The longer I stay here in this forum, the more amazed I am about our collective (tormenting) issues over "size".
I don't think there will EVER be one pat "definitive" answer over which is better...small or large.
We're all individuals with our own preferences and that's good.
What complicates life for us (I think) is our present day culture and the emphasis we put upon appearance.
The visual imagery appeal is supposedly stronger in men than in women but women obviously are aroused too, to some degree as well by "what they see".
Men (in their natural competitiveness) want to have the biggest male equipment possible.
This forum is one whereby "large" seemingly reigns supreme and so the average (smaller) men then feel short-cheated in life. --No wonder.
Thankfully, there are women in the world who, through honesty (or, their genuine kindness and sensitivity), will testify that it's the man himself , his heart, his technique of making love that really matters and NOT his "size".
But then, along comes another "dose" of the world again around us (media, hype, spam about PE, etc) and we ALL wind up once more believing a large penis is absolutely imperative to ever be happy.
Such a vicious cycle we're all apart of here!
And , we call this forum F U N ??
(Yes....we do!
)
What sheer irony and yet....I'm right here, too with the rest of us....too riveted to leave!
Self esteem issues?
More often than not---the LPSG is definitely the WRONG place to be at times. But,-- it's not any one member's fault necessarily, either. It's just the way things are.
--Probably always will be.
Comes right back to the individual and "what" he or she chooses to believe in and, to live by.
btw ladies, all men like to have a compliment now and then about their sexual prowess.
Please TRY to make it sound like it's "sincere"