So my GF is getting hit on A LOT!!!
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I have guys send me pix of their cocks all the time...unsolicited and they're not big either!
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She hates it but wouldnt know what to do with herself if no one ever noticed her efforts to look good. And trust me, you could look like a huge barrel of beans and get hit on at a hardware store. You aren't exactly dealing with white collar folks on the whole there. You are dealing with people who work in pretty unprofessional settings and are more likely to hear comments they don't find offensive because they are around men all day on the work site.
She's telling you these things because in a way she hates it- because sometimes the people approaching you are complete oafs- you get a couple of those in a row and you start to wonder what is wrong with you. But more of her likes being attractive but she wants to be taken seriously at the same time. It's nearly impossible to be both in every setting you are in.
You go where mostly men who are covered in sweat and sawdust hang out- you are going to hear a completely different set of comments compared to hanging out at Barnes and Noble. It is what it is.
Haha, they just want to share with you, cmon! They are saying "here is all of me! Love it!"
I always thought that was a strange behavior.
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Let me tell you- any man with a dick and a cellphone regardless of his age will look for any reason to take pictures of his dick and text it to a woman. If you took the cellphones from guys aged 12-87 years old there are many pics of his dick in there.
Its not just at work. She only been there for 3 months. She gets hit on at the Library, Meijer's, and at the gym too. In fact, yesterday, she met her cousin's step-sister's cousin because he hit on her while at LA Fitness. She said that was an awkward moment.
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People are single and looking for opportunities to hook up. It's no different today than it was yesterday in this world. If anything people are braver about saying something in hopes to not miss an opportunity at all. In fact, some of these comments about her looks could be just that and not in any way trying to date her. They could be men who aren't available anyway.
It is strange behavior. I never thought it was normal.
Yet we are on a Big penis website.....:redface:
Have you been living under a rock? Yes! Women get hit on a lot! Every single time they're in public! All those places are familiar, as well as the gas station, the grocery store, the post office, the sidewalk... anywhere men and women encounter one another, that's where women will get hit on.
It's a good thing that you aren't so jealous that your girlfriend doesn't tell you. I had one ex-boyfriend who used to get angry every time a man hit on me if he was nearby. He felt that he had been personally disrespected, which always made me roll my eyes. He thought puffing up his chest and acting tough reinforced his "manliness" but it always reduced my opinion of him as a man every single time he did that. I've always felt that a real man wouldn't be so bothered by that sort of thing that he acted like an idiot.
I actually think TheBoyfriend enjoys it when other men hit on me. He seems to like seeing how other men act towards me and he seems to enjoy watching them fail to pick me up. It doesn't make him jealous at all. He seems to think it's funny.
My first encounter with this was the time I went to my friend's book signing party wearing a corset and leather pants that she had given me because she'd grown out of them and I didn't have anything appropriate to wear to a party like that. The book was just released and it was the first book signing, so there was a whole party, and it was a "corset and leather pants" sort of party.
I assumed that TheBoyfriend would stand by my side all night long, discouraging other men from talking to me like other men would do, so I didn't feel so self-conscious about going to the party dressed like that. Besides lots of other people were also going to be wearing racy goth clothes, including the author of the book, so it wasn't like I'd stand out.
At the party, TheBoyfriend did not behave the way I expected him to at all! He stood far away from me next to his best friend, watching me with an amused look on his face, leaving me to deal with the male attention that corset+leather pants+heels brings. Every single time I looked at him like, "Help!" he was just laughing at me. He seemed to be purposefully not standing next to me so that he didn't discourage anyone from hitting on me so he could watch the whole amusing scene from afar. I have to admit, his confidence in himself and me is very sexy to me, even though I was very annoyed with him that night.
I recommend that's how you should handle it. Watch it like an anthropologist. Enjoy the absurdities of male/female interactions. Enjoy the fact that she's hot enough that lots of guys hit on her, but she goes home with you. :smile:
It's a good thing that you aren't so jealous that your girlfriend doesn't tell you. I had one ex-boyfriend who used to get angry every time a man hit on me if he was nearby. He felt that he had been personally disrespected, which always made me roll my eyes. He thought puffing up his chest and acting tough reinforced his "manliness" but it always reduced my opinion of him as a man every single time he did that. I've always felt that a real man wouldn't be so bothered by that sort of thing that he acted like an idiot.
I actually think TheBoyfriend enjoys it when other men hit on me. He seems to like seeing how other men act towards me and he seems to enjoy watching them fail to pick me up. It doesn't make him jealous at all. He seems to think it's funny.
My first encounter with this was the time I went to my friend's book signing party wearing a corset and leather pants that she had given me because she'd grown out of them and I didn't have anything appropriate to wear to a party like that. The book was just released and it was the first book signing, so there was a whole party, and it was a "corset and leather pants" sort of party.
I assumed that TheBoyfriend would stand by my side all night long, discouraging other men from talking to me like other men would do, so I didn't feel so self-conscious about going to the party dressed like that. Besides lots of other people were also going to be wearing racy goth clothes, including the author of the book, so it wasn't like I'd stand out.
