no penis at all as in born without one or they lost it through cancer and they still manage to find someone. Anyone that makes fun of your penis size isnt worth knowing. Like you say your penis doesn't define you. If you can avoid situations where people wont see it. The only people that see me naked are doctors lol I'm never in a social setting when I'm naked not by choice it just turns out that way. No one needs to know unless you want them to. Its not like skin colour where you cant hide it. But then at the same time you shouldn't have to. Society at the moment has determined big cocks are desirable but it hasnt always been that way, the same with breasts and buttocks. It all depends place to place culture to culture. I find western cultures to be the most superficial. Some cultures don't put as much enthesis on penis size etc.

Very wise response!

 

[wayless]

Very wise response!

I've thought that many time only to find the woman didn't know what she was getting into. . .