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Small penis guy here....4 inches by 4.5 around...and I really have no idea if I have less sensation than big guys during sex.

My wife and I have a sex toy we use that is a penis extension...basically a hollow dido that slides over my dick. It is 7 inches long and 5.75 around. If we continue to have sex without the extension on after we started with it, we have both noticed a difference. I don't feel as much as usual, and she notices my smaller size even more. So i guess if there is less friction then yeah smaller guys might feel less.

I know our sex is really different with the extension and without it. We can do more, more positions, and she has orgasms from penetration with the extension. Without it she only has clitoral orgasms.
 

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delivery boy said:
Small penis guy here....4 inches by 4.5 around...and I really have no idea if I have less sensation than big guys during sex.

My wife and I have a sex toy we use that is a penis extension...basically a hollow dido that slides over my dick. It is 7 inches long and 5.75 around. If we continue to have sex without the extension on after we started with it, we have both noticed a difference. I don't feel as much as usual, and she notices my smaller size even more. So i guess if there is less friction then yeah smaller guys might feel less.

I know our sex is really different with the extension and without it. We can do more, more positions, and she has orgasms from penetration with the extension. Without it she only has clitoral orgasms.
That sounds awful. Did she recommend you do this?
 

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Charles Finn said:
you know this because?


Sorry, I should have specified. I wasn't saying there were more nerve endings in the back than front. (Most are up front) It's just that most people misinterpret that into "All are up front" and then say that size doesn't matter because of this. You could say that "size doesn't matter". But since there are nerve endings towards the back as well, it could be said that size makes a difference in both physical and mental stimulation.

I apologize if I seemed harsh. I'm extremely direct and "to the point" when I communicate. People will often think (because of this) that I have malicious intent when I say things directly. I don't mean any harm, I simply do not believe in sugarcoating or beating around the bush.
 

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Liberal Texan said:
That sounds awful. Did she recommend you do this?

It isn't awful. It is a fun toy actually. We both talk openly about my size, the pros and cons of it. We have a lot of toys, and that is just one of them. We use it maybe once every 20 times we have sex. She like sex without it, but it is just a change of pace. It is fun for me to pretend to be well hung. It is fun for her to have a different kind of orgasm. Like I said she usually only has clitoral orgasms. She really likes doggy style but only with the extension, so we get to do that position. It is kind of like roleplay.

I originally asked her is she wanted to try something like that, she said sure, so I went to the adult toy store to get one. If she had a hard time cumming without it and we didn't have a healthy sex life to begin with I probably never would have got it. After the first time we used it...which was her first experience with something that large....she wouldn't admit she liked it even though I could tell she did. She did not hide her enjoyment of it while we were using it. But she hardly ever asks for it and still has orgasms without it, so everything is cool. I am just happy knowing she enjoys it.
 

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My own personal preference. Different strokes for different folks.

I totally agree. A lot of people aren't going to like this, but I am very turned off at the sight of a small penis. It's not just about the penis, there are just certain things that I have a hard time keeping (or establishing) attraction with. Bad teeth, annoying voice, stupidity..etc.
If that makes me shallow, fine. If it makes me elitist, then so be it.
I'm not compromising what I find to be attractive or pleasing qualities just to spare someone's feelings.
People know what they are (or aren’t) attracted to, why chastise them for perusing it?
Many people are turned off by my brutal honesty.
That’s fine, then don’t like me. It’s your right.
 

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delivery boy said:
It isn't awful. It is a fun toy actually. We both talk openly about my size, the pros and cons of it. We have a lot of toys, and that is just one of them. We use it maybe once every 20 times we have sex. She like sex without it, but it is just a change of pace. It is fun for me to pretend to be well hung. It is fun for her to have a different kind of orgasm. Like I said she usually only has clitoral orgasms. She really likes doggy style but only with the extension, so we get to do that position. It is kind of like roleplay.

I originally asked her is she wanted to try something like that, she said sure, so I went to the adult toy store to get one. If she had a hard time cumming without it and we didn't have a healthy sex life to begin with I probably never would have got it. After the first time we used it...which was her first experience with something that large....she wouldn't admit she liked it even though I could tell she did. She did not hide her enjoyment of it while we were using it. But she hardly ever asks for it and still has orgasms without it, so everything is cool. I am just happy knowing she enjoys it.

Here's something to try then. Learn to get her off with a really small object - your pinky finger if you can do it. She will clamp down on it during orgasm. When you then pentrate her with your penis, it will feel like a much tighter fit.
 

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rope9839 said:
Here's something to try then. Learn to get her off with a really small object - your pinky finger if you can do it. She will clamp down on it during orgasm. When you then pentrate her with your penis, it will feel like a much tighter fit.

