So my gf just told me that i'm tiny just like my ex did...

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  1. IronFist

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    I've been going out with my gf for a lil over 3 months now. I really love her because she's helped me through some difficult times and she is actually only the 2nd gf that I've had.

    We actually work at the same place together and I know you're going to say don't mix work and relationships lol.... but I met her before we started working together. I was in between jobs and she basically referred me to this place and put in a good word to her manager for me.

    So the other night we got off at the same time and she came home with me to hang out for the night (we aren't living together yet or anything). We were laying naked in bed together after sex cuddling and just talking and playing on our phones when and out of nowhere after a few seconds of silence in the most normal sounding tone she says while softly touching my body and staring at my flaccid member there, "It's tiny".

    I was kinda shocked and didn't know what to say at first... I just kinda nervously said, "what?" and she just started giggling so I was just kinda playing it off trying to be all funny and awkward like, "don't be so mean to me I just came" and stupid stuff like that...

    After she was kinda laughing for a minute she just changed the subject and we just talked about other things for the rest of the night and didn't bring it back up..... and the funniest part about all this is that I actually sorta have fetish for being humiliated.. but it still kinda bothers me for two reasons....

    The first reason is that this is the SECOND TIME this has happened to me! I'm not joking. Remember how I said she is my second gf? Well my first said literally the exact same thing!!! I know you're not going to believe me but it's true... I never had sex with her though because we were kinda young at the time.. She was willing to do certain things with me but not sex, and it wasn't until basically after she watched me jerk off and after I came I went soft and she said the exact words, "it's tiny". I'm not even joking... I don't hate my life or anything lol I'm just glad I've had some sexual experiences and I'm not some 25 year old virgin or something... but seriously.. literally the only two girlfriends I've ever had in my life have told me that I was tiny in the exact same ways........... Now I really am actually kinda... scared to show it to her when it's soft. Like I've heard of guys who have had that problem and I always used to laugh at it but now I'm afraid I'm one of them or Idk I'm just a lil depressed over the whole thing ;(

    And the second reason it bothers me is because like I said we work together... so now I'm really afraid she's going to tell our co-workers about it or something... I really don't think she's that type of person.. but then it did surprise me when she said it to begin with so idk....

    What do you guys think? Am I completely overthinking things? Is it not a big deal what she said? Is she not likely to tell anyone? Any advice would help. My profile is pretty new to this site but I've been lurking here for a while for a lot of the good porn threads...
     
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    If it offends you stop seeing her that way.. if it turns you on.. maybe you should ask her to put on a big strap-on and dominate and belittle you..tte you up or something.lolz
    I been with girls when I was younger but have a many issues with them..but mostly been 100% gay my whole life...and don't regret it.. guys are more chill in every way..
     
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    I think we need to see it in order to give the best advice. How big is it soft and hard?
     
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    Yeah I think it does turn me on as long as she isn't telling anybody else about it... but I'm not ok with a strap on haha I don't go that far xD
     
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    Lol I was nervous about it and idk if I should tell my gf but alright I'll try to post some pics as soon as I can... but tbh with you... yeah she wasn't wrong or anything... when I'm soft it looks tiny and skinny like 2-3 inches :sweat:
     
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    True humiliation it should not matter who she tells.. part of the turn on from it.. and I didn't say have her do you with a strap on.. just to put one on..to show you who's in charge lmfao.. but then again if she wears it she might wanna make you submit to it.. haha > : )~
     
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    Dude lots of guys have tiny dicks just be glad you dont have micro penis..hell half the dicks here are only 7 8 9s and maybe a few 10s they just shoot from angles that make them look bigger they lie or use software to make them look big...lolz
     
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    Hmm... Two words come to mind. Post history.
     
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    Haha only 7 8 or 9s? I'll have to re-measure but I know I'm around 5-6. Sometimes I do feel like it's a bit of a problem honestly like I have trouble popping out a lot while having sex and I can't hump her too hard because I can't make too big of strokes unless I'll just pop out again :pensive:
     
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    Flaccid size is pretty whatever... And you say you are into SPH. Mmmmmyep, all I needed to read.
     
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    I'm just at 7 and thick.. never had many complaints.. one thing you could do is pleasure her in other ways... Eat her out till she's cums so hard she will love you for it... Or you could go anal with her..and that would be super tight not like a big open pussy...lolz just some ideas and it sounds like your adverage 5-6 is adverage :)
     
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    Is this at least OC?
     
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    You're not tiny. Many studies put the average flaccid penis at between 2-3 inches,

    "According to the team's analysis, the average flaccid, pendulous penis is 9.16 cm (3.61 inches) in length; the average erect penis is 13.12 cm (5.16 inches) long. The corresponding girth measurements are 9.31 cm (3.66 inches) for a flaccid penis and 11.66 cm (4.59 inches) for an erect one."
    www.sciencemag.org/news/2015/03/how-big-average-penis

    Mine's definitely small (or even "tiny") when soft: 1-1/2 to 2 inches, either buried in my pubic hair or poking straight out, perched above my balls, showing a little shaft.

    My advice is not to worry about it. First, it's the erect size which matters. Second, it's how you use it; or, more importantly, how your girlfriend reacts to it. She seems to be just teasing; if it really mattered, she would have ditched you by now. Just consider it a bonus: you actually seem to enjoy the teasing.

     
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    LOL. And so few posts to get to that conclusion :D
     
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    i have the solution for you, take a look at my pics, I can help you if you want @IronFist
     
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    I would firmly tell her to never say anything body shaming again or you are going to have a problem being naked around her.

    Probably they just said what came in their head but if we told women they are ugly fat and had small breasts it wouldn’t get a laugh.
     
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    I would try to think of it as, erect is it’s true form, soft is not. Otherwise it can drive us crazy.

    Or “not small, retractable”.

    There is a difference.
     
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    Have you tried to inject how big your cock is lately?
     
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    Is she still having sex with you? If so, then your size doesn't seem to bother her. Maybe there is something about you that she likes more than the size of your penis.
     
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    Myself I would be looking for another job and getting as far away from her as I can. Not a person I would want to be with. Nope.
     
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