You need to get your ass to a place where there are more ladies interested in someone like you. That could be moving to another city or hanging out somewhere different than where you hang now.
If anybody has any specific ideas...I'd love to hear them. At this point I'm ruling out bars anywhere, but other than trying for something online, I got no ideas. Pretty much what few relationships I've had were back in high school or with people from high school, or via work. And I'm long gone from high school and currently looking for a job, so those avenues are closed for now.
I don't plan on moving anytime soon. I've got no other strong connections to anywhere other than Chicagoland, really, as far as family and friends and whatevr goes. Not that there's much here either but you know how it goes. And the thousands of dollars needed to move and restart up again anywhere...yeah, I don't have that right now, haha.
But at the same time, spending at least a few hundred dollars for an hour or so of sex doesn't exactly sound appetizing either right now.
Bah.