At the party, TheBoyfriend did not behave the way I expected him to at all! He stood far away from me next to his best friend, watching me with an amused look on his face, leaving me to deal with the male attention that corset+leather pants+heels brings. Every single time I looked at him like, "Help!" he was just laughing at me. He seemed to be purposefully not standing next to me so that he didn't discourage anyone from hitting on me so he could watch the whole amusing scene from afar. I have to admit, his confidence in himself and me is very sexy to me, even though I was very annoyed with him that night.
I recommend that's how you should handle it. Watch it like an anthropologist. Enjoy the absurdities of male/female interactions. Enjoy the fact that she's hot enough that lots of guys hit on her, but she goes home with you. :smile:
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I quit going to the gym because of the same thing. The last thing I want is someone hitting on me while I'm working my butt off. I bought a treadmill and use my bf's weights. Home Depot/ Lowes are full of men. Its like putting a guppy in with a tank full of predators, they are going to notice. Don't even get me started on the grocery store I had a guy run into my cart, apologise and ask for my number.
As long as she's telling you about it, don't worry. Be happy that you've got her and she's yours:smile:
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You know, it is for this reason alone that I started taking martial arts classes 8 years ago. My mom has been a black belt since she was about my age and she started for the same reason I started....getting hit on oh too often. She says that even though guys look at her DD's they forget it all when they wind up on the ground and had no idea how or why they got there so fast. She also says we can't hide our DD's either and that's a fact, just look at my avatar. True enough, sometimes we dress as some say, asking for it......NOT......but you can't be too careful. As my stepdad says, 'there are a lot of weird nuts out there'!!! Although I've had several guys hit on me, I've never felt I had to physically put someone in their place like my mom has done on several occasions and hope I don't ever have to. I'm not sure anyone on campus knows I'm a brown belt and I'm not telling. The stalking thing happens oh too often I'm afraid to unsuspecting women that don't know what kind of mixed signals they're sending to guys. I'm much more attracted to confident guys that look at me for much more than my body.
I don't think men, I mean our significant others, realize how often women get hit on. I know my husband is a gentlemen, well at least in my company, but I've never been surprised by unsolicited comments or help. I get helped a lot. I don't remember the last time I picked up a large bag of dog food by myself. Sometimes it's nice, sometimes not. Sometimes it's downright creepy. Creepy I would expect if I'm alone at a bar, not in Wal Mart. But here we are.
My husband's a musician and sometimes I go to hear his band. The downside is that I'm usually alone so I steel myself for the inevitable. I meet the most "wonderful" men and so many of them. I really think they take it as a challenge - their buddy just got shot down, so maybe they have a chance because their approach is better. Or maybe my resolve is weakened. Sometimes the next day Cap and I will talk about some of the better efforts, or he'll ask "what did that one guy want?" What did he want? What the hell you think he wanted! LOL!!!! He wanted me to file his taxes. LOL! Sorry, I did tell him that one time.
It's payback really. When I was single... again... I would go out on Friday and Saturday nights with my girlfriends. Mum always loved to keep my daughter, but once she asked how I could afford to go out so much. I had to laugh at her... seriously! I told her it only cost me about two bucks for the first Coke. The rest of the evening was paid for.
Yes, I was a player! LOL! But there was never any doubt that I would be approached by generous gentlemen. There was never a contract or a promise, understand. I know I couldn't do that now, and even if I could I probably wouldn't do it now, but back then it was the way the game was played.
My husband's a musician and sometimes I go to hear his band. The downside is that I'm usually alone so I steel myself for the inevitable. I meet the most "wonderful" men and so many of them. I really think they take it as a challenge - their buddy just got shot down, so maybe they have a chance because their approach is better. Or maybe my resolve is weakened. Sometimes the next day Cap and I will talk about some of the better efforts, or he'll ask "what did that one guy want?" What did he want? What the hell you think he wanted! LOL!!!! He wanted me to file his taxes. LOL! Sorry, I did tell him that one time.
It's payback really. When I was single... again... I would go out on Friday and Saturday nights with my girlfriends. Mum always loved to keep my daughter, but once she asked how I could afford to go out so much. I had to laugh at her... seriously! I told her it only cost me about two bucks for the first Coke. The rest of the evening was paid for.
Yes, I was a player! LOL! But there was never any doubt that I would be approached by generous gentlemen. There was never a contract or a promise, understand. I know I couldn't do that now, and even if I could I probably wouldn't do it now, but back then it was the way the game was played.
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I'm so beautiful i'm hit on all day every day...i mean,just look at my avatar...i do...i can't stop looking at me as i am amazed by my astonishing beauty.Oh i am so wonderfully gorgeous that i am bestowed by the attentions of royalty and the mere mortals can look,i will allow that seeing as i am so wonderfully kind and gracious and not at all big headed....just big titted....look at my avatar....that is the oh so wonderful meeeeee!:biggrin1:
Seriously though,don't stress,just be pleased that she is being admired.
Seriously though,don't stress,just be pleased that she is being admired.
I can just don't understand so many people doing that.
I never even took a picture of my penis before i did it to post it here, if a GF wants some fine, but just sending them out, that is not me.
I'm saying that she is getting more opportunities than me. I don't an open relationship if its just one sided. And she just don't want one period.
And all the males commenting that this thread is fail, well to bad. I'm not posting pictures of her. I'm not here to brag. I'm in the WOMEN'S SECTION to see if this happens to other women often.
