I've noticed on a lot of vids of men cumming (amateur and blogs, not just porn which may or may not be dependably real) that many men seem to shoot a shot or two before their orgasm hits them. I find this strange as for me its always the other way round in that the first 2 or 3 waves of orgasm have rolled over me before the first contraction of 5 or 6. The orgasm lasting until the final squirt. Am I alone in this? Also, does anyone else find