Smarter ladies have worse sex.

[hud01]

Even here where the women are more sexually open and experimental and confident, many of the women have said that they do not talk about sex with their partners or tell their partners what they want or enjoy in bed, and that they want men who will just be able to pick up on their clues and know without having to tell them, mostly because they felt that talking would ruin sex or be uncomfortable. I think this is a naive expectation. You just aren't going to get what you want in bed unless you're comfortable enough with your partner that you can and do talk about sex. When I want something for dinner, I don't expect my waiter to just read me and know whether I want the lobster or the duck. I think it's a very unfair towards men to have that expectation, and I think it's not very healthy to have a sexual relationship where the partners don't talk about sex with one another.

I made a thread about it:

http://www.lpsg.org/183286-dirty-kinky-and-sexy-or.html

No_Punny asked women their opinion on talking about sex:

http://www.lpsg.org/168211-hey-question-for-the-girls.html

Talking is a must. I can read the edges of your mind, and probably get you off, but tell me the way you really like it.

Also taking the lead. To me there is nothing hotter than a woman who can take charge in bed. Not all the time, but enough to keep the sex from getting boring.

One of my favorites was when a girl I was living with used to lie down on the bed in the morning before work with her legs on her chest and say just fuck me. No foreplay, she wanted it hard and fast.

She also woudn't be shy about saying, I want you to go down on me. Converesly there were days I would go into the kitchen, put my hands on her shoulders and she would go to her knees and suck me.

Verbal or non-verbal it doesn't matter.

 

[Trouty]

There is no doubt studies that have revealed that women use a different side of their brain to orgasm

Jeez, I've only just discovered where the clitoris is on a woman and now you're telling me they use their brains

ps sorry for the selective quoting - I couldn't resist :redface:

 

[HazelGod]

Duh...why else do you see so many women saying they love having their brains fucked out?

 

[deleted356736]

Given that only about 17% of women orgasm from sex, there are going to be a lot of people unsatisfied physically if they are looking for an orgasm from sex alone and it is not being acheived by means that are more practical for that.

Do you mean intercourse rather than sex? Classifying intercourse as 'sex' complete is actually a Christian anti-sex construct. It follows from the basic Christian theology that mankind has been made in God's image, and sex is too animal-like an activity for a divine creature like man. But if you're going to have sex, then it should only be for procreation (that is, intercourse).

For me, I clasify everything my wife and I do as 'sex', which often includes oral sex or other variations on my wife until she orgasms, and then we usually move to intercourse, and she may or may not orgasm again. Even if using this expanded view of sex, I believe that something like 40% of women don't regularly experience orgasm (from oral sex, manual stimulation, intercourse, whatever). I would guess that the 17% of women orgasming from intercourse is about right.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

sex = intercourse for most people. Coitus = sex and Coitus = intercourse.

So about 17% of woman who not orgasm from COITUS/INTERCOURSE/SEX and this excludes any type of foreplay. The in/out in/out penis in vagina action is not designed to have an orgasm for most women.

 

[Sergeant_Torpedo]

Rubbish!

 

[sbat]

What the hell is "smart"?

Is it high IQ? High EQ? Both in combination?

What women would NOT qualify as smart? What woman would NOT consider herself smart?

As stated, most studies that are reprinted in popular news media generally have questionable methodology and extremely simplified conclusions.

 

[RawDog]

Did I miss the link to this article?

 

[D_Tina_Ciao]

BRAINY babes find it harder to have an orgasm – because they are too busy thinking, a study published in the Sun on 25 Apr 2008 claims.
The German survey found that the more educated a woman was, the less likely it was that she would be satisfied by sex.
In the study 62 per cent of women who had completed their education said they often had problems achieving orgasm.
Only 38 per cent of women with a lower educational qualification said they had such problems.
The study conducted by a German lifestyle website surveyed over 2,000 women between the ages of 18 and 49.

Do you agree with the study's findings?

PHAAAAA!!! No!!!!!! (IQ 139, BFA, 3 courses shy of an MEd with a perfect 4.0 average and I *love* sex - with love - and have no problems having 30 second to 3 minute orgasms - often! :biggrin1 Of course, I'm 69, so I don't fit the statistics, AND I believe all aspects of sex, including oral, fingering, etc. should be included as a part of sex, not just penetration. My first husband always drove me over the top and aroused me to the point of orgasm before he penetrated with his 9" by 7" and I adored him - smart man/great lover then - dumb now.

