So, other than a large unit or big breast...what do you all like in a partner?

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  1. Boing

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    It's fairly obvious that most of the people on these forums have an interest in a large unit hehe. I'm curious what else you all might like sexually in your partner?

    For instance. I like a woman that is Very sexually open and can openly talk about anything. I Very much appreciate a woman that is physically active...although it's not a requirement it is a turn on :wink: I am 100% a legs n Butt man lol Smoth skin and great legs/butt drive me wild! I don't care if the butt is small or larger...as long as it has a nice shape to it :tongue: I also like a girl that can make some noise in the bedroom :smile: and more than just a few grunts lol.

    So, there is just a few things that I like. Anything different or similar that you all like in the person sharin the bed with ya? :biggrin1:
     
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    Alright, I'll bite:

    This is gonna sound strange, but as I sit here and think about it, most of all I like a girl with a nice 'backstory' so to say. I realize this sounds weird, but allow me to explain: I come from a really messed up family (on all sides, all generations), and I'd like to be with someone who both understands what that's like and won't look down on me for I went through growing up. The girl with happily married parents and a big cheery family that enjoys each other's company is not for me.

    I also like someone who's not afraid to experiment, to try new things in all facets of life - and who won't criticise me for just the same. Variety is the spice of life after all.

    Oh, and on the physical side of things: I don't ask for much, only that she not outweigh me (I'm only 140 lbs) - being with somebody heavier would totally mess with my head, not to sound shallow... Besides that - beggers can't be choosers as they say. I think I covered HERE what my perfect female would look like.
     
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    Brown eyes, broad shoulders. More of a general thing, but a guy just has to be passionate, not about a specific thing, but about something, because if he doesn't seem to have any passion in his life, I think there is little hope he will be passionate enough about me. Guys also score big brownie points with me if they can cook, a home cooked italian meal is a shortcut to this girl's heart.
     
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    just to address the subject heading of this thread real quick (and then I need to get to class) I don't really go for big breasts. They can be fun to play with, as long as they're still somewhat firm and/or perky and nicely shaped... but usually I strongly prefer smaller ones for the reason that they are much more frequently firm and/or perky and nicely shaped.

    Beyond that... I don't know, it's a long list. But I like lots of different kinds of women.
     
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    I can make macaroni and cheese! (That counts as Italian, right? I can also do spaghetti-o's)
     
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    If the ones I know are any basis for generalization, I'd guess they're all planning to do that by default.

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    At risk of being a spoilsport, I'd say that, personally, sex doesn't much come into it. I look for one who can do something I can't do better. Whip my ass in a chess game, maybe, or play the tuba, or fly a jet. Hah! Still looking ...
     
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    usually this is the case, my gf however hates pasta, which sucks, because the only thing I can cook better than the average folk is spaghetti and lasagna.

    as far as the original question goes, I like a relaxed woman who doesn't get all bent out of shape over little things. She must be adventerous and love doing outdoorsy stuff such as hiking and kayaking. When I travel I like to see the area and not spend the time drunk on a resort allthough that can be fun for a couple of nights, so I like a woman who wants to go backpacking and check out some of the more remote sites. As far as looks go, I love brown eyes and a big smile with bright white teeth. She must have an ass and I will take a little jiggle over a flat ass any day.
     
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    Umm, im a pretty classy girl, its gotta be shells and cheese if your looking to impress me lol.
     
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    Personality and emotion and the ability to express those things. I like for people to show that their angry when they are, let me know it when youre happy, and if you're sad, cry but not too long.

    Some of the hottest individuals I have encountered and dated, fell short because they were defined only by their looks. The men were often stoic and the women were shallow.
     
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    Sense of humor and intelligence. Physical attributes are transitory. One of the sexiest women I know is in her fifties.
     
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    Faceking Googles recipe for Veal Parmigiana al'la Sicilia.... brushes up on Italian phrases, pulls out tablecloth ;-)
     
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    Maturity. First and foremost. Followed by intelligence, a good sense of humor and a sexy smile.

