Just tell her that since you've been with her you have become gay.
Oooh thats a low blow....i like it :wink:
Just tell her that since you've been with her you have become gay.
The most unexpected thing just happened to me just 30 minutes ago. Heres the story:
I met this wonderful girl about a month ago, in a night club. We started dating, taking it slow and all and I got more and more attached to her.
We have wonderful moments together, she calls me whenever she can and all, we trade love messages in our cell phones all that jazz.
Anyway, last Sunday we slept together for the first time, and it was amazing. She reached orgasm for the first time (with someone) and was barely able to move afterwards
All in all, I was feeling in the clouds and all, and Im not one to fall in love easily.
Tonight I got a message asking me to meet her in her apartment, because she missed me and all. I left work and drove there, we talked, hugged, but I felt she wanted to tell me something.
After a lot of hesitation, she finally admitted: yes, there is something bothering me.
Long story short, with tears involved (not mine, mind you), she told me her friends didnt like me because they thought I look (EDIT: or act) gay, and that if she hang out with me people would start talking.
She then proceeded to tell me its been bothering her like hell, and that she doesnt know if she can live with this.
I was so stunned I couldnt say a word. There was the woman I gave my fucking heart to, saying 2 things with made me want to puke:
1) That gay people are somewhat not cool to hang out with (incidental, but the bigotry is there)
2) That she doesnt know if she can live with it?
What the fuck? She says she likes me, she misses me all the time, but is shaken by something this stupid?
Im not gay (nothing wrong if I was), but Im hurt as hell right now. I just left said I would think this whole mess over.
ps: she said she knows I'm not gay and really feels I'm into her. What's bothering her is the opinion of other people (ie, her friends)
Sorry, there was a point to all this, but Im just blah cant go on right now.
look in appears to be ( translation problems, I suppose).
Metrosexual?
Not really. I mean, I do work out, am fit, and like my hair... is that a crime?
I usually agree with a lot of your posts, kadtxgrl, but I have to disagree with this one. At her age and level of education, that kind of behavior is definitely a red flag, and indicates a lot of deeper issues that most likely won't go away.
I am impressed, though, that she's a medical doctor at the tender young age of 27. That's REALLY young for an MD.
You missed the whole point of his post. She knows he's not gay. Fucking her rough is not the issue.Of course the other option is to convince her you are not gay... perhaps that impression was b/c you "took it slow". Tell her how horney she makes you and that you have to have her. It can be a secret. She doesn't have to tell her friends. You can be her fuck toy. Be rough with her. Fuck her hard! .... uhhhhh.. never mind, doing that would be about as shallow and mean as not dating someone b/c they "look gay".
The most unexpected thing just happened to me just 30 minutes ago. Heres the story:
I met this wonderful girl about a month ago, in a night club. We started dating, taking it slow and all and I got more and more attached to her.
We have wonderful moments together, she calls me whenever she can and all, we trade love messages in our cell phones all that jazz.:smile:
Anyway, last Sunday we slept together for the first time, and it was amazing. She reached orgasm for the first time (with someone) and was barely able to move afterwards :wink::smile:
All in all, I was feeling in the clouds and all, and Im not one to fall in love easily.
That's good.:smile:
Tonight, I got a message asking me to meet her in her apartment, because she missed me and all. I left work and drove there, we talked, hugged, but I felt she wanted to tell me something.
After a lot of hesitation, she finally admitted: yes, there is something bothering me.
Long story short, with tears involved (not mine, mind you), she told me her friends didnt like me because they thought I look (EDIT: or act) gay, and that if she hang out with me people would start talking.
Ain't that some cunty nignorant shit?!!!! What a flake, she definately got Crisco in her dough.
She then proceeded to tell me its been bothering her like hell, and that she doesnt know if she can live with this.
I was so stunned I couldnt say a word. There was the woman I gave my fucking heart to, saying 2 things with made me want to puke:
1) That gay people are somewhat not cool to hang out with (incidental, but the bigotry is there)
2) That she doesnt know if she can live with it?
What the fuck? She says she likes me, she misses me all the time, but is shaken by something this stupid?
Im not gay (nothing wrong if I was), but Im hurt as hell right now. I just left said I would think this whole mess over.
ps: she said she knows I'm not gay and really feels I'm into her. What's bothering her is the opinion of other people (ie, her friends)
I usually agree with a lot of your posts, kadtxgrl, but I have to disagree with this one. At her age and level of education, that kind of behavior is definitely a red flag, and indicates a lot of deeper issues that most likely won't go away.
I am impressed, though, that she's a medical doctor at the tender young age of 27. That's REALLY young for an MD.