That is a great idea. I guess it would have the same effect going from a finger to my penis as it does going from my penis to the large toy.
 

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Intriguing posts. I would like to give another small penis perspective. I am a married man with a sub 5" penis. I am my wife's only lover, but I often wonder how she would react to a larger cock. I am able to bring my wife to an orgasm most times and our sex life is still sizzling.

In an earlier thread someone discussed sensitivity. I do agree that a smaller cock has more sensitivity and it provides an additional curse by causing some to be a bit quick. My wife and I joke about it now, but early on I could not last more than a stroke or two in her snug pussy. Being married a while I have built up enough control to last as long as she needs it, but initially it was a real battle.

My wife did not select me for my size or lack of size. However, I think if she had both she would select a larger one. A few years ago I surprised her with a cuke in some foreplay. We live a real conservative lifestyle, so this was a real gamble with me. The cuke was over 9" long and 6" around. After teasing her for a while with it, she hesitantly asked if I would tease it inside of her. Slowly and patiently I eased it in. Once that cuke reached beyond my reach I noticed a change in her. I know some will think I imagined it, but her eyes closed and she acted much more aggressive than usual. After I inserted an inch beyond where I ever entered she let out the loudest, deepest, most lustful moan I have ever heard her make. Jill took all 9" and orgasmed hard.

Sure, part of this could have been something new and daring, but it really enforced my thought that if given a choice that a woman would like a larger cock, as long as he was skilled and gentle with it. No one really likes pain. To answer your questions, yes, it was odd to enter her afterwards, since she was no longer tight for me, but within a few days I would not have guessed she had something that large in her.

I wrestle a lot with this subject. My wife is very hot and sexy, many of my friends have told me so. Brunette, 36DD, and a face that you can get lost in. I feel that she has given me anything I could have wanted and she is getting a bit ripped. Oddly, I enjoy stories where women are exposed to their first big one.

Sorry to bore you. Most of you guys on here are very lucky, indeed.
 

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Intriguing posts. I would like to give another small penis perspective. I am a married man with a sub 5" penis. I am my wife's only lover, but I often wonder how she would react to a larger cock. I am able to bring my wife to an orgasm most times and our sex life is still sizzling.
Doesn't sound like you have any problems.

My wife did not select me for my size or lack of size. However, I think if she had both she would select a larger one.
How do you know?
A few years ago I surprised her with a cuke in some foreplay. We live a real conservative lifestyle, so this was a real gamble with me. The cuke was over 9" long and 6" around. After teasing her for a while with it, she hesitantly asked if I would tease it inside of her. Slowly and patiently I eased it in. Once that cuke reached beyond my reach I noticed a change in her. I know some will think I imagined it, but her eyes closed and she acted much more aggressive than usual. After I inserted an inch beyond where I ever entered she let out the loudest, deepest, most lustful moan I have ever heard her make. Jill took all 9" and orgasmed hard.
And the awesome, powerful orgasm she had was with you using produce on her, not some other guy's huge cock.

Sure, part of this could have been something new and daring, but it really enforced my thought that if given a choice that a woman would like a larger cock, as long as he was skilled and gentle with it. No one really likes pain. To answer your questions, yes, it was odd to enter her afterwards, since she was no longer tight for me, but within a few days I would not have guessed she had something that large in her.
I always thought vaginas snapped back quickly unless the stretching was repeated. Of COURSE she's gonna be stretched out after you stick a cucumber in her! I had one girlfriend who was never tight for me (or anyone I suspect).

I wrestle a lot with this subject. My wife is very hot and sexy, many of my friends have told me so. Brunette, 36DD, and a face that you can get lost in. I feel that she has given me anything I could have wanted and she is getting a bit ripped. Oddly, I enjoy stories where women are exposed to their first big one.
You're lucky to have such a hot wife. You said in the first paragraph that your sex life is sizzling. If you read nothing else I write, read this: If you think it's somehow your duty to go recruit some hung stud to fuck your wife, realize you're opening pandora's box. Few relationships can handle bringing another party in. You've already said how wonderful your relationship and sex life are. You sound like you have it very, very good. If your wife wasn't into you, you'd know it by now. Sex would seem like a chore and she'd drop subtle little hints.

Sorry to bore you. Most of you guys on here are very lucky, indeed.
There are other ways to be lucky. I wouldn't know how it is to have any other kind of cock. I have a good friend who is a famous artist. I think he's about your size. One day he said to me "I'd love to know just for a weekend what it would be like to be you and have your big dick". I replied. "and I'd love to know what it's like to have amazing talent like yours" Men obsess way more about dicks than women do. You're truly a lucky man. Don't fuck it up.
 

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i've been with a few average guys but not small. however in college i slept over at a male friend's apartment- with him in his bed. At some point during the night he took all his clothes off. In the morning, the sheets were tossed around and I saw his full on erection, and he was very small. He was still asleep and I kept staring at it, not really turned on, but oddly fascinated by it's tinyness.
 
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charlie_1962 said:
Intriguing posts. I would like to give another small penis perspective. I am a married man with a sub 5" penis. I am my wife's only lover, but I often wonder how she would react to a larger cock. I am able to bring my wife to an orgasm most times and our sex life is still sizzling.

In an earlier thread someone discussed sensitivity. I do agree that a smaller cock has more sensitivity and it provides an additional curse by causing some to be a bit quick. My wife and I joke about it now, but early on I could not last more than a stroke or two in her snug pussy. Being married a while I have built up enough control to last as long as she needs it, but initially it was a real battle.

My wife did not select me for my size or lack of size. However, I think if she had both she would select a larger one. A few years ago I surprised her with a cuke in some foreplay. We live a real conservative lifestyle, so this was a real gamble with me. The cuke was over 9" long and 6" around. After teasing her for a while with it, she hesitantly asked if I would tease it inside of her. Slowly and patiently I eased it in. Once that cuke reached beyond my reach I noticed a change in her. I know some will think I imagined it, but her eyes closed and she acted much more aggressive than usual. After I inserted an inch beyond where I ever entered she let out the loudest, deepest, most lustful moan I have ever heard her make. Jill took all 9" and orgasmed hard.

Sure, part of this could have been something new and daring, but it really enforced my thought that if given a choice that a woman would like a larger cock, as long as he was skilled and gentle with it. No one really likes pain. To answer your questions, yes, it was odd to enter her afterwards, since she was no longer tight for me, but within a few days I would not have guessed she had something that large in her.

I wrestle a lot with this subject. My wife is very hot and sexy, many of my friends have told me so. Brunette, 36DD, and a face that you can get lost in. I feel that she has given me anything I could have wanted and she is getting a bit ripped. Oddly, I enjoy stories where women are exposed to their first big one.

Sorry to bore you. Most of you guys on here are very lucky, indeed.

My wife had a similar reaction the first time I used the 7 inch extension that I mentioned earlier, and I believe that you did not imagine it. Her reaction was different than it is with my small penis. She also feels a little looser after we use it, but the next time we have sex it is back to normal.

I totally understand your fascination with your wife taking something larger...and I also understand your interest in hearing stories of women being exposed to a large cock for the first time. I suppose that is why I am here.

Luckily we both seem to have a good sex life with using our regular or smaller sized dicks, but it is fun to explore different options in bed.
 
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I've never had a small penis encounter, well my cousin used to flash his cock to me and my mates. That's if you can call it a cock (I can joke cos he's my cousin :p). It was pencil thin and drawing pin long. But that was a few years ago and he's got a lot taller and is really built now so who knows.

One time, a mate was going round grabbing people's crotches (yeah pretty gay). He grabbed mine then said I had small balls (*gasp*) and grabbed another mate's too and didn't say anything. I think the small balls comment was to make himself feel better since me and I suspect the other mate whose balls he grabbed, are above average in dick size. I don't think my balls are that small...and the guy who was going round grabbing crotches claimed to be 9.5"...but who knows.

That's about it. I see beautiful girls (a lot of them) and think for some reason they must deserve a big cock. Of course most of them don't give a shit and are even SHY which I just don't get. Of course beautiful but humble is better than beautiful and bitchy. Of course I spose the least a girl needs is 5" and average thickness. I hope that covers everything this topic wanted to discuss :)
 

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...I had a terrible encounter once. I was out clubbing and met a guy I´ve seen a couple of times before at my gym and I had always thought he was goodlooking and a hot body. We actually had flirted a few times but not really got to talk to eachother until this night out. So we did and he bought me a drink and we had a good time and later on we started to kiss and then we ended up in his place and bed and well we were about to have sex and got undressed and after getting him all naked I saw it :eek: ...and I got turned off at once and just didnt felt to go on. So I faked and told him I felt sick and just didnt felt like continue...and I felt terrible but I just so turned off and after a while I went home...dunno how big/small it was but it was smaaaall :frown1:
 
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ive met quite a lot of guys and in my exp average hard size is 5.3 inches. and on the size issue 2.5 inch is the smallest i encountered, the size of the other guys cock is not a problem for me , but what really pisses me off is 90% apologise for having a small one //