    On the shallow end of things... I like beards. Salt and pepper, grey, or white hair is a turn on, but bald is even sexier. The rest doesn't matter.

    Famous men I find sexy...

    Bob

    Ian

    Sean

    Anthony

    I also have a slight Santa fetish. My partner looks like Santa's evil twin. :smile:
     
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    Posting a longer reply, since I didn't say much before.

    What interests me in a woman? The whole package. People are a combination of things that come together to form theirselves- both their appearance and personality. I don't have a "type"... having gone out with girls from 4'9" to 6'0", A cups to DDs, from conervative shy virgins to girls who were working in strip clubs at 15, from women who were as much as 18 years my senior on down to girls who were considerably younger than I am, and just about every ethnicity under the sun... I'm probably starting to sound like a real whore now.

    Anyway, if I have a type, maybe it's whomever I wasn't dating last. Variety is the Viagra of life.

    So... it's really hard for me to get into specifics about what I like, what catches my eye, et cetera.

    I realize I have somewhat more structured criteria for someone I would consider getting serious with. Most of the girls I go out with these days are just for fun... but if someone fits the following description that would put them a few steps closer to winning my heart...

    I love intelligent women. I know some guys feel intimidated by this, but it's a major aphrodisiac for me. I've never met anyone I felt like I was intellectually inferior to, but if I found someone like that it would be a big turn on. In the meantime, anyone who is capable of carrying on an intelligent conversation, who gets some of my more esoteric jokes and whom I don't feel like I need to dumb down my own speech for would be great.

    If I'm going to get serious with someone, I'd like them to be as sexual as I am, which I realize is a very tall order. I'd want someone who could keep up with me in bed easily, who was open to ALL kinds of sexual exploration, who had a nearly insatiable libido and would do anything to please me in the bedroom (of course I'd return the favor).

    Ideally, I'd want someone trusting, who was not jealous or controlling. Someone I felt I could share anything with, which again I realize is a tall order just because I'm kind of messed up. If I could find someone who I felt completely comfortable around the same way when I am by myself... who I thought that I could share as much of myself with as I have with my friend Ben (who is the only person I tell everything to). That would be unimaginably cool. Haven't found that yet.

    Someone with similar tastes and interests as mine would be a big plus. I don't care if they like ALL of the same things I do... but really what good is a relationship if you can't do stuff together you both enjoy. Being a fanatical fan of Nine Inch Nails would be a big plus. Someone who I could sit down and watch cartoons with, Tim Burton movies, Fight Club, The Lord of the Rings, The Princess Bride, Terminator 2, anime, Adult Swim, The Daily Show, South Park, and whatever else I've got on my DVD shelf without them getting bored would be nice. I was recently down in my basement looking at all my DVDs thinking to myself I really needed a girlfriend so I'd have someone to watch them all again with... because watching movies by yourself that you've already seen 30 times seems kind of pathetic.

    I have to agree with AboutAverage... I like a girl with history. I'm not sure why, I guess for some of the same reasons he articulated. Someone who's been through the wringer a few times, has some scars, some emotional baggage... I think this makes relationships more interesting. It makes me feel like I can relate more to the person and that they can relate more to me... also if someone can confess things like this to me it really softens my heart. Talking about what sports teams you like is going to put me to sleep... but tell me about how hard it was picking up the pieces of your life after your first boyfriend dumped you or about the sense of rejection you had to cope with when your father abandoned you and you'll have me in the palm of your hand. I like people who aren't afraid to open up and show weakness. and people who have grown from their past mistakes.

    Women with something going on in their own lives are hot. Whether that takes the form of a career woman, someone in higher education, who's taken up an instrument, or something along those lines doesn't really matter. Just be able to tell me something when I ask what's new besides how many people you talked to today on the IMer. Feel passionate about something and that's a plus.

    As for personality type... someone not A-type, more laid back. Open-minded to new ideas. Adaptable. A great sense of humor is a must, though I already mentioned intelligence and I think those two things go hand in hand. Someone self-reliant but still able to invest parts of themselves in others.

