Recently, I made the attempt to spice up the sex life of the g/f and I. I consulted with her first and we decided on getting a Cyberskin dream cock. Seen here...Cyberskin Dream Cock Realistic Dildo - Dildo Sex Toys - Sex Toys . I got it with the idea that I could use it on her while she touched me or any other kind of idea about her using it or me using it on her. So, when it arrived and as I thought, the toy is quite large and quite a lot larger than I am physically. But, I wasn't intimidated by it and was actually looking forward to trying it out with her. Then, a few nights ago she and I started messing around and after a bit of foreplay (read: me fingering her) she asks me if I wanted to get the toy. So, I said sure, if she wanted to, and I went and got it. Considering its size I applied a good amount of lube and tried to insert it inside of her...which didn't work to well as she immediately exclaimed that it hurt and was too much. So, then she seemed to want to have me try again, so I did. Same reaction. So, she finally said that she'd rather have me inside of her. So, a good amount of passionate lovemaking ensued and I soon finished and we went back to sleep. Then the next day, a day we both had off, I started to touch her again by rubbing on her vagina which typically allows her to cum from clitoral stimulation. This time she pauses again and asks if I wanted to try the toy again. Again, as before, I said that I was fine with trying it if she was. So, I got the toy and applied liberal amounts of lube and went really slowly during insertion. She managed to take a good amount of the toy and seemed to enjoy it...then about 2-3 minutes in she said that she wanted to turn over (into a doggy position) to see if she could avoid some of the discomfort. So, she turned over and I inserted the toy and this time she had a really good time and she came really quickly and at one point I almost inserted the entire toy inside of her. After she came she said that she had had enough and I pulled out the toy. After this time, we had a good amount of time to talk to each other and she asked me if I enjoyed using the toy on her. I said that I surely did but that I got it so that it could be something that both she and I enjoyed together as a couple. She said that she did enjoy it but that it was a bit uncomfortable but that she felt like she could get used to it. I told her that if she didn't enjoy it and it was uncomfortable for her that we could stop using it without objection from me. She said that she didn't mind it but that it was a different feeling. She also quickly assured me that she preferred me and didn't want me to think that she wanted something that size in real life (which I clearly cannot provide.) So, with that being said, what do you think I/we should do in the future regarding the toy? I mean, I wanted to use it to spice up our sex lives and I think that it can but I really foresaw that we'd be using it in addition to she and I physically being intimate with each other. Rather than me just using it on her while I was fully clothed. Am I being inconsiderate? Should I just wait and see? Should I voice my opinion? Your comments and thoughts are greatly appreciated.