So my best friend just asked me to cheat on my g/f.....

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The only reason he's meeting this girl is to fuck like a craigslist sort of hook-up. And he's like c'mon stop being gay chances like this don't come along everyday. I kept telling him no because not just I'm in a relationship it's just I don't care. And I'm not gonna have sex with some random rat. He's looking for something I guess, to have fun and catch up on all the things he missed out on in high school while I just want to grow up and move forward with life. I'm already moving away from him in ways. I know there are places I can't take him. Friends I can't bring him around because it ultimately makes me look bad. And when we were younger being his best friend has probably cost me in the dating circle because he's look at as weird.

Like I'm just trying to grow up. I am girl crazy but what attracts me is beauty inside and out, class, elegance, ambition and brains. Every girl he messes with is not on my level. And complains about me being obscenely picky but I know what I want and don't want in a woman.

OK just checking!:redface:

You're just both trying to do what works for you at this moment, but no - he shouldn't be trying to pull you into his world/way of thinking if you know that's not gonna work for you. This will happen many times and for many different reasons in your life. Do what's right for you.
 

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if you don't want it you obviously shouldn't do it, the friend isn't being THAT good a friend to be insisting you go against what YOU want/need.