So I learned my ex girlfriend is with a guy bigger than me...

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  1. ugb

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    I guess it was bound to happen. I never really felt insecure about my size till now. I'm 8in/5.25.. really lacking in the girth department (though, in her words it was perfect for her since she's really petite). So she said he's too big for her, that he's really thick and that she has to be extremely wet and turned on for him to even get inside her, though she says the sex is good once she settles down and is able to take him. :eek:

    Man, what a weird feeling.. I've never looked so hard at PE articles to try and expand my girth. Anyone wanna point me in the right direction? :biggrin1:

    At least she finds it hilarious I call him the vag stretcher :lmao:I still love her.. :tongue:
     
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    Ex girlfriend? Move on. you're a great size. don't torture yourself over your ex girlfriends sex life
     
  3. D_Ezdras Dingledonger

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    She's probably just messing with your head, dude. Girls love to pull this kind of lousy shit to needle a guy they were previously involved with in an underhanded attempt to show how 'over you' they are. That's why I break contact with girlfriends the moment we split up and I never remain friends with them. Pettiness is pretty much inevitable, and even in the rare instances it isn't, I have no desire to be friends with a girl I'm no longer fucking or interested in.
     
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    There is always going to be a guy out there who is bigger than you. it is what it is. And honestly, so what? Your dick is not your only asset.

    As to your size there are guys doing porn that are your size and smaller. Yes I mean your girth stats too.

    And oh yeah:
    What he said.

    Stop putting yourself down by saying things to here like he is a "Vag Stretcher." You should treat yourself better.

    =
     
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    My ex is with a guy who can't even get an erection. You need to get over your ex, stop talking to her.

    And there is always someone bigger. Don't worry about being the biggest, worry about being the best.

    Go out to clubs and shit. Some places the girls will come to you, find those places. Places that play 80's music basically :tongue:
     
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    Eh, I understand and appreciate what you guys are saying. But she's more than an ex to me, she's my best friend. In fact, some times it feels like we never broke up, that it's been more of "open" relationship. I guess that's why it bothers me a bit..

    I still know I good sized tool that plenty of women has said it was perfect for them..

    I guess this thread was more of rant :biggrin1:
     
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    Stay friends then, but stop talking about that guy's dick.


    (P.S. For what it is worth, her comments are kind of like you telling her about how "My new girlfriend's pussy is so incredibly tight!" Pretty tacky, don't you think?)
     
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    What's wrong with a 5.25 girth? NOTHING, in my opinion. Yeah there are bigger girths out there, but you have the length and certainly enough girth to please anybody. Be happy with what you have man because by your description there certainly isn't a damn thing wrong with it!
     
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    Staying friends with ex's is very very very rarely a good idea...

    My last ex gave me the whole 'dont want a relationship' rubbish over facebook chat ffs! then got herself a new bloke about 3 weeks later.

    She at the time worked with my best mate, so there was still a small chance i'd see her again. Plus I still had a few things that belonged to her.

    Anyway, we bumped into each other and she asks if she can have her fucking Twilight book back, my response

    'sorry, do I know you?'

    then I walked off. I felt like Ric fucking Flair WHOOOOOOO

    I'm not sure what my point is but I love my story. Petty but satisfying.
     
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    Couldn't have said it better myself. Your cock sounds great to me!
     
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    Yeah, keep telling yourself that, bud. Whatever helps you sleep at night.

    But on a more serious note (not that I wasn't being serious in the previous line): be careful. No need to set yourself up for future heartache. To you it may not feel like you ever broke up, but she may not feel that way. And even if she does, whose to say that things wont change as she gets closer and closer to her current bf (who will most likely not buy into into the whole "open relationship" notion).

    In my experience (which as been limited, I'm only 21), there are usually 3 break ups in a relationship. The 1st is when Person1 decides they no longer want to be in the relationship. The 2nd is when Person 1 tells Person 2 that the relationship is over. The 3rd is when Person 2 accepts that they are no longer in a relationship with Person 1 (i.e., when 2 gets over 1). I've found that the closer those 3 breakups occur, the better off for all involved. With my last girlfriend, I broke up with her almost 6 months after she broke up with me. No fun.
     
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    Straight men can be so stupid.

    She's your EX for a reason. Why the hell are you talking to your EX about how big her new guy's dick is? That's just masochism. Stop being stupid and ditch the bitch.
     
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    What he said. Move on.
     
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    You're being silly; a girth of 5.25 inches is well above average. According to the studies cited by Wikipedia, "The typical girth or circumference is approximately 12.3 cm (4.85 in) when fully erect."
     
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    This is a great example of people constantly worrying about other people and not themselves. You have to take pride in yourself and what you have to offer. You're no longer fucking her, thus, your cock is not her problem. Why are you so worried? I understand that you still love her, but do you believe that if your cock was thicker than his, then she'll want you back? Hardly.
     
  16. ugb

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    thread backfire
     
  17. LookingCurious

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    No backfire. Just tough love. =)
     
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    you already put EX in the thread title, why should u give a rat ass?
     
  19. unzipped

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    get real man... if you have an 8 inch dick, girls will be salivating to play with you... stay friends with your so called "best friend" if you feel you need to.. but do tell her you don't need to hear about other guys dicks....big or small.... tell her you want to hear about her single girl friends hungry dripping pussies.... that would like to envelope your big throbbing 8 incher....
     
  20. D_Rosalind Mussell

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    Not that it couldn't be true, but I'm willing to bet she embellished just to fuck with your head. Either way, you can take your big cock elsewhere and share it with a woman that is more worthy of your attention....you know, someone that isn't trying to emasculate you. Your ex knowingly took that cheap shot at you, which is why you are getting the tough love around here. Don't let her stupidity mess with your mind. Your cock is a perfect size for a lot of women, so don't bother with what your ex has to say. Just enjoy your gift with someone that deserves to be with you.
     
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