Small girl, Big guy...

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LeahCat: I'm a small girl myself (5`2) dating a pretty big guy (6`4) who happens to be hung on the extra thick side (9.4 x 7.7) so I think Ive got a rough idea of what you're experiencing. All of the advice given is excellent and really, you can't go past the watchwords - foreplay, lubrication and relaxation. What you will most likely find, as you become accustomed to his size is that you need less and less lubricant but thats getting a bit ahead of things.

Apart from those suggestions you could experiment with different positions. Not every person is built the same way so it might be that for you, sex in one of the three standard positions - missionary, you on top or doggie- doesn't quite work. So, something that is a variation on those three might be a more comfortable introduction. Perhaps, rather than have your partner penetrate you from a straight ahead position he could come in sort of on the side. Think of the layout of the vagina and then think of your problem. If he's too wide then entry at the widest point could be helpful.

Another thing that can be helpful is to have him cum at least once before penetration. Before he's ejaculated he'll be at his absolute thickest so if you can take the edge off, even slightly, it can be a help.

Just remember, relaxation is the key. If you arent fully relaxed you'll tense up and he wont be able to penetrate you comfortably. There are lots of things you can do for that, from Tantra (which we practise) to Yoga or, if you want a quicker fix, smoke a joint (Im really not joking about that even if it isnt terribly PC).

Good luck

 

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Originally posted by britlover+Feb 28 2005, 03:25 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(britlover &#064; Feb 28 2005, 03:25 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-the_force@Feb 28 2005, 02:01 PM
i don&#39;t know how accurate this is, but since i&#39;m one of the more thicker guys around here...i have a LOT of experience with this. Comfort level is very big...the thing that works for me is very simple. I LOVE oral sex...honestly, i&#39;d rather be down on a woman then fucking her for the most part. The wetter a woman on....the more turned on she is, and the more comfortable and relaxed she is, the better. For me, since i like it a lot, i&#39;ll probably stay down on a woman...a good half hour-45 minutes...before i even try sticking my cock into her. It&#39;s a matter of going slow...taking your time...having him talk to you doesn&#39;t hurt either...if he&#39;s a talker, like i am. I ask often "how are you feeling baby? Are you ok?" things like that...it makes the woman feel a lot safer with me. Then just proceed slowly...have him work a little in...and hold it...he&#39;s gotta be patient...a lot of patients is required for thicker men as i&#39;m sure a lot can attest to. ONce you feel comfortable with that size..tell him to go in a little more....do this as much as possible until you can&#39;t take anymore...that&#39;d be my advice I hope i helped

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Force: you make me feel like I wanna be a woman, sometimes&#33;&#33; :lol:

I have to say that you&#39;re a very generous lover. I know a lot of str8 guys that barely even go the cunnilingus route.

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Brit... we&#39;ve already called out Force for the fake he is, a la his pics, and the quantitative grandeur of his posts.... good fiction though.

 

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sex with my girlfriend used to be hard because she is so much shorter than me. she&#39;s 4&#39;7" (shes japanese) and I am 6&#39;2", so there is a big difference. I think the biggest problem was the size of my penis, I am much much longer than she is deep so certain positions would be very uncomfortable for her. over time we found out what worked and what didn&#39;t and now sex feels great.

 

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well, I thought I had become pretty stretched out to accomodate my partner, but after having se x every night for the past 3 & none for a 5 days before, I&#39;m back to soreness today.
Leahcat, I have to be lubricated at all times or I will say big "ouch" to my sweetie & will expect soreness the next day(plus he will get raw, if I&#39;m not lubed). I wasn&#39;t very well lubricated night before last & he entered at an angle & that put way too much pressure on the left wall of my vagina. Last night, he knew to take a little more time w/ helping me build up the lube. Every visit to the toilet, now, I&#39;m reminded of the soreness, particularly on the left side.

 

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Originally posted by Shelby@Feb 28 2005, 02:11 PM
You might want to practice with dildos of gradually increasing size. I believe they even make some that you can pump up a little at a time.

stretch :wow:

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