So, I'm strongly considering paying for sex

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  1. D_Selmus_Swallow

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    This drought between ages 18-24 that I've got going is starting to push me in that direction. So now the question is: where to go and for how much.
     
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    I think the question is: Why?
     
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    Why is the question, d-low1?

    You mention a drought. You're a nice looking guy. Hot. So if you aren't getting laid it isn't because no one will find you attractive.

    If you get off on the idea of paying, that's fine.

    Or perhaps you've got some kink that you think you can only indulge if you pay?

    Maybe you are very specific in your sexual attractions and want your partners to look a certain way?

    If you are just looking for some anon situation where you can get off, that's readily available for free for cute young straight guys. Lots of women and men would be happy to help out.
     
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    dude! you're a good looking guy with a big dick....you shouldn't have to pay for sex! put yourself out there... is there a local university near you? if so, find out where everyone hangs out to blow off some steam outside of class and/or where everyone goes to get drunk and party, and start hanging out there. spot a hot chick that looks like she'd be up for some fun, buy her a few drinks, and then pursue her. I bet money if you do the above, you'll be getting laid within a few weeks.\


    Edit: Once the word gets out that you have a big cock and are a good lay, the ladies will begin to come to you, and not the other way around.
     
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    I looked at your gallery.

    Nothing wrong with you.

    There must be better, slower and cheaper ways for you to get laid. Don't you have trusted buddies who can introduce you?

    As a last resort, I would use a "reputable" erotic massage place where you can pick and choose the masseuse. A straight friend of mine (who thought I was bi) suggested we do that when we were still in grad school.
     
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    There is nothing wrong with paying for sex first of all.
    If you can afford to do so why not? Calling an escort service{male or female} is the best way to insure you will receive exactly the kind of sex you desire.
    Many great looking men pay for sex don't buy into that bullshit about "you're a nice looking guy,why pay"?
    Men pay for sex because they don't want to waste time wining and dining a women for substantial cost only to find out she is not going to sleep with you!
    Many handsome and famous men routinely utilize escort services so why shouldn't you?
    Call several sites in your area that have a good reputation.
    Make sure you ask them what the fee is,for how long and ask to see photos of the women who will be servicing you. If the girl is not the same one as you asked for, don't hesitate to call the service and send that girl back.
    Happy Sex!!!
    cigarbabe:saevil:
     
  7. Papilion

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    Hey, why bother paying for it?
    I'm sure that there are plenty people on here who would let you do them for free.
    xxx
     
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    Yeah, this appears to be a confidence issue. You really are a good-looking guy. If you're not getting any then look to yourself and ask if you're projecting the kind of image that women like. It's tough to do that because it's like saying, "It's all YOUR fault you're not getting laid." At most it's certainly only 50%. You're not responsible for all the girls who would like to approach you but don't because of their own issues.

    You have any friends who are girls who are able to be honest and coach you? A woman's perspective can help a lot.

    Sure you can go out and pay for sex (get an out-call service, no street skanks), but that won't address the underlying issue of why you're not getting any.
     
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    Dude - find someone on craigslist and get laid for free! You're a cute guy with a hot body and a nice cock. The dry spell is solely in your head!
     
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    There have got to be a hundred sites for getting laid tonight. AFF being the most well advertised. OnlineBootyCall.com is a bit less in your face nasty. Passions.com, OkCupid.com, PlentyofFish.com and a dozen more that I've seen. I'm just not the kind of girl for having sex with strangers or men I barely know so I've never had any luck with those sites. (have considered it but never done it.) I've talked to several men that said most the girls on the hookup tonight sites are call girls or look like one. Men also present themselves as women to get off (imagine that).

    If you want to have life long better luck at getting women, try this site 'Worthy Playboy'(tm) Johnny Soporno presents: Introduction to Seductive Reasoning 101 - un-edited, live recording and give his advice serious consideration.
     
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    Cigarbabe -- I agree that there is nothing wrong with paying for sex as long as both people are willing. And I do understand the desire for some no strings sex that caters to the buyer's needs.

    As Jack Nicholson famously said when asked why he paid to fuck women -- "I don't pay to fuck them, I pay for them to leave when I finish fucking them."

    d-low1 is pretty young and paying might be a budget problem. not everyone can afford to pay. also, he talks about needing to get over a dry spell so it seems about less, perhaps than the need for that sort of sexual encounter than it does for any sort of sexual encounter.

    And getting laid is certainly easy enough for anyone interested and even slightly open.

    I know that there are a ton of slightly older women who would love to swing on that big thing for free -- and perhaps teach a thing or two as well.
     
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    I thoroughly shocked myself when I realized I was thinking the same thing. I've never done it, but why the hell not? Expediency, not to mention quality, can be a wonderful thing.
     