 

[B_Hickboy]

BRAINY babes find it harder to have an orgasm – because they are too busy thinking, a study published in the Sun on 25 Apr 2008 claims.
The German survey found that the more educated a woman was, the less likely it was that she would be satisfied by sex.
In the study 62 per cent of women who had completed their education said they often had problems achieving orgasm.
Only 38 per cent of women with a lower educational qualification said they had such problems.
The study conducted by a German lifestyle website surveyed over 2,000 women between the ages of 18 and 49.

Do you agree with the study's findings?

Nah. MB is one of the most intelligent people I've ever met, and she gets off with delicious regularity.

 

[THEDUDEofDestiny]

yeah but don't you, by definition, meet a lot of hicks, hickboy?

 

[B_Hickboy]

yeah but don't you, by definition, meet a lot of hicks, hickboy?

No.

 

[Wish-4-8]

Geez, wasnt there a thread here that said educated women are more into sex because their intelligence makes them kinkier? They know more about stuff so are more open minded and thus, enjoy sex better.

These articles are always contradicting each other. I wonder what next months article will be.

 

[Wish-4-8]

Do you mean intercourse rather than sex? Classifying intercourse as 'sex' complete is actually a Christian anti-sex construct. It follows from the basic Christian theology that mankind has been made in God's image, and sex is too animal-like an activity for a divine creature like man. But if you're going to have sex, then it should only be for procreation (that is, intercourse).

For me, I clasify everything my wife and I do as 'sex', which often includes oral sex or other variations on my wife until she orgasms, and then we usually move to intercourse, and she may or may not orgasm again. Even if using this expanded view of sex, I believe that something like 40% of women don't regularly experience orgasm (from oral sex, manual stimulation, intercourse, whatever). I would guess that the 17% of women orgasming from intercourse is about right.

Geez, no wonder there is so much on womens minds. "Hey honey, what type of sex do you want to have tonight?
A. Oral sex
B. Intercourse
C. Intercourse without the purpose of procreation.
D. Anal
E. Combos

And how do you want to finish?
A. You first, orgasm bt oral.
B. You first by penatration -without the purpose of procreation.
C. You first by penatration -with the purpose of procreation.
D. Me last but on your face, mouth, tits, back, ass.


(I am just making a joke of it.)

 

[GogMegog]

Yes, I agree with the findings of this survey. And may be can reveal the cause of this problem.
Educated, smarter or civilised ladies have more self respect and a grown, mateure personality. Most of the sex made these days is like a porn movie.
Men start with puting his shaft in her mouth and start the oral job.
Then comes the number of pussy and efforts are made in to and fro directions and changing positions in short intervals.
Some people then go beyond to anal and last this action in a tight hole, while others who dislike or whom partner don't agree, finish their work in vagina.

All this looks like a job, a duty.

Romance, love making, kissing etc before going for a final ride make your women hot and ready to orgasm or atleast ready to enjoy a final step of sex. If you do like this or similar to this, your women will always be happy and staisfied with sex.

 

[MrGoodDate]

Is this true also regarding men.... and does it mean that those here who brag about great sex are really low on intelligence? I am interesting in the supporting facts.

 

[GogMegog]

Not low in intelligence. The desire for a good sex is normal and equal in all but how to accomplish it, is the difference we make individually.

Personally, I also love hardcore, but start it with soft.

 

[TheBottomlessVag]

I think this is totally wrong. Smart means imaginative. Imaginative means kinky.

 

[UK_Male]

I think this is totally wrong. Smart means imaginative. Imaginative means kinky.

Agreed

 

[ManlyBanisters]

Yes, I agree with the findings of this survey. And may be can reveal the cause of this problem.
Educated, smarter or civilised ladies have more self respect and a grown, mateure personality. Most of the sex made these days is like a porn movie.
Men start with puting his shaft in her mouth and start the oral job.
Then comes the number of pussy and efforts are made in to and fro directions and changing positions in short intervals.
Some people then go beyond to anal and last this action in a tight hole, while others who dislike or whom partner don't agree, finish their work in vagina.

All this looks like a job, a duty.

Wait a second... How do you know that? How do you know that "Most of the sex made these days is like a porn movie"? Do you have a camera installed in every bedroom in the land? (Or in several lands?)

What you describe does indeed sound like a porn script - but it doesn't sound like what happens between me and my man. Are we the odd ones out? Or are you perhaps just assuming that because porn is like that sex is too? Which is a daft assumption.