Quite Irate
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Well you see, I'm into the whole humiliation thing, but only when i get to do the humiliating. 
Seriously...why do you people do this stuff?
Seriously...why do you people do this stuff?
msn or yahoo
wholikesfun@hotmail.com
or just wholikes fun add me i love making people laugh at my tiny cock all are welcome
wholikesfun@hotmail.com
or just wholikes fun add me i love making people laugh at my tiny cock all are welcome
Hi - I can only speak for myself about small cock humiliation. I most definitely didn't enjoy it from teenage to about 40. The humiliation at that time came from myself. I dreaded the showers in gym class, terrified by wondering how many knew my little secret. In high school and 20's,30's it was difficult coming up with excuses why i didn't pursue the girls that made it clear they were interested. Same at work and being out socially. I had so many crushes on guys i knew were hung and celebs. and was always afraid i looked to long and made apparent. At a later age when you start exploring alternative sex with dominant women and hookers that knew what excited me i loved it. Now it probably is my biggest turn on. It's always been easy finding women for this but not guys. I have been a big cock worshiper my entire life. Sex with guys was easier and started in
my early teens after my iniation by a older man. Just love BIG COCK. I can't imagine how great it must be to be 18 and have a huge cock.
my early teens after my iniation by a older man. Just love BIG COCK. I can't imagine how great it must be to be 18 and have a huge cock.
This fetish seems really strange! I'm studying psychology at the moment. Is this fetish triggered by some kind of childhood trauma or something? Like being humiliated about your dick when you were young? Maybe you're subconsciously fetishizing the issue as an attempt to come to terms with some deeply burried feelings of low self worth?
I guess you should ask yourselves' whether the fetish makes you feel happy or depressed. It sounds like a behavioral pattern that would develop depression and anxiety complexes, rather than make you feel good about yourselves'. Perhaps it's an addiction of sorts that part of you wishes that you didn't have but you have no control over? If that is the case, you should really see a psychologist and a sex therapist to help you overcome your pattern of self abuse.
You don't necessarily have to abandon any notions that your penis size is inadequate for some partners. You could embrace the truth as you see it and enjoy feeling a sense of powerlessness, yet in a loving way, rather than in an abusive way. However, whilst that would be a much healthier sexual behavior, it might still encourage an addictive, fetishized behavioral pattern. You should ideally choose to recover from your fetish addiction entirely by reprogramming the neural pathways in your brain.
This can be done by forcing yourself to abandon all masterbation or sex that involves you fantasizing about humiliation, aswel as any porn that triggers such fantasies. Replacing such fantasies with healthier, loving fantasies, even if the're less exciting and stimulating than fantasies about humiliation at first. After a while, your brain will re-structure and develop new neural pathways and the fantasies about humiliation will start to die and the healthier fantasies that you have replaced them with will become increasingly more exciting and stimulating.
It would take several weeks, in which time the old, neural pathways triggered during humiliation fantasies would become bypassed by the new pathways developed, which would grow stronger as the old, unused pathways grew weaker. After several weeks the recovery from such an addiction would be complete and the cravings would cease, although you'd still need to make sure that you didn't fall back into old ways through habit.
I guess you should ask yourselves' whether the fetish makes you feel happy or depressed. It sounds like a behavioral pattern that would develop depression and anxiety complexes, rather than make you feel good about yourselves'. Perhaps it's an addiction of sorts that part of you wishes that you didn't have but you have no control over? If that is the case, you should really see a psychologist and a sex therapist to help you overcome your pattern of self abuse.
You don't necessarily have to abandon any notions that your penis size is inadequate for some partners. You could embrace the truth as you see it and enjoy feeling a sense of powerlessness, yet in a loving way, rather than in an abusive way. However, whilst that would be a much healthier sexual behavior, it might still encourage an addictive, fetishized behavioral pattern. You should ideally choose to recover from your fetish addiction entirely by reprogramming the neural pathways in your brain.
This can be done by forcing yourself to abandon all masterbation or sex that involves you fantasizing about humiliation, aswel as any porn that triggers such fantasies. Replacing such fantasies with healthier, loving fantasies, even if the're less exciting and stimulating than fantasies about humiliation at first. After a while, your brain will re-structure and develop new neural pathways and the fantasies about humiliation will start to die and the healthier fantasies that you have replaced them with will become increasingly more exciting and stimulating.
