So I want to see my gf get fucked

[petite]

you seam to have missed the point i wasn't suggesting you get a friend to ask her for sex, but if someone else raised the subject of 3somes or something, he would be able to gauge her attitude toward this kind of thing without being the person to suggest it.

I didn't miss the point. I understand what you were saying and what you thought.

 

[Unnamed]

I absolutely agree with this.

I find Dolfette's whining that such a fantasy necessarily entails the "objectification of women" bot incorrect, and oppressive.

There are women on these boards who actually participate in these kinds of fantasies, and find them liberating and exciting. When done in a spirit of mutual trust, love, and with a lot of communication it's something both partners can really enjoy, if they both want to do it.

Why then does Dolfette resort to these tiresome shaming tactics?

because she's human, i think.

 

[B_quiet_man]

because she's human, i think.

I'm human. I don't do this.

 

[B_chinagirl4u2]

As I said before just ask her, if she is at all interested go to a "meet & greet" at your local swinger club.
Just make sure he (the guy you pick) gets tested before you do anything.

Swinging is alot of fun.

 

[1sweetbabe]

I agree with Chinagirl4u2.. Just bring it up tell her about the fantasy.. It is a fantasy doesnt mean it has to come true but then she can voice her opinion as well and U may be surprised when she comes out and tells u what she has a fantasy or two about... The local Swingers club meet and greet is a great place to start for sure... Best of luck..

 

[mako shark]

I'm not sure either...but don't mind providing that service on occasion :smile:

I don't want to offend....but I really have no clue why so many men have this fetish.

 

[742371]

simple enough - whip out some porn in bed with her on your ipad/laptop to spice up the foreplay. it doesnt have to be the focus...even if its in the background for starters. dont make it obvious, but eventually "stumble" upon to a scene similar to your fantasy and ask her about it. they may say they dont like it but i've never found a girl who isnt curious about porn. then take it from there....

 

[743878]

I'm not sure either...but don't mind providing that service on occasion :smile:

yup, don't forget that.

 

[MoociMan]

Guys relax. Is it really harder than asking? Perhaps during sex where people are more in touch with their dirty side? I asked my ex if she wanted to try a thresome, and she was in on it and admitted she had had the fantasy before. My ex before that was also asked, but she wasn't into it. Nothing ever happened, and none of the relationships where ruined because of the question. It was due to... well... me and dishwashing, we don't mix well, and you know modern women and kitchens don't either, and that's that.