Small Penis: Impact On Your Life

If you have what you perceive to be a small penis, how has it affected your life?

  • Very positive

    Votes: 5 4.5%
  • Positive

    Votes: 5 4.5%
  • Somewhat Positive

    Votes: 8 7.3%
  • Somewhat Negative

    Votes: 28 25.5%
  • Negative

    Votes: 25 22.7%
  • Very Negative

    Votes: 24 21.8%
  • Not in any meaningful way positive or negative

    Votes: 15 13.6%

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I had what I perceived to be a small penis most of my life because when it is in it's most cold or retracted state it is quite small, okay when relaxed, and yet fairly robust when erect. I voted for somewhat negative because it has become somewhat of a distraction and because it is small when flaccid that feeling of embarrassment lead me to not want to be in public showers and gyms and in public nude situations. Overall probably negatively affected both my physical health and mental health. I think I've mostly recovered from it though.
 
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I would really like yo know about the person who chose positive. I can't even imagine a situation where having a small penis would be a good thing.
I'm not sure who that was but I guess the one advantage for me in my perception that I had a smaller than average penis (although apparently not) was that maybe I have more empathy.
 

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I'm not sure who that was but I guess the one advantage for me in my perception that I had a smaller than average penis (although apparently not) was that maybe I have more empathy.

I relate to that. Having a smaller penis has made me more empathetic, and humble, better at giving oral to a woman, and makes me appreciate what a huge cock can do.
 

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I would really like yo know about the person who chose positive. I can't even imagine a situation where having a small penis would be a good thing.

Guilty!

I debated between "positive" and "very positive" and went with positive. I consider myself one of the luckiest and happiest guys in the world, so having a small cock can't be all that bad.

Sure, it has its drawbacks. When I first started showering in PE and after team practice, I was extremely embarrassed. After awhile, however, I actually started to get turned on by it. It's sometimes a problem in sex. I know I'm not the greatest lay in the Western Hemisphere, but still have had a great sex life. I know I've laid a lot more women than most guys have. I ended up with a gorgeous wife, who's also my best friend. The latter two facts undoubtedly leaves guys who've seen me naked at the gym scratching their heads!

I think it wasn't as big a problem with me as it may have been for other small-hung guys. First off, my basic personality was set before I entered puberty. Secondly, I came from a very supportive and loving family. Thirdly, I was very active in sports, which gave me a lot of self-confidence. Fourthly, being tall, good-looking and well-built usually compensated for my lack of size with women.

I don't know whether this counts as a positive per se, but I've integrated having a small cock into my sexuality. Something like a fetish. Whatever, it turns me on a lot. I don't think I'd really enjoy sex in the same way if I had a bigger cock.

I've always believed you make things how you want them. Only you can determine how you'll react to things. I tend to view the glass as not half empty, nor as half-full, but as overflowing.
 
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Guilty!

I debated between "positive" and "very positive" and went with positive. I consider myself one of the luckiest and happiest guys in the world, so having a small cock can't be all that bad.

Sure, it has its drawbacks. When I first started showering in PE and after team practice, I was extremely embarrassed. After awhile, however, I actually started to get turned on by it. It's sometimes a problem in sex. I know I'm not the greatest lay in the Western Hemisphere, but still have had a great sex life. I know I've laid a lot more women than most guys have. I ended up with a gorgeous wife, who's also my best friend. The latter two facts undoubtedly leaves guys who've seen me naked at the gym scratching their heads!

I think it wasn't as big a problem with me as it may have been for other small-hung guys. First off, my basic personality was set before I entered puberty. Secondly, I came from a very supportive and loving family. Thirdly, I was very active in sports, which gave me a lot of self-confidence. Fourthly, being tall, good-looking and well-built usually compensated for my lack of size with women.

I don't know whether this counts as a positive per se, but I've integrated having a small cock into my sexuality. Something like a fetish. Whatever, it turns me on a lot. I don't think I'd really enjoy sex in the same way if I had a bigger cock.

I've always believed you make things how you want them. Only you can determine how you'll react to things. I tend to view the glass as not half empty, nor as half-full, but as overflowing.
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To be a ladies Man U need a powerful dck

my dck is long and skinny

women do not like this

I’m over eight inches but women like girth so I’m still trying to add girth through pumping

before joining this sight I was 7.5 inches but I’ve been doing PE

if I had a fat ten inch my body count would sick right now
 
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I voted not positive or negative. I am very small when flaccid, a grower as I am average when erect. I found in my single life that men cared more about size than the ladies. Unless you are really tiny when erect, most women don't really care. From the women who chatted about it, they said that while many guys are different when flaccid, most are within an inch either way when erect and they cared about how you were in bed, not the size of the erection which is why it never really impacted me.
 

