So I want to see my gf get fucked

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by D_Phil_N_Thropic, Nov 14, 2011.

  1. D_Phil_N_Thropic

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    By a guy who is packing some serious heat. I know this isn't totally uncommon, but how do you go about asking if she is into that? And if she is, does anyone have a good way to find guys so that they are only in the relationship for sex?
     
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    the only good way is to just ask her at the right time
     
  3. dolfette

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    you can but ask.
    if she says no, don't bug her for reasons.
     
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    Please don't father any children.
     
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    What's so wrong about some submissive tendencies in the bedroom?
     
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    I agree, I didn't post here for criticism asshole...You don't know me or about the other parts of my life and are not in any way qualified to make that type of judgment. Grow up and fuck you.
     
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    I would love to fuck her for you ;)
     
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    PLEASE don't father any children.
     
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    i don't think you will have time to bug her, if she's not up for it she will be out the door in a flash. you should get a friend to suggest it to her in a lighthearted way.
     
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    i think it might be partly dependent on what you built your relationship on. If you are in a tightly committed relationship that is built on a solid foundation, then you should, in part, already know how she feels about open partners. I like the idea from a prior post about having a friend suggest it so that it doesn't originate from you- but ultimately it could come back and bite you. You'd have to make sure that you aren't saying that asking the question means any infidelity in your case- and that might be a tall order.
     
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    "You know, that sounds like a great idea!" is exactly what she would say to the friend of her boyfriend making a lighthearted joke about being fucked by a guy with a larger penis. Yeah.

    Perhaps you ought to rethink how well you understand women.
     
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    I give this relationship until the Spring...MAX.
     
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    stupid idea.
     
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    "Wouldn't it be awesome to be fucked by a guy other than your bf? Maybe a guy with a huge, gust busting cock? Aahahahaha Nahhh I'm just kidding."
     
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    I doubt there is a way to ask this question without it potentially blowing up in your face. My guess is that couching it as a suggestion to try swinging would involve the least loss of 'face' if she is not interested.

    And at the end of the day, some women are into it, some aren't. You know her better than we do... presumably you can figure out if she would be receptive.
     
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    I don't want to offend....but I really have no clue why so many men have this fetish.
     
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    I'm just glad my guy doesn't. The idea of sex with a guy who has a bigger penis than him is not a turn on, outside of any consideration regarding how I might feel about the "other man" part. I think I'd say "no" to that, but my mind might be changed if Hugh Jackman could be talked into it...
     
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    i hate the idea of it.
    i'm objectified enough in this society.
    i don't want my lover doing it too.
     
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    :yup:

    In my experience, he just asked me straight out and then shut the fuck up when I said I wanted to think about it.

    Imo, nothing. Sexual expression is very broad and unique to the individual. Some may find certain aspects distasteful, but if between consenting adults, I do not understand the problem. :shrug:
     
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    If you're brave enough, tell her you have this as a fantasy.

    I'd say that was the best way to approach this, and the most honest.
     
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