So, I'm strongly considering paying for sex

[chris319]

Dude, you are a hottie. If it were legal I would pay to have sex with you even if you had a 2" peepee. Any girl or guy who doesn't go for you is too dumb to see what they are missing, that's all there is to it.

I know this doesn't get you laid but rest assured that if you aren't getting any it's not because you aren't as cute as a button.

 

[flame boy]

I'm not even going to bother writing what others have along the lines of "why pay, you're sexy" because if you havent had sex for a few years then obviously this isn't (for whatever reason) working for you.

If you do want to pay for sex, then the best possible way of doing it is to pay for an escort - avoid picking up a prostitute from the street - they are usually the real dregs of sex workers. If you look online for "escort services" followed by the town/city/state in which you live you will find something. You can usually pick the exact girl you want (from their pictures on the website) and all of the prices are detailed (and arranged) by the escorts manager beforehand. They can come to your home (or hotel if you prefer) and they will be worth every penny. Best of luck with your search dude! xoxo

 

[Cant_Stop]

I one time 'accidentally' paid for a handjob once. I was complaining that my back was sore and i thought i needed a massage. My friend gave me a number to call and said the girl was a great massage therapist. Called and went over there the next day. Nice office building and she was a very attractive, nice girl. Just a regular really good massage. Then I turned over to let her massage the front of my shoulders (this was my first real massage, i wasn't sure if she should be dong this or not). Then she reached under the towel and jerked me off.

I haven't done it since, but it wasn't a bad experience. I know it is not the same as a real hooker though. If you want to, do it, or just try some internet sites. But i think craigslist is full of fakes.

 

[Alyssa]

dude! you're a good looking guy with a big dick....you shouldn't have to pay for sex!

I'm wondering if you guys actually think like that? If you think that just because you have a huge cock, any woman you encounter is going to want to jump into bed with you, you're so incredibly deluded. lmao Women don't work like that, generally speaking (sure there are some but they are few and far between).

As others have said, avoid the streetwalkers. They're usually drug addicts, practice very little safe sex, and many already have an STD. Some don't, but you're literally in the middle of a crap shoot trying to pick out one that doesn't fit that profile. Plus the cops are always watching them, so you're liable to end up in the middle of a bust in many cities.

There are plenty of ad sites for escorts on the web. Go to one of those, select your city, make a call and set up an appointment. As the person who pointed out what Jack Nicholson had to say on the subject, you're paying for them to go away when you're done. You're guaranteed to get laid. Plus, escorts are professionals and they know what they're doing in bed, and most know how to handle a larger cock! They all are tested routinely as well, so you run very little risk of catching something.

Two of the best sites to find escorts are The Erotic Review and Bigdoggie dot net. You can do searches in your city and find providers with good reviews and go from there. On both of them you have to pay to be able to see the detailed reviews, but even with the free accounts, you can get an idea of who to see and who to avoid.

If you use Craigslist or Backpage, watch out because there are a lot of bait-and-switches on those sites. If you find someone that interests you on one of those sites, find them on TER or BD and make sure they're legitimate.

I actually do escort work, so if you have any questions about how it all works, PM me and I'll try to help you out.

 

[amygdala]

I think the point that most of us on this thread have been trying to make is this: Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? It's a really simple concept - and the fact that the OP is good looking with a great body and cock makes that even more appropriate to bring up. It's a lot harder to get the milk if you're ugly. . .he's not.

 

[Alyssa]

I think the point that most of us on this thread have been trying to make is this: Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? It's a really simple concept - and the fact that the OP is good looking with a great body and cock makes that even more appropriate to bring up. It's a lot harder to get the milk if you're ugly. . .he's not.

I understand that. But in those situations he's going to have to work to get her in bed. If he wants to do that, then great. I get the impression he doesn't, though. He's not going to be able to walk into some place, find a girl, flash her his cock and have her magically say, "Hey, let's go fuck."

