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  1. topper_oh

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    I am struggling with my sexuality at 40+ years old.
    I have been married for 8 years now to a great gal who loves to fuck - and I mean everything. I love to eat her pussy, feel her warm pussy and she has great orgasms with me deep in her ass.
    But I love to suck cock and sometimes bend over myself.

    I am confused!!!

    No-she doesnt know and would be mortified to find out, so that adds to my struggle.

    Anyone else feel this way?
     
  2. SpoiledPrincess

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    Lots of people do, but the fact is you're in a relationship and you're being unfaithful to your wife. Whether you're sucking strange cock or eating strange pussy you're in a relationship and you're cheating.
     
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    Agreed. :mad:

     
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    I don't know why you are so surprised she would be mortified ( or upset/distraught/sad/angry if you prefer). :smile: Chances are she would be mortified because of the fact that she is married to the guy, has great sex with him and is probably in love and it turns out that he is gay.
     
  5. reallyhot

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    Sounds to me from your comments that you're just sucking your own
    cock, nothing wrong with that in my books. Heck, go for it! Good for you
    that you can!
    Sometimes your lady needs a break, and you just help yourself..
    nothing gay about that.
    If you think you are bisexual or gay, then yeah I can see where the
    conflicted feelings come in, especially if you're in a committed relationship.
    Just remember not everyone is 100 % straight or gay...and that's ok too.
    Don't be too hard on yourself, check out more online self help resources
    and find a way to soothe yourself into feeling better about it. after all
    it's a part of who you are!. You may PM me if you like more suggestions.
    All the best.
     
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    I read it as he bent over and took it up the arse.
     
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