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    Well, D-low, you get a lot of comments on how good looking you are and what a huge dick you have. But what most people forget here is that we don't walk naked in the streets so that everyone could see what we have hanging between our legs.
    You are a goodlooking man, but maybe a bit more introvert around girls. That makes the difference. People say to me here that it is weird that I'm a virgin because my looks are awesome and that I have an awesome dick, and I appreciate their comments, but it isn't that easy for every person to get laid like it is nothing.

    If you are considering paying for sex and you know you won't regret it later, why not then. It is a good experience to learn from probably. Don't forgot to tell us about it :)
     
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    C'mon Pieter, there plenty of ways you can showcase your body without breaking any laws. You can also wear clothes that convey the message that you're in good shape...Loose, baggy clothes will likely not achieve that goal.

    Don't you have swimming pools in Belgium? I know you do.
     
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    I have no right to say not to pay for it since I did just that
    when I was your age and in the military...but then military
    life was not very condusive to having a steady or a couple
    of steady GFs. We had to make do or take it in hand. :smile:

    But, you are a hot, handsome man with a whopper of a cock.
    You should be searched out by hot women (and men too) and
    not the other way around. So, I have to agree with jason-els,
    that there must be another underlying reason for your problem.

    We all go through "dry periods", but 6 years is a long, long time!
    There has been nothing during that time?

    Are you shy or maybe lack confidence in believing you are able
    to get laid? Since you said you are in a "dry" period, I assume
    that before 18, you had no problem getting laid. What did you
    do differently before 18 than you are doing now? Or was there
    something that happened that turned you off of sex for awhile
    and you now have a underlyng problem getting going again?
    Just sit down and do some thinking about what has changed over
    the last 6 years and see where you can change that will help get
    you some of that well wanted roll in the sack.

    Do you date regularily now, but just don't get the action like you
    once did? Where do you go to look for action? There certainly
    is a lot to be had out there that would not take paying for it to
    get it. Escort services are usually very expensive...and for me I
    would rather wank than pay for a few minutes of "maybe" good
    sex....you know if you are not satisfied there isn't a refund....:wink:
    Just don't get if off the streets.....be more selective. And practice
    safe sex when you do.

    Good Luck.....Good Hunting. I have confidence in you...
     
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    Hey bro. It's your cock and your money. Be careful and go for it.
     
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    I was thinking the same thing. If he can't get laid then maybe there's a confidence problem.

    There's nothing wrong with paying for sex, imho, but why pay when you can get it for free? Besides, have you considered just looking for a girlfriend rather than looking for a fuckbud? Consider the long-term payoff.

    Instead of looking at eros.com, why not look at match.com?
     
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    you are too cute for words...people should be paying you
     
  19. D_Edwin Eatser

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    Had a period in my life when I used working girls. I fucked some very lovely, sexy women; there's nothing like choosing the girl (or girls if you're threesoming) from a group of attractive WGs in a brothel, then taking her/them off to a bed or jacuzzi for some fun. Picture is a 19yr old WG I chose from a line-up in a brothel in Scotland a few years ago - she was hot and very memorable!

    Go for it, man! Just a few tips - always wear a condom, treat the girls with respect, avoid places where girls might have been forced into working, discuss the price before you start. See this link for more -

    The International Sex Guide Forum
     

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    A quick reading of the thread and I see that two people have actually tried to answer the question.

    The "nice cock you shouldn't have a problem" answers are from people who don't have a clue and unless they are followed with an "I'll be right over to take care of you" are probably not helping your situation.

    Don't have any experience but some suggestions.

    Be careful not to get yourself arrested.

    Consider traveling to somewhere that the laws make it easier - Nevada or Canada come to mind. If you go on a little sex vacation plenty of places on the internet with information and advice.
    there are still laws in those places - be careful not to break them.

    Supposedly sites like Adult Friend Finder are full of prostitutes.
    Since those sites although "free" really prevent communication between people unless paying - you might have to ante up a little $ so the prostitutes can contact you. You can get a one month membership. Careful if you use a credit card. sometimes they will automatically charge your card for renewing.
    Hell, you might get lucky and actually find a woman who is interested and not a prostitute.

    My guess is plan on spending at least a couple of hundred bucks for about an hour with a "happy ending". Not much more than you could spend on a date with no "happy ending".
    Of course you could spend much more - just look at what Elliot Spitzer did

    Suggestions not actually a response to your question.

    Post a question in the forum here if anyone who was on Adult Friend Finder was contacted by prostitutes posing as members or if anyone they contacted turned out to be a prostitute.
    Hopefully you will get more real answers then you did in this thread.

    Finally, Post in the "Large Penis Personal Ads" here and see if any of the people who found you and your penis so attractive respond.
    (Don't hold your breath)

    Good Luck

    Wish I could be more of a help
     
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