 

[idaho69]

You could have fun on the dating sites since you photograph well. Compile a list of the bigger sites. Work one at a time. Put in several pictures ideally showing yourself active in various activities. (start a collection of pictures to keep on hand) You could let the girls contact you for the most part. Put in your ad that you are just looking
for someone to hang with - not seeking a relationship. You may get the most hits when you are "fresh meat" on the site then things may drop off a bit. Be prepared to move onto to the next site if this happens. Pull your old ad so it will be "fresh" when you eventually rotate back to this first site. Meet the girls initially for a drink to screen then - keep this first date short - it won't take long to decide whether you have a keeper or not - about 5 minutes. You have to work the odds here - only a certain percentage will be worth pursuing. Any questions? let me know.

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

There is nothing wrong with paying for sex first of all.
If you can afford to do so why not? Calling an escort service{male or female} is the best way to insure you will receive exactly the kind of sex you desire.
Many great looking men pay for sex don't buy into that bullshit about "you're a nice looking guy,why pay"?
Men pay for sex because they don't want to waste time wining and dining a women for substantial cost only to find out she is not going to sleep with you!
Many handsome and famous men routinely utilize escort services so why shouldn't you?
Call several sites in your area that have a good reputation.
Make sure you ask them what the fee is,for how long and ask to see photos of the women who will be servicing you. If the girl is not the same one as you asked for, don't hesitate to call the service and send that girl back.
Happy Sex!!!
cigarbabe:saevil:

I second, or perhaps third with Nick 8, CigarBabe's advice.
A good escort service will provide exactly what you physically need, plus, possibly take the edge off your desire to find a sexual partner. I think of it like hitting a reset button on the dry spell clock.

Good luck and please use safer sex methods.

 

[D_Bob_Crotchitch]

Why not work on yourself and your life first? There are a whole lot of people out there that are taking care of it themselves. Don't believe ones who claim they never do. A doc told me that 95% of men admit they masturbate, and the other 5% lie. Even married guys do it a lot. You are worth waiting for don't just go pay money for it because of a stress reason.

 

[amygdala]

I understand that. But in those situations he's going to have to work to get her in bed. If he wants to do that, then great. I get the impression he doesn't, though. He's not going to be able to walk into some place, find a girl, flash her his cock and have her magically say, "Hey, let's go fuck."

No, flashing girls his cock is something best left to internet sites like craigslist. The point is - there are plenty of people online more than happy to give it away for free.

 

[D_Selmus_Swallow]

Well there's quite a bit to respond to here, so I'll break it up into a few posts to try to an answer as much as possible:

Hey bro. It's your cock and your money. Be careful and go for it.

I'm still on the fence, but thanks.

If you want to, do it, or just try some internet sites. But i think craigslist is full of fakes.

Actually I'm beginning almost any site is full of fakes for the most part, but yeah craigslist IME is nothing but...nothing. Well, least in this case.

Had a period in my life when I used working girls. I fucked some very lovely, sexy women; there's nothing like choosing the girl (or girls if you're threesoming) from a group of attractive WGs in a brothel, then taking her/them off to a bed or jacuzzi for some fun. Picture is a 19yr old WG I chose from a line-up in a brothel in Scotland a few years ago - she was hot and very memorable!

Go for it, man! Just a few tips - always wear a condom, treat the girls with respect, avoid places where girls might have been forced into working, discuss the price before you start. See this link for more -

The International Sex Guide Forum

Thanks! That link is now bookmarked. :wink:

A quick reading of the thread and I see that two people have actually tried to answer the question.

The "nice cock you shouldn't have a problem" answers are from people who don't have a clue and unless they are followed with an "I'll be right over to take care of you" are probably not helping your situation.

Don't have any experience but some suggestions.

Be careful not to get yourself arrested.

Consider traveling to somewhere that the laws make it easier - Nevada or Canada come to mind. If you go on a little sex vacation plenty of places on the internet with information and advice.
there are still laws in those places - be careful not to break them.

