My girlfriend and I are in college and have been together for years, but she joined a sorority not too long ago and has been spending more and more time at parties that involve other males in a social setting. This in itself is no problem and I trust her, but her friends are a bit more cavalier and she often hears about their escapades and it is changing her opinion on being in a relationship in college. I know she loves me and everything about me, as do I her...but she oftentimes hears about guys being really "big" and of all the great things about me I am not exactly in that category... I am not "tiny" but at 5 inches long and 4 inches in girth I am not exactly big. We have made up for this by using toys and she is in love with a big real-life feeling dildo that has 8 inches insertable and is 6.25 inches thick. She oftentimes won't be able to orgasm with me but with her toy she has incredibly intense orgasms/multiple orgasms all the time. Recently she found out about squirting from a friend and is even more jealous of the things some of her sorority sisters do because she feels like she is missing out on living life in college. I think she secretly more and more wants to know what it would be like to be with a guy with a much bigger cock because the one thing she loves about mine is the heat and the body attached to it...and she can't get over how great her toy feels because of it's size. In all other aspects of sex (hands/tongue/romance/timing/not trying to be arrogant but pretty much everything else) I have no problem and my girlfriend agrees I'm experienced...but in order to make her orgasm she desperately needs to be filled up and really feel it. Any ideas what I can do? I would never want to impede on her social life or other things but I feel like she is drifting farther and farther apart because of something women try to say "doesn't matter."