islandfoz: A while back I posted a message about giving up finding the perfect fit. Unfortunatly what resulted was too many people having little message fights with each other,instead of offering feedback. But going to try again now that there are more members on here. Here is my issue. I am no monster sized guy, my ex measurd me at 8.5" long but 7.5" around, and thatwide the whole length. I also seemed to inherited some family trend of huge nuts (dont ask me how I know about that in my family, just trust me its aparent at family functions when men have to shift...lol). I am only 26, and this has really only been an big issue for the past 5 years or so, prior to that baggy clothing was trendy. Now that I am older, and have much more of a professional job, I find dressing a nightmere. Because I live in South Florida, a suit or sport coat is a big no-no at work, it intimadates the C.E.O. in sandels. Due to the heat and humidity here, I hang quite a bit just walking around. Over the past few years, I have become known as the office excentric for the styles I wear. What they dont realy know, is I am secreatly trying to camoflage(sp?) my bulge. I have nothing to be shy about, in fact, I have always felt being well endowed has helped with my confidence in life. But after quite a few bad incidents where strangly my penis's size ended relationships with friends and lovers, I have been shy about showing my crotch area. I have tried it all, long shirts,baggy pants, ever type of underwear in theworld,including e2u and a pairof speedo's with the lining rippedout. You name it I have tried it. This can't be the way to live life. Lord knows I have enough years aheadof me. Can possibly any other mature men who have lived with this same problem for longer then I please suggest some ideas on how to fit well into clothes to get on with life? I assume with web site like this,someone has to have an answer that will help. Thank you.