Supposedly sites like Adult Friend Finder are full of prostitutes.
Since those sites although "free" really prevent communication between people unless paying - you might have to ante up a little $ so the prostitutes can contact you. You can get a one month membership. Careful if you use a credit card. sometimes they will automatically charge your card for renewing.
Hell, you might get lucky and actually find a woman who is interested and not a prostitute.

My guess is plan on spending at least a couple of hundred bucks for about an hour with a "happy ending". Not much more than you could spend on a date with no "happy ending".
Of course you could spend much more - just look at what Elliot Spitzer did

Suggestions not actually a response to your question.

Post a question in the forum here if anyone who was on Adult Friend Finder was contacted by prostitutes posing as members or if anyone they contacted turned out to be a prostitute.
Hopefully you will get more real answers then you did in this thread.

Finally, Post in the "Large Penis Personal Ads" here and see if any of the people who found you and your penis so attractive respond.
(Don't hold your breath)

Good Luck

Wish I could be more of a help

First of all, no need to wish you could be more of a help, you've done more than a enough! Thanks for the response!

I've been on AFF before, paying. No dice. Well, I did get the occasional random, unsolicited response from gay men on there, but as I'm straight that was going no where. Frankly the personals here have had about the same effect.

And frankly, I'm going to need a major loan to afford the kind of hookers say, Spitzer and Charlie Sheen and so on are/were getting. Probably the same problem for any sort sex vacation to Vegas.

I guess I'll have to forget about paying the rent for awhile to make this work. Fuck. Well, not like that was to be unexpected.

If you do want to pay for sex, then the best possible way of doing it is to pay for an escort - avoid picking up a prostitute from the street - they are usually the real dregs of sex workers. If you look online for "escort services" followed by the town/city/state in which you live you will find something. You can usually pick the exact girl you want (from their pictures on the website) and all of the prices are detailed (and arranged) by the escorts manager beforehand. They can come to your home (or hotel if you prefer) and they will be worth every penny. Best of luck with your search dude! xoxo

I was definitely leaning far, far, far away from streetwalkers. I'm going for real pro if I do this at all. Thanks for the well wishes!

I second, or perhaps third with Nick 8, CigarBabe's advice.
A good escort service will provide exactly what you physically need, plus, possibly take the edge off your desire to find a sexual partner. I think of it like hitting a reset button on the dry spell clock.

Good luck and please use safer sex methods.

Ah, if only setting the reset button here was as easy as on, say, my Super Nintendo. Thanks!

 

[D_Selmus_Swallow]

So if you aren't getting laid it isn't because no one will find you attractive.

I certainly hope not.

If you get off on the idea of paying, that's fine.

Not particularly.

Or perhaps you've got some kink that you think you can only indulge if you pay?

Probably not but most of what I'm interested in now would be fairly straight-forward sex-wise.

Maybe you are very specific in your sexual attractions and want your partners to look a certain way?

Hmmm...I wouldn't say so. I'm not looking for somebody who's GOT to have a D-cup and peroxide blonde hair who looks like a porn star (in fact that's on the low side of my scale of attraction) but I do know guys who are that specific and more, who are of course doomed to failure-usually.

However, if you're adding a personality to this- then the list gets shorter quickly.

Another thing: most people are missing a key thing- goods looks, an image, and a personality are things that will lower chances of getting laid- if you demand that your sex partners be at a comparable level.
To put it in terms this board can immediately understand: If you're a size-queen, and you are going on little more than blind luck in hoping you'll land that 9-inch cock- statistically, you have a 1 in a hundred shot at landing one.


I mean, I'm sure if lower my standards I could have had sloppy bad drunk sex with a woman twice my age (to remember one recent instance) who to put it kindly had little going on physically or otherwise- but I'm still holding onto my archaic idea that sex should be something that's enjoyable and can be be enjoy with someone you like as a person.