It would take several weeks, in which time the old, neural pathways triggered during humiliation fantasies would become bypassed by the new pathways developed, which would grow stronger as the old, unused pathways grew weaker. After several weeks the recovery from such an addiction would be complete and the cravings would cease, although you'd still need to make sure that you didn't fall back into old ways through habit.
sissywilly
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I too would love to have mine humiliated!!
love to wear panties and a bra so come and have a laugh
Pathetic_sissy_willy
love to wear panties and a bra so come and have a laugh
Pathetic_sissy_willy
sissywilly
Just Browsing
I too would love to have mine humiliated!!
love to wear panties and a bra so come and have a laugh
Pathetic_sissy_willy@yahoo.com
love to wear panties and a bra so come and have a laugh
Pathetic_sissy_willy@yahoo.com
D_Anna_Chonda
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My bf likes sph alot and it turns him on alot. His cock is 4.5" to 5". i like and get turned on saying how small/little/tiny it is. We would like to do some comparision on cam.
My addy is busty1981@hotmail.co.uk and my bf's is locke_fireclaw@hotmail.co.uk
serious and hopefully well hung ppl only plz
My addy is busty1981@hotmail.co.uk and my bf's is locke_fireclaw@hotmail.co.uk
serious and hopefully well hung ppl only plz
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Hi all, thanks for all the add's so far, if anyone else would like to add me to MSN for a chat or comparison on the addy above (locke_fireclaw@hotmail.co.uk), please feel free to do so.
Or, if any ladies want to do a little SPH or just have a friendly chat, would be more than welcome. :wink:
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Or, if any ladies want to do a little SPH or just have a friendly chat, would be more than welcome. :wink:
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I have no idea what the humiliator feels, but I know as the humiliatee it's quite hard to explain what you feel.
It's a little like...having doubt removed, which puts you at ease, at least in the situation my girlfriend and I are in.
Instead of wondering 'Is it big enough? Is it really that small?", it makes everything simple. Yes, it's small, and she now doesn't have any trouble telling me so, and for some reason I am still to understand, I enjoy that.
She isn't nasty in doing it, she just makes it fact that I have a small cock, she says that it does everything she wants it to when we have sex, and that's good enough for me.
In a way, knowing that she thinks it's small removes some inhibitions, and just lets me enjoy our sexual relationship more. It's small, she likes telling me, I like being told, pretty much that simple.
I don't feel like she respects me any less, in normal day to day couple relations, everything is still the same, she doesn't use my size as an insult, just a fun thing to do in the bedroom.
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It's a little like...having doubt removed, which puts you at ease, at least in the situation my girlfriend and I are in.
Instead of wondering 'Is it big enough? Is it really that small?", it makes everything simple. Yes, it's small, and she now doesn't have any trouble telling me so, and for some reason I am still to understand, I enjoy that.
She isn't nasty in doing it, she just makes it fact that I have a small cock, she says that it does everything she wants it to when we have sex, and that's good enough for me.
In a way, knowing that she thinks it's small removes some inhibitions, and just lets me enjoy our sexual relationship more. It's small, she likes telling me, I like being told, pretty much that simple.
I don't feel like she respects me any less, in normal day to day couple relations, everything is still the same, she doesn't use my size as an insult, just a fun thing to do in the bedroom.
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It's actually far more common than you think.
As this thread should've shown.
It's no more bizarre than this forum it's self.
As I said before, from my point of view it's actually a form of relief, removing all the doubt that most men have at one stage in their life or another of "Is my cock big enough?", this plagues a great many men, but they never actually say it, just keep it at the back of their mind all the time. For someone to say "Hey, you know..you have a small cock, but I think it looks great anyway, and it does everything I want it to...but yeah, it's small, and I have no problem telling you that, or reminding you that it's small!", it just removes the shroud of doubt.
It's actually not so different from all you well hung guys out there, it's just a different scale. I'm sure you all enjoy being told how big your cock is, at least on some level at some point. The difference is that for some reason people associate "big = good - small = bad", your assuming that being told your cock is small is a bad thing, it isn't, it's being honest.
Dem
As this thread should've shown.
It's no more bizarre than this forum it's self.
As I said before, from my point of view it's actually a form of relief, removing all the doubt that most men have at one stage in their life or another of "Is my cock big enough?", this plagues a great many men, but they never actually say it, just keep it at the back of their mind all the time. For someone to say "Hey, you know..you have a small cock, but I think it looks great anyway, and it does everything I want it to...but yeah, it's small, and I have no problem telling you that, or reminding you that it's small!", it just removes the shroud of doubt.
It's actually not so different from all you well hung guys out there, it's just a different scale. I'm sure you all enjoy being told how big your cock is, at least on some level at some point. The difference is that for some reason people associate "big = good - small = bad", your assuming that being told your cock is small is a bad thing, it isn't, it's being honest.
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D_Anna_Chonda
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thats true fallon2 but i cant see y guys get worried about there cock size some women worry about the size of their tits