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Very Negative... I think about it every day, and in this modern age where everyone is a size queen, it's affecting my ''hookup/dating life''... on top of that, I am so anxious and conscious about it that sometimes I even have troubles maintaining an erection when I'm with someone...
 

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Very Negative... I think about it every day, and in this modern age where everyone is a size queen, it's affecting my ''hookup/dating life''... on top of that, I am so anxious and conscious about it that sometimes I even have troubles maintaining an erection when I'm with someone...
Sorry to hear that. What is your size? I'm actually supposedly slighty above average but think about it daily, too. And yes also affects my performance. Plus to complicate things, I've become somewhat of a size queen myself. Now that dick size is such an easy data point to get on pretty much anyone.
 
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Very Negative... I think about it every day, and in this modern age where everyone is a size queen, it's affecting my ''hookup/dating life''... on top of that, I am so anxious and conscious about it that sometimes I even have troubles maintaining an erection when I'm with someone...

Hi, I hope I can change your mind a bit. In my experience, there's a difference between "fantasy size queen-ness" and "real-life size queen-ness". Like most people I get massively turned on by a huge cock when watching porn or for a mutual wank hookup, but when it comes down to a more involved hookup, I'm definitely not seeking a big dong. Most of my best hookups were with guys who were hung average or smaller than average.

Always bear in mind that a nice face or a hot body are definitely as important as penis size for a lot of people. For me, a love partner with hard muscles + small cock = heaven, and I'm sure I'm not the only one.

I don't know if you use dating/hookup sites, but if you do, maybe you should include a body pic which clearly shows that you have a small cock. Then you can filter out the "size queens" and avoid any "disappointment"/hurtful experiences . You'll know for sure that when someone is interested in hooking up with you, they don't care that you're not hung large, they like other things about you. And hey when it comes down to action time, if your partner is hard when you're naked together, then that definitely means he finds you hot, small cock or not.
 

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Hi, I hope I can change your mind a bit. In my experience, there's a difference between "fantasy size queen-ness" and "real-life size queen-ness". Like most people I get massively turned on by a huge cock when watching porn or for a mutual wank hookup, but when it comes down to a more involved hookup, I'm definitely not seeking a big dong. Most of my best hookups were with guys who were hung average or smaller than average.

Always bear in mind that a nice face or a hot body are definitely as important as penis size for a lot of people. For me, a love partner with hard muscles + small cock = heaven, and I'm sure I'm not the only one.

I don't know if you use dating/hookup sites, but if you do, maybe you should include a body pic which clearly shows that you have a small cock. Then you can filter out the "size queens" and avoid any "disappointment"/hurtful experiences . You'll know for sure that when someone is interested in hooking up with you, they don't care that you're not hung large, they like other things about you. And hey when it comes down to action time, if your partner is hard when you're naked together, then that definitely means he finds you hot, small cock or not.
Excellent response. Funny though you let out a truth....besides personality I think there generally are three major features of gay male attractiveness that might be all equal: face, body, and cock.
 
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I get awkward stares in locker rooms....have been gossiped about behind my back upon friends hearing from a hookup that my soft dick sits up on my balls....I was with a sweetheart woman for five years who sexual frustration built to a boiling point from not being satisfied so that relationship crashed...back when CL was open, I literally spent hours trying to get some ass while my buddies with BBC (roommates) leave out thru the night one by one to go get action.
A black man with a small penis is the least respected and most disrespected man in the world.
 
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Since im so tall, 6'4, and 190lbs fit, my size 5.5x4.5 seems small from an optics perspective and everyone always expects me to be hung.
Which only shows their ignorance on how men are hung - no relationship between size overall and size between the legs. I am a five incher erect, and consider that lower side of average according to most internet size calcs. However over all I have no problem with it, walk around naked in change rooms although not deliverately exhibitionist, and believe my overall fitness look is more important that the size of my manhood.
 
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Very Negative... I think about it every day, and in this modern age where everyone is a size queen, it's affecting my ''hookup/dating life''... on top of that, I am so anxious and conscious about it that sometimes I even have troubles maintaining an erection when I'm with someone...
Its not all about your cock work - what do you do you turn a partner on? What do you do to give them the hottest night they have ever had? Do you shove in a cock and expect them to be hitting 10 on the Richter scale? Do you take time to find out where they want you to work them up? Contary to popular male believe its not just about our cocks!