Shocking, I know.

If you are just looking for some anon situation where you can get off, that's readily available for free for cute young straight guys. Lots of women and men would be happy to help out.

Well there's where I'm at now: Most of the last six years has been spent in a fairly futile track of trying to find a woman for a relationship.

This has failed for every reason under the sun, and I'm tired of my hands as sex partners.

So where is this abundance of free sex everybody keeps talking about? Because I'm inclined to add it to 15" penises on the list of things I'm not seeing anywhere (keeping in mind the standards I laid down earlier).

 

[killerb]

D-Low - you're a person who has standards - automatically that makes it a little more complicated than just going out & banging some random chick...

I definitely understand where you're coming from...I'm in a somewhat similar position, meaning that I would also like to find someone to build a relationship with...the only difference is that I do currently have a FWB...

Regarding the paying for sex thing, just be very careful...and I hope you're able to get your needs taken care of soon!

 

[D_Selmus_Swallow]

I looked at your gallery.

Nothing wrong with you.

There must be better, slower and cheaper ways for you to get laid. Don't you have trusted buddies who can introduce you?

I had one try to set me up twice. He was spot on with the looks and personality requirements, especially of the first choice, but after one got knocked up by somebody else and the other just started blowing me off after I got her number and none of the plans we made ever end up with her showing up- I'd say he's 0-2 and in danger off not making the playoffs with that record. Besides he's seven hours away in the Twin Cities, so there's little practically he can do right now.

That's about it.

I would not consider most of the other guys I know "friends" and the ones I do know are older and married, as are their friends.

Now, if most of the women I knew and am friends with would leave their current exclusive monogamous relationships with other guys for me- well then everything would be fine.

 

[B_Nick4444]

Men pay for sex because they don't want to waste time wining and dining a women for substantial cost only to find out she is not going to sleep with you!

cigarbabe:saevil:

think I'm beginning to like this chick!

 

[Pitbull]

So where is this abundance of free sex everybody keeps talking about?

I think you need to follow the yellow brick road.

It doesn't exist - at least not for you.
You seem like the kind of guy who doesn't play games and doesn't lie to women to get into their pants. The kind of guy who women say they want but the one they leave in the dust to jump into bed with a lying player.

(I have my flame proof suit on because I know someone isn't going to like what I just said)

 

[morsecode]

I think you need to follow the yellow brick road.

It doesn't exist - at least not for you.
You seem like the kind of guy who doesn't play games and doesn't lie to women to get into their pants. The kind of guy who women say they want but the one they leave in the dust to jump into bed with a lying player.

(I have my flame proof suit on because I know someone isn't going to like what I just said)

that seems to be the m.o. these days

 

[sexplease]

in one way or another we all pay for it.
like the old saying goes: Gas Grass or Ass, nobody rides for free

Have fun, play safe.

 

[tripod]

Don't do it. Spend the money on some librarian chick and get lucky on your own merits. If you do pay for sex... you WILL be sorry. You will never forget the experience and when you look back on it, you will be angry at yourself and have a constant source of personal shame. The sex with most hookers is downright deplorable and you could very well smell or see something that will scar your memory forever.

DON'T DO IT!!!!!

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

Don't do it. Spend the money on some librarian chick and get lucky on your own merits. If you do pay for sex... you WILL be sorry. You will never forget the experience and when you look back on it, you will be angry at yourself and have a constant source of personal shame. The sex with most hookers is downright deplorable and you could very well smell or see something that will scar your memory forever.

DON'T DO IT!!!!!

Why would someone who pays for sex be sorry or feel shame?
Prostitution has been around forever, and people from all walks off life use the services of these men and women without shame, without incident, and enjoyed it for what it was. Why can't the OP have a similar experience?

Further, a sexual escapade with a prostitute is no more or less risky than sex with anyone else one doesn't know, that hasn't been thoroughly tested--including a librarian chick.