Well, D-low, you get a lot of comments on how good looking you are and what a huge dick you have. But what most people forget here is that we don't walk naked in the streets so that everyone could see what we have hanging between our legs.
Well, that does seem to be the thing here: people seem to think that what goes on here on this board is somehow translatable to real-life. It isn't.
And besides: it is not as if I'm the only person in the world with a body, a cock, and a personality.
You are a goodlooking man, but maybe a bit more introvert around girls. That makes the difference. People say to me here that it is weird that I'm a virgin because my looks are awesome and that I have an awesome dick, and I appreciate their comments, but it isn't that easy for every person to get laid like it is nothing.
Well you are correct IMO.
Right now, I'm trying to figure out what sort of parallel, alternate universe some of the other posters think I'm living in where women should be pursuing me as if I'm some god.
If you are considering paying for sex and you know you won't regret it later, why not then. It is a good experience to learn from probably. Don't forgot to tell us about it
If it happens, you will know for sure.
dude! you're a good looking guy with a big dick....you shouldn't have to pay for sex! put yourself out there...
I guess that's one problem; I've been "out there" for years now, and frankly, I'm getting tired of people telling me what a funny, handsome, well-spoken, etc. etc. etc. guy I am- and then continue getting blown off, shot down, and so on.
I'm sick of bars, and other than there or work, there's no other real venue to meet anybody, unless my online fortune improves or one of my female friends decides to end their relationship(s) to go for me. Frankly that policy has not worked. I will continue to do what I can, but I'm not holding my breath either.
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I'm wondering if you guys actually think like that? If you think that just because you have a huge cock, any woman you encounter is going to want to jump into bed with you, you're so incredibly deluded. lmao Women don't work like that, generally speaking (sure there are some but they are few and far between).
I don't know why no one else gets this except you and me and Pieter, but this is right.
As others have said, avoid the streetwalkers. They're usually drug addicts, practice very little safe sex, and many already have an STD. Some don't, but you're literally in the middle of a crap shoot trying to pick out one that doesn't fit that profile. Plus the cops are always watching them, so you're liable to end up in the middle of a bust in many cities.
There are plenty of ad sites for escorts on the web. Go to one of those, select your city, make a call and set up an appointment. As the person who pointed out what Jack Nicholson had to say on the subject, you're paying for them to go away when you're done. You're guaranteed to get laid. Plus, escorts are professionals and they know what they're doing in bed, and most know how to handle a larger cock! They all are tested routinely as well, so you run very little risk of catching something.
Two of the best sites to find escorts are The Erotic Review and Bigdoggie dot net. You can do searches in your city and find providers with good reviews and go from there. On both of them you have to pay to be able to see the detailed reviews, but even with the free accounts, you can get an idea of who to see and who to avoid.
If you use Craigslist or Backpage, watch out because there are a lot of bait-and-switches on those sites. If you find someone that interests you on one of those sites, find them on TER or BD and make sure they're legitimate.
I actually do escort work, so if you have any questions about how it all works, PM me and I'll try to help you out.
I've checked out TER and Bigdoggie, thanks for the resource info!
I think the point that most of us on this thread have been trying to make is this: Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? It's a really simple concept - and the fact that the OP is good looking with a great body and cock makes that even more appropriate to bring up. It's a lot harder to get the milk if you're ugly. . .he's not.
Well the problem seems to be that most of the cows I see are spoken for already, aren't attractive, or aren't around here for me to milk.
I understand that. But in those situations he's going to have to work to get her in bed. If he wants to do that, then great. I get the impression he doesn't, though. He's not going to be able to walk into some place, find a girl, flash her his cock and have her magically say, "Hey, let's go fuck."
Well, you're wrong about the not wanting to work part; if nothing that's all it's been has been a lot of work put into, in the end, practically nothing. Of course most of the past years have been devoted to finding a relationship and not just sex, inherently a more difficult task. But your last sentence is spot-on right and I've said it myself to people IRL with whom I've had this discussion.
No, flashing girls his cock is something best left to internet sites like craigslist. The point is - there are plenty of people online more than happy to give it away for free.
Well, all I can say is lead the horse to water and he will drink it. I'm just not seeing all this available sex that I'm supposedly missing. I could have missed something somewhere, but there are few stones left to be unturned.