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I know I like guys but I never been or touch another guy before but I dated a woman before so does it make me bi curious?

sometimes I watch bi gay and straight porn?

I ate my cum does that make me gay ?

I tried when I younger - I tasted me own cum but never again til last year 36 yr old man.

sometimes when I see sexy guys I get hard on same with women but with guys the most… I always want to try suck dick but scared to ask in public restroom
 
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The only thing that "makes" you anything is what you want to call yourself. And even then you're 100% free to change your mind. I've fucked women, but I would never consider myself bi. A guy could be in a 50 year marriage to a woman and have never touched a man and still consider himself bi, or even gay. Actions do not make labels... and labels are inherently problematic because desires and behaviors change constantly.

So I would urge you to stop trying to label yourself. You're a sexual being and you will have sex with whomever turns you on at that moment. And who the fuck cares what your label is... either you are going to have sex with them or you aren't. You don't need to have an existential analysis of your true self and then check a box on a form to do that. :)
 

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Don't twist yourself into a pretzel over labels. Identify however you feel comfortable with. Sexuality is a spectrum, not a rigid binary.

Edited to add - if you're not comfortable cruising men in public (ie restrooms) download an app like Grindr or Scruff, see who's available and likeminded, and take it from there. :)
 

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I always want to try suck dick but scared to ask in public restroom

There a safer ways to satisfy your curiosity than sucking dick in a public bathroom. Start with baby steps: chatting online; jacking on cam; and then consider an in-person hookup in a private location.
 

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There a safer ways to satisfy your curiosity than sucking dick in a public bathroom. Start with baby steps: chatting online; jacking on cam; and then consider an in-person hookup in a private location.

Though it’s not like he’d be the first man to have his first experience with a guy in a public restroom. I know any number of guys who got their start sucking strangers off in a cruisy men’s room.
 
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As was said before, don't try to label yourself. You are a guy that likes sex.

Many straight and gay guys taste their cum.

For my first time, I went on Grindr, texted some guys, got together at their place. Best part about this is that the sex play was not rushed. For the first time many of us had thoughts about turning back when going to meet someone. My suggestion is to just go and see how you like it.
 
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As was said before, don't try to label yourself. You are a guy that likes sex.

Many straight and gay guys taste their cum.

For my first time, I went on Grindr, texted some guys, got together at their place. Best part about this is that the sex play was not rushed. For the first time many of us had thoughts about turning back when going to meet someone. My suggestion is to just go and see how you like it.


I’ve been on my way to meet another guy to just jerk off and changed my mind about meeting him. Do I feel ashamed that I done that too the guy. Yeah but I just didn’t feel like I was ready.
 

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In my opinion, your sexuality is what you are sexually attracted to in your thoughts.

What you do physically means nothing in regards to your sexuality. History is filled with gay men who chose to live a straight lifestyle.

Bisexuals have a harder time the closer they get to the middle of the spectrum in a society that endorses monogamy. For these people, open relationships are probably more sustainable.

Most people will be happiest living a lifestyle that's congruent with their sexuality.