Small Penis Sex

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by poshboy, Nov 24, 2008.

  1. poshboy

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    Would you date and/or have sex with someone with a small penis? I have been seeing someone for a few weeks that I really like. I am really getting worried about the moment where he finds out that I have a small penis. I know he has a huge package, I don't know exactly how hung. If you thought someone was an otherwise good catch, would a small penis be a deal breaker??
     

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    If he thinks more about the size of your penis than of you, then your better off without him. If you like and love someone you accept them for what and whom they are. Don't worry.
     
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    For me penis size is usually only important with anonymous sex. I have my fantasy guy in mind then. But when I've had a chance for an LTR I find that all my standards go by the board and all I care about is if I really like him.
     
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    Agree with smartalk. Your's is fine. Looks quiet tasty in the pics.
     
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    Thanks guys, this is not something that I would go to friend for. I appreciate the replies.
     
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    remember that old tune, "it's not the meat it's the motion".
     
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    Actually, I had always heard it as, "it's not the size of the boat it's the motion of the ocean."

    From what I have seen on this board, I think size is less of an issue with gay men. For many women size, either too big or too large is a deal breaker.
     
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    here is my analysis (I know, worth nothing):

    1. There is the small penised guy (we have several who've commented on this page) who is totally confident and doesn't seem to "know or care" that he's not been blessed with a large cock. These guys do well in bed and in life!

    2. There is the small guy who makes his size an object of sexual fun and desire (sph, etc.). These guys are lots of fun and great to be with.

    3. There is the in between guy who has let his situation destroy his confidence and eat away his personality. His soul is more withered than his dick. These are the guys to avoid.
     
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    i guess its true what eyemready said, if ur confident it radiates and i bet hed have more fun with you then a man with a large cock who is all nervous
     
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    Tell him (what have you got to lose??). I had one of the most amazing sex sessions with a great bloke with a small penis - still think about it regularly !
     
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    My best friend is a bit of a liberated slut when not in a serious relationship and she tells me about her lovers. I remember some months ago she told me she was in a club and she exchanged eye contact with a guy who was very much what she is attracted to, they flirted on distance until later on the night he reapeared toward her and just kissed her, they went dancing...etc and ended up at his place...before having sex and a bit drunk, he told her kind of laughing that he had a small penis....she didn't mind, she said.
    It was difficult with the condom sliping off but nevertheless she was so attracted to him and he was a good lover, so she told me she even fucked him another day.

    Bottom line, penis size can be a downbeat or an upbeat for the receiving end, but not a deal breaker for most people.
     
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    Don't think that you should worry about this too much. If you like each other, then the size really won't matter at all. The both of you will start to explore each other and learn how you can please each one of you. So, relax, be cool and have fun exploring...
     
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    Only once have I turned down someone because of his small penis. I wasn't keen on him in the first place but he was persistant and I thought I'd give it a try. If he'd had a huge wang I might have gone through with it but only for the wrong reasons - objectifying him. As it was, the total package didn't work for me so we called a halt. I didn't tell him his cock was too small for me because that wasn't really the reason. I'm currently seeing a guy with an even smaller penis but this guy works for me.

    So no, if a guy is otherwise a good catch, his cock size doesn't really matter. It is part of the equation, but only a small (lol) part.
     
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    If he really loves you it will not matter. Let us know how it goes. Please update us.
     
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    Smarttalk and littlelemon are right on in their comments.
    As you, I was at one time worried too, but soon discovered that
    if it was a problem for a another....then it was "their" problem and
    not mine. Maybe your new friend likes you for you and he is
    worried that he just might be too big for you..:shrug: It can
    work two ways, you know!

    If you have confidence in yourself, and work on your techniques
    and give your all, then I assure you, poshboy you will not
    have problems....they probably won't even notice that you aren't
    hung like a horse.....and will come back for more and more!

    What you have is nice looking and you centainly have enough for
    it to work, and work well, so forget about it and just enjoy what
    comes you way.

    lovenuts50 was right too, but I'd say it as my father said it
    to me...when just turning 13, and I was worried that I wasn't big
    enough....
    "it's not the size that matters, but how well you use it."

    Good Luck man, and ENJOY!!!
     
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    penis size really doesn't matter that much.
     
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    Question: would I date or have sex with someone with a small penis?

    Answer: Absolutely! #1: It's somewhat of a turn-on. #2 Size isn't that important. If I'm into you, then I'm into you. No further questions.

    Bring it on!
    DP
     
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    i dated a guy or several months who was smaller than you. the only reason we stopped dating is because he moved out of state. we never once talked about the size of his dick but had a very full and pleasant sex life
     
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    I've had sex with guys smaller than myself and one guy with a true micropenis. It doesn't matter to me because I'm a top as it is and I love a cock I can take in one mouthful and particularly so since I have a sensitive gag reflex and narrow airway. Anything more than 6 inches is work for me; I have to be conscious of what I'm doing. Guys 6 or smaller, otoh, I can just dive down on with abandon, licking, slurping, moving my head all the way up and down really quickly and I know my tongue is stroking the other guy's entire shaft. It's not only easier for me, but makes me believe I'm able to satisfy him better and that's a big confidence booster.

    One of the great ironies of my life is that the more time I spend in an internet forum devoted to big dicks, the less impressed I am by them.
     
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