Small Penis/Balls Guys and NUDISM

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I want to say the thing that assisted me the most was to have actually seen & experienced other real life bodies in a variety of sizes, shapes, and colors. Before that, I only had toxic and manipulative models, media, and porn to base my understanding of normality. This new insight has helped me over the years to become more confident and accepting of the body that I was given.
 

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Very well said!

It's as if the average pro basketball player (6'7") were presented as "a bit taller than the average guy". So even guys who are above average height are led to believe they're short.

I want to say the thing that assisted me the most was to have actually seen & experienced other real life bodies in a variety of sizes, shapes, and colors. Before that, I only had toxic and manipulative models, media, and porn to base my understanding of normality. This new insight has helped me over the years to become more confident and accepting of the body that I was given.
 

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to have actually seen & experienced other real life bodies in a variety of sizes, shapes, and colors.

People who make judgements (and those who hear them) about 'size' should keep in mind the comment above. More than a few times I've been in group settings and heard comments about a guy being 'small'. I look at the 'small' guy and see that his equipment is proportional to his body.

My crude, knee-jerk response is, "Well, you obviously haven't sucked much dick in your life if you honestly think that guy is undersized."
 

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I'd be(and am) too self-conscience to be naked in front of others for them to see my small stuff...

Even if it was my GF/BF/Wife/Husband and they say the love it...I'd still be scared of being naked. :(


You look good from here. ;-)
 

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You can see all the size spectrum in a nudist beach, from micropenises, to average (the most common) to fairly big penisis.

You can also see all different body tipes, from stunning gym lads to fat people to old saggy folks and gals.

That's because most nudists don't go to the beach to show off. We go to enjoy the sun, sand and water in the most rational way to take a bath: without clothes.
 

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I have a small dick. I think it looks great on me. I have zero inhibitions about other men seeing my penis at a nude beach or anywhere else that it's appropriate. In fact, I enjoy it. Fortunately, I work out at a gym with open showers, so other dudes see my penis all the time
 

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I'm with MattBoyMa. Your dick looks pretty good to me.

My advice would be to go to a nude beach with some friends. After 10 minutes of looking around you'll see you don't have the smallest dick there and you'll probably start feeling silly for wearing a swimsuit.

The other thing is that you don't have an obligation to deal with your insecurities. You can tell them to fuck off.

For example, I hate my fucked up skeleton. Saturday night i could stay home or go to a massage exchange during which I'll lose a lot of tension and probably shoot a load as well. either way Sunday morning I'll hate my fucked up skeleton. The only difference is that if I go to the massage exchange Saturday night I'll hate what I see in the mirror but I'll have empty balls and relaxed muscles.

My point is that the problem isn;t going to change, so why not have fun?


I'd be(and am) too self-conscience to be naked in front of others for them to see my small stuff...

Even if it was my GF/BF/Wife/Husband and they say the love it...I'd still be scared of being naked. :(
 

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Nudist beaches or resorts are not the preserve of those with perfect bodies. They are a place for those to congregate, who wish to enjoy their bodies without the restriction of clothing - however perfect their bodies may be.
 

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living nude sometimes is the best - and the best of all is running nude at beaches actually - feels so free, strong and no matter my avg. size at all! At the same time you get to see so many nice cocks of all sizes lol. And turned on by those views, once in a while in an early morning, i love to grow a boner made by the waves of the ocean hehe...

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Agreed. To put it another way for the more left-brained, analytic, & quantitative of us:

Compared with porn and with pretty much all of mainstream media, A few visits to a nude beach will give you a much more accurate idea of what guys' bodies look like ... not only the dick but the rest of the body as well. Mainstream media's representation of what a guy is supposed to look like is just as unrealistic as porn's representation of what average dick size is.

There's something else that's been mentioned once or twice in other threads. IMO, dick size is definitely included but it's just one of many items on the list.... Suppose you're turned on in general by a guy's body characteristics A, B, & C but characteristic D doesn't do anything for you. Now supposed you meet a guy who has the perfect A,B, and C for you, but his D is seriously fucked up. Do you stop trying to get into his pants because of D? I doubt it highly. You notice D but it's just not relevant. You're like, "Yeah. And this is important because...?"

I have two friends who definitely do not meet society's standards of 'attractive'. Yet my dick finds them EXTREMELY attractive. So I'm supposed to NOT get naked and have fantastic sex with them because of society's arbitrary standards. I think not, lol.

Nudist beaches or resorts are not the preserve of those with perfect bodies.

Nudists come in all shapes and sizes and plenty have smaller cocks.
 

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living nude sometimes is the best - and the best of all is running nude at beaches actually - feels so free, strong and no matter my avg. size at all! At the same time you get to see so many nice cocks of all sizes lol. And turned on by those views, once in a while in an early morning, i love to grow a boner made by the waves of the ocean hehe...

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well said, have the same feelings many times at the nude beach. like the pictures you posted.
 

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I’ve been a naturist for decades and am heavily involved in the running of our sun club. As a result I am often the one taking charge and taking on the alpha role in the group despite often having the smallest cock in the group.
It’s all about confidence and I am totally unselfconscious regarding my cock size. Here are some recent pictures of me enjoying the sun
 

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i love to run at nude beaches and naturally after sports my dick is always at it's max smallest possible state ever. It looks like i have only a glans in my pubes!

When i see some hung guys passing me by then they have a big smirking smile for me usually... it would be incredible to take comparison pics in such a moment!! Cock volume compared could be at 1:20!

Nevertheless, i have abolutely no shame to stand there proud and confident and wash my sweat off in the ocean. Later on it grows again back to normal soft size and sometimes i get even fully hard as i float in the water and no matter what, i'm just comfortable with myself and enjoy the nude lifestyle under the sun!

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i love to run at nude beaches and naturally after sports my dick is always at it's max smallest possible state ever. It looks like i have only a glans in my pubes!

When i see some hung guys passing me by then they have a big smirking smile for me usually... it would be incredible to take comparison pics in such a moment!! Cock volume compared could be at 1:20!

Nevertheless, i have abolutely no shame to stand there proud and confident and wash my sweat off in the ocean. Later on it grows again back to normal soft size and sometimes i get even fully hard as i float in the water and no matter what, i'm just comfortable with myself and enjoy the nude lifestyle under the sun!

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Are you fully hard in that second photo in the water?