- Lito,
Not really, never wanted ot be a md.
I actually went through 2 colleges, so I have a degree in both Literature and Law. Afterwards I got a master's degree in Law... now I'm pushing for the PhD =D
So I got pushed away because I look gay
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Not really, never wanted ot be a md.
I actually went through 2 colleges, so I have a degree in both Literature and Law. Afterwards I got a master's degree in Law... now I'm pushing for the PhD =D
rob_just_rob
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- Lito,
Well, got to talk to her tonight. It was somewhat of a surprise actually.
I picked her up at home and took her to a restaurant (one with somewhat private tables). Well, before I said anything she just said she was sorry for what she said, that she'd understand if I was mad and that she would never bring such subject again.
She even told me she doesn't care about what her friends think anymore, that it's her life, her happiness and all...
And that was before I said anything. So I spit it out, and she asked for a second chance ... so there... I said I'd think about it, no pressure.
Guess it a surprise after another. Now I have to decide if I want to make the effort. Damn human relationships...
I picked her up at home and took her to a restaurant (one with somewhat private tables). Well, before I said anything she just said she was sorry for what she said, that she'd understand if I was mad and that she would never bring such subject again.
She even told me she doesn't care about what her friends think anymore, that it's her life, her happiness and all...
And that was before I said anything. So I spit it out, and she asked for a second chance ... so there... I said I'd think about it, no pressure.
Guess it a surprise after another. Now I have to decide if I want to make the effort. Damn human relationships...
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It is sad...but know that it is the right thing. You can fall for the wrong people. You deserve a woman that will like Lito for who he is...not by what the woman's friends perceive you to be.
And you aren't alone in your situation and how you feel.
You will find a better woman than her.
She should take responsibility for her own feelings and not use her friends for a excause. Friends come and go but, a good relationship is between two adults. She must have an attraction to you yet it's not strong enough to overcome this problem. Think if you stayed with this person you would have to stay on your toes and always worry about "not" seeming gay to her. Find someone who cares for who you are. Your word should have been enough for her. Her loss.
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:biggrin1:Dump her and keep it moving. When I'm in a relationship with someone the only opinion that matters is mine and hers. Her friends= fuck off. My friends = fuck off. People might be able to give me advice or suggestions, but at the end of the day it's me who makes the decision about someone.
And if you love or are really feeling someone, other people's opinions of that person should matter. What matters is how you feel.
If she's that insecure and affected, you don't need her.
What if you go deeper into this relationship. Is she going to stop and cry everytime one of her friends doesn't like you??!!
No offense but its kinda vapid.
And if you love or are really feeling someone, other people's opinions of that person should matter. What matters is how you feel.
If she's that insecure and affected, you don't need her.
What if you go deeper into this relationship. Is she going to stop and cry everytime one of her friends doesn't like you??!!
No offense but its kinda vapid.
