So, I’m going to buy my first dildo

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  1. D_stryhtfg

    D_stryhtfg New Member

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    Well, like the title says, I have decided to buy a dildo. I found one that vibrates, it’s about 8 inches long and looks to be fairly normal in girth. It’s shaped like a penis. Here is the link to it:


    Thin Jelly Vibe


    I must say, I am both excited and nervous at the same time about getting one and masturbating with it. Up until this point, the only sort of anal penetration I have done was from my fingers…literally once or twice. Actually, I am still surprised that I am even buying a dildo for this purpose. When I started downloading and jacking off to gay porn (in addition to the bi and straight porn I like), I was always grossed out when the two actors would begin to fuck. I loved watching the slow striptease, handjobs, and blowjobs. But when it came to the anal sex, I would turn it off…or try to cum before the scene got that far. In fact, I was grossed out by anal sex when it would happen in the straight porn I liked. But then, slowly, I began to like the scenes where people were getting fucked in the ass. Fast foreward 5-8 years and with the help of vids from Helix, 8TeenBoy, and Corbin Fisher, I am ready to give the world of anal penetration a try, but I have a few questions.
    -First, do I need to clean myself out before inserting the dildo? I know that I always wonder how in the gay porn movies the penis of the top always comes out clean…I assume they give themselves enamas or something.
    -Is it a good/bad idea to wrap the dildo in a condom and then fuck myself, or is that unnecessary (I’m, thinking from a cleaning standpoint)?
    -Obvisouly, the traditional form of male masturbation is pretty clean…and the only clean up is cum which I usually wipe off with an undershirt…is there any chance of #2 getting on my bed or floor depending where I do it?
    -What lube should I use? I have ID Glide for my Fleshlight so I am famililar with that.
    -Any other suggestions for me? What I should expect, positions, your routine, tips and tricks, etc?

    Just one other FYI, I am on vacation until July 8th. As a result, I will have limited internet access (only from the local library), so I will not be able to check the thread every day. But don’t worry, I will check it when I can.

    Thanks!
     
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    is that U in underwear pix? great ass - maybe you don't need a dildo but a good man?
     
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    I followed your link and ended up ordering the dildo also. We will have to compare notes once we try it out.
     
  4. bigbiboy

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    -Start slim and work to bigger girth in time. (you'll be a size queen in no time at all)
    -Be slow and gentle, You'll do it hard and nasty when you are ready.
    -Use water based lube and lots of it.
    -Clean your self first, a douche is probably the best way, But don't freak out if you missed a bit.
    -Don't worry about the condom just make sure you clean it good after use.
    -Most of all relax and enjoy it. If it hurts a little at first don't just give up, use more lube and keep trying. Once you are broken in properly it will feel natural and nice and you will want it more and often.
    -Try to make using it a part of your daylie routine until it becomes the norm for you and like a second nature.
    -Remember that it's good to use you dildo regularly and often to keep your ass easy and stretched, but do give it time off to let your hole recover.
    -Once you have mastered the basics take it the next step and order a bigger one. As long as you have played with the old one regularly enough the bigger one will feel natural and easy to use.
    -Also do try butt pugs aswell. They can be so much fun.
    -Finally, anal penitration is healthy, natural fun. DON'T feel ashamed about it, enjoy it the pleasure can be better than straight sex. It feels good and make you a more adventurous and better man.
     
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    Great advice! Condoms can be good to use on dildos if you are sharing them with a friend which can be fun to do as well...
     
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    Colt sells a training kit that has 3 different sized dildos for beginners such as yourself. You may want to check that out. Have fun and enjoy yourself!!
     
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    Thanks for the advice guys...I'm definitely excited.

    Drew, I will be buying that trainer kit. Looks to be a great idea. Thanks for the tip!


    For sure...you'll probably get it before me so let me know how it goes!
     
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    They look perfect to start you off and break you in. You will have so many hours of pure joy from them. And in no time at all you will be a true anal addict, just be proud of it and let it be a natural and normal part of your life and you will soon be wondering why you didn't try it before. Please let me know how you get on with it and please use the advice I posted. I'm a seasoned pro when it comes to anal play, and really know my stuff.
    Relax and enjoy, I know you will love it.
     
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    NO, don't use water-based lube. Use silicon lube. Water base dries out and gets sticky and will leave your ass feeling raw. Silicon does not dry out.

    Also - watch out for rubbery dildos - their surface is all wrong, and even lubed, can leave you feeling raw. I've never tried one, but I think the heavy glass dildos ought to be best.
     
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    Got it. Its a really nice size. Have used it already a couple of times since I have had it and now just need to find a real man with that type of length.
     
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    **Do not use silicone based lubricant on toys as this will deteriorate the material**

    I tend to use water based gel lubricant as it works well for Anal but that's just my preference.

    I'm thinking of getting the same.... I was going to get one of the one's modeled after a porn star then I saw the price tag...I'll be starting with one that isn't so expensive especially since I don't bottom often so it'll be used infrequently. Let me know what you think of it as well sho94_2000.
     
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    Enjoy dude, anal is the best sexual act you can get
     
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    Porn star dildos are great I have 2 the Gage Weston dildo 10" which feels amazing once it's in the butt and recently bought the Eddie Diaz dildo that one is 8" but has a thicker length that one really makes my butt tingle cause of the girth but it's addicting. Next on the list is the new Francois Sagat dildo!!
     
  16. bigbiboy

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    So true!!!!!
    It's better taking it in the butt than giving it.
    (and much, much better than fucking a pussy. Which can be quite yuk!!!)
     
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    whats "yuk" about it?
     
  18. bigbiboy

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    The feel, the sight, the smell, and the taste. Yuk!
    Cock on the other hand looks, feels, smells and tastes beautiful.
    I enjoy having sex with women, but would rather be sucking some cock.
     
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    Lol. Yo, when I was in high school I straight up started using hotel shampoo bottles to find out if I liked it or not. Eight years.... BOUT TIME YOU TRY! Have fun, :)
     
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    Thats all a matter of opinion!
     
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