    In an ideal world my perfect partner would be absolutely gorgeous, but again it's hard for me to pick out particulars. As long as you're not morbidly obese and take care of your own body... I tend to like petite women but I like tall girls, too. I tend to like thin but I also have a thing for curvy... Like brunettes but could definitely go for blondes or redheads... Non-obese, non-smoker, non-heavy-drug-user, non-alcholoic, and very attractive, in some way, those are my chief criteria. Having an original sense of style is a big plus.

    So many other little things, too... but ultimately... if I'm into a girl often I'm not sure exactly why. Sometimes I feel myself falling for someone and it catches me completely off guard. I think those indefinable things are really the most important. Those qualities that make your heart flutter that you either don't fully understand or can't quite put your finger on.
     
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    I DON'T like big breasts
     
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    Big breasts aren't my thing I'm afraid :biggrin1:

    But don't go cutting em off on my accord, ladies :wink:

    Anyways. Someone who can... the word is tolerate my sense of humor.

    Someone playful and open to just about anything. A bit on the innocent side preferrably. Constantly wanting sex :biggrin1: Kind at heart, someone who takes things in stride.

    As for the physical side... petite, youthful looking. Dark, straight hair.

    That's about it.

    Slade
     
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    Hmmm... Besides big dicks and big boobs? That leaves one physical thing:

    Booty. I'm an ass man from way back.

    I like all kinds of booties. My current girlfriend has a nice, big, round ghetto-booty, but I'm also a fan of what I call "white girl booty" (though it can belong to women of any race and ethnicity) - which is smaller, but firmer and very shapely. Not to mention that the two physical things I look at on a man first are bulge and ass.

    If we go beyond physical attraction to deep emotional stuff that forms relationships, I look for a two main things, since they're pretty important to me:

    1) Someone openminded and experimental. Anyone aquainted to me will tell you that I'm always open to new experiences and ideas, be they sexual, automotive, political, culinary, etc. I try to try everything at least once so that I can have a rich and fulfilling understanding of the broader concept. Therefore, I need someone willing to try new things, not just (though especially) in the bedroom.

    2) Someone willing to be there for me. Maybe it's because my dad isn't home much thanks to his job running the family shop or maybe it's because I grew up feeling different since I'm predominately attracted to boys, but I like a person that is there for me and, occasionally though rarely, willing to hold me.
     
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    Well, the big dick portion is out(You couldn't tell that just from my profile?:confused: ), so I'll opt with someone not totally devoid of experimentation and attempting new things.

    Enormously big breasts really lose my attention in a heartbeat, since the aesthetic portion can be a bit obnoxious and quite frankly grossly overstated.

    handful sized tits'd be more preferable, or and I've only recently found this one interesting; small sized tits.

    Smooth skin and curves can get my plus sign working into overtime.

    And......This'll sound weird, but hey we're all weird in our own way or the other; bellybuttons on a girl a good teardrop shape get my attention always.


    Now that the physical aesthetic portion is done, let's begin with other sides.

    A girl who's somewhat family oriented and on good terms with them gets my attention. Bad family relationships really turn me me off, unless there was something really bad going on.

    A girl who is even tempered and patient when I mess up sometimes makes me stay.
    If she loves a little extra attention in the morning, especially a small hug/cuddle, then she's the kind that I'd be together with forever.

    Someone who doesn't necessarily agree with my opinions but loves me anyways racks up another point.

    I'll think of some more later, I'm running outta time.


    By the way there, Erica; In terms of a good Italian meal, do you consider the fact that I can make spaghetti with a hearty sauce, baked ziti, lasagna, and homemade Mac & cheese made with real cheese ends a good Italian meal?
     
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    You clearly haven't read the grammar 101 primer...

    "I like a woman WHO is... "
    (unless, of course, she's made of vinyl ! )
     
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    You clearly haven't read the grammar 101 primer...

    "I like a woman WHO is... " (unless, of course, she's made of vinyl ! )

    personally, I'd settle for a woman with an independent mind, free spirit, high sex-drive and an income of £80,000/yr I!
     
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