So..my best friend wants to have sex... again

tbg321

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I have a friend doing a very similar thing to me right now. Whenever he's been drinking he's ALL over me, and then when he's sober we barely speak. He even spent the night at my house. He has a lovely girlfriend that I care about very much, so I feel weird being a part of it at all.

This guy is one of my absolute best friends, but I can tell that he's using me. Tell your friend no, unless you think the outcome will be different this time. If he wants to sleep with you so badly, he can't just do that and then not speak to you after. That's not very friendly, or gentlemanly.
 

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Is your friend married?? Becuase there doesn't seem to be a problem. that is unless someones not secure with thier sexuality.
 

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Thanks everyone for your advice. It really gave me some guidance on what to do. I sat down with my friend and explained to him how i felt, and reminded him of how awkward our friendship became after the last time.. he got a little sad, but afterwards i took him out for sushi and he said he felt better... So, things have been pretty normal right now. I saw him for the first time in 3 days today, and he seemed ok.

so yeah, thanks! :D

Glad to hear you two have sorted things out! I'm also glad that you sat down and talked with him. Too few people seem to do that anymore and it will solve more problems than just about anything else.