I'm not sure who that was but I guess the one advantage for me in my perception that I had a smaller than average penis (although apparently not) was that maybe I have more empathy.I would really like yo know about the person who chose positive. I can't even imagine a situation where having a small penis would be a good thing.
I'm not sure who that was but I guess the one advantage for me in my perception that I had a smaller than average penis (although apparently not) was that maybe I have more empathy.
I would really like yo know about the person who chose positive. I can't even imagine a situation where having a small penis would be a good thing.
Dear Chipmunk, your attitude makes you very attractive ... I'm sure many equines agree ...Guilty!
I debated between "positive" and "very positive" and went with positive. I consider myself one of the luckiest and happiest guys in the world, so having a small cock can't be all that bad.
Sure, it has its drawbacks. When I first started showering in PE and after team practice, I was extremely embarrassed. After awhile, however, I actually started to get turned on by it. It's sometimes a problem in sex. I know I'm not the greatest lay in the Western Hemisphere, but still have had a great sex life. I know I've laid a lot more women than most guys have. I ended up with a gorgeous wife, who's also my best friend. The latter two facts undoubtedly leaves guys who've seen me naked at the gym scratching their heads!
I think it wasn't as big a problem with me as it may have been for other small-hung guys. First off, my basic personality was set before I entered puberty. Secondly, I came from a very supportive and loving family. Thirdly, I was very active in sports, which gave me a lot of self-confidence. Fourthly, being tall, good-looking and well-built usually compensated for my lack of size with women.
I don't know whether this counts as a positive per se, but I've integrated having a small cock into my sexuality. Something like a fetish. Whatever, it turns me on a lot. I don't think I'd really enjoy sex in the same way if I had a bigger cock.
I've always believed you make things how you want them. Only you can determine how you'll react to things. I tend to view the glass as not half empty, nor as half-full, but as overflowing.
Sorry to hear that. What is your size? I'm actually supposedly slighty above average but think about it daily, too. And yes also affects my performance. Plus to complicate things, I've become somewhat of a size queen myself. Now that dick size is such an easy data point to get on pretty much anyone.Very Negative... I think about it every day, and in this modern age where everyone is a size queen, it's affecting my ''hookup/dating life''... on top of that, I am so anxious and conscious about it that sometimes I even have troubles maintaining an erection when I'm with someone...
Very Negative... I think about it every day, and in this modern age where everyone is a size queen, it's affecting my ''hookup/dating life''... on top of that, I am so anxious and conscious about it that sometimes I even have troubles maintaining an erection when I'm with someone...
Excellent response. Funny though you let out a truth....besides personality I think there generally are three major features of gay male attractiveness that might be all equal: face, body, and cock.Hi, I hope I can change your mind a bit. In my experience, there's a difference between "fantasy size queen-ness" and "real-life size queen-ness". Like most people I get massively turned on by a huge cock when watching porn or for a mutual wank hookup, but when it comes down to a more involved hookup, I'm definitely not seeking a big dong. Most of my best hookups were with guys who were hung average or smaller than average.
Always bear in mind that a nice face or a hot body are definitely as important as penis size for a lot of people. For me, a love partner with hard muscles + small cock = heaven, and I'm sure I'm not the only one.
I don't know if you use dating/hookup sites, but if you do, maybe you should include a body pic which clearly shows that you have a small cock. Then you can filter out the "size queens" and avoid any "disappointment"/hurtful experiences . You'll know for sure that when someone is interested in hooking up with you, they don't care that you're not hung large, they like other things about you. And hey when it comes down to action time, if your partner is hard when you're naked together, then that definitely means he finds you hot, small cock or not.
Which only shows their ignorance on how men are hung - no relationship between size overall and size between the legs. I am a five incher erect, and consider that lower side of average according to most internet size calcs. However over all I have no problem with it, walk around naked in change rooms although not deliverately exhibitionist, and believe my overall fitness look is more important that the size of my manhood.Since im so tall, 6'4, and 190lbs fit, my size 5.5x4.5 seems small from an optics perspective and everyone always expects me to be hung.
Its not all about your cock work - what do you do you turn a partner on? What do you do to give them the hottest night they have ever had? Do you shove in a cock and expect them to be hitting 10 on the Richter scale? Do you take time to find out where they want you to work them up? Contary to popular male believe its not just about our cocks!Very Negative... I think about it every day, and in this modern age where everyone is a size queen, it's affecting my ''hookup/dating life''... on top of that, I am so anxious and conscious about it that sometimes I even have troubles maintaining an erection when I'm with someone...