I've been going out with my gf for a lil over 3 months now. I really love her because she's helped me through some difficult times and she is actually only the 2nd gf that I've had.
We actually work at the same place together and I know you're going to say don't mix work and relationships lol.... but I met her before we started working together. I was in between jobs and she basically referred me to this place and put in a good word to her manager for me.
So the other night we got off at the same time and she came home with me to hang out for the night (we aren't living together yet or anything). We were laying naked in bed together after sex cuddling and just talking and playing on our phones when and out of nowhere after a few seconds of silence in the most normal sounding tone she says while softly touching my body and staring at my flaccid member there, "It's tiny".
I was kinda shocked and didn't know what to say at first... I just kinda nervously said, "what?" and she just started giggling so I was just kinda playing it off trying to be all funny and awkward like, "don't be so mean to me I just came" and stupid stuff like that...
After she was kinda laughing for a minute she just changed the subject and we just talked about other things for the rest of the night and didn't bring it back up..... and the funniest part about all this is that I actually sorta have fetish for being humiliated.. but it still kinda bothers me for two reasons....
The first reason is that this is the SECOND TIME this has happened to me! I'm not joking. Remember how I said she is my second gf? Well my first said literally the exact same thing!!! I know you're not going to believe me but it's true... I never had sex with her though because we were kinda young at the time.. She was willing to do certain things with me but not sex, and it wasn't until basically after she watched me jerk off and after I came I went soft and she said the exact words, "it's tiny". I'm not even joking... I don't hate my life or anything lol I'm just glad I've had some sexual experiences and I'm not some 25 year old virgin or something... but seriously.. literally the only two girlfriends I've ever had in my life have told me that I was tiny in the exact same ways........... Now I really am actually kinda... scared to show it to her when it's soft. Like I've heard of guys who have had that problem and I always used to laugh at it but now I'm afraid I'm one of them or Idk I'm just a lil depressed over the whole thing ;(
And the second reason it bothers me is because like I said we work together... so now I'm really afraid she's going to tell our co-workers about it or something... I really don't think she's that type of person.. but then it did surprise me when she said it to begin with so idk....
What do you guys think? Am I completely overthinking things? Is it not a big deal what she said? Is she not likely to tell anyone? Any advice would help. My profile is pretty new to this site but I've been lurking here for a while for a lot of the good porn threads...
We actually work at the same place together and I know you're going to say don't mix work and relationships lol.... but I met her before we started working together. I was in between jobs and she basically referred me to this place and put in a good word to her manager for me.
So the other night we got off at the same time and she came home with me to hang out for the night (we aren't living together yet or anything). We were laying naked in bed together after sex cuddling and just talking and playing on our phones when and out of nowhere after a few seconds of silence in the most normal sounding tone she says while softly touching my body and staring at my flaccid member there, "It's tiny".
I was kinda shocked and didn't know what to say at first... I just kinda nervously said, "what?" and she just started giggling so I was just kinda playing it off trying to be all funny and awkward like, "don't be so mean to me I just came" and stupid stuff like that...
After she was kinda laughing for a minute she just changed the subject and we just talked about other things for the rest of the night and didn't bring it back up..... and the funniest part about all this is that I actually sorta have fetish for being humiliated.. but it still kinda bothers me for two reasons....
The first reason is that this is the SECOND TIME this has happened to me! I'm not joking. Remember how I said she is my second gf? Well my first said literally the exact same thing!!! I know you're not going to believe me but it's true... I never had sex with her though because we were kinda young at the time.. She was willing to do certain things with me but not sex, and it wasn't until basically after she watched me jerk off and after I came I went soft and she said the exact words, "it's tiny". I'm not even joking... I don't hate my life or anything lol I'm just glad I've had some sexual experiences and I'm not some 25 year old virgin or something... but seriously.. literally the only two girlfriends I've ever had in my life have told me that I was tiny in the exact same ways........... Now I really am actually kinda... scared to show it to her when it's soft. Like I've heard of guys who have had that problem and I always used to laugh at it but now I'm afraid I'm one of them or Idk I'm just a lil depressed over the whole thing ;(
And the second reason it bothers me is because like I said we work together... so now I'm really afraid she's going to tell our co-workers about it or something... I really don't think she's that type of person.. but then it did surprise me when she said it to begin with so idk....
What do you guys think? Am I completely overthinking things? Is it not a big deal what she said? Is she not likely to tell anyone? Any advice would help. My profile is pretty new to this site but I've been lurking here for a while for a lot of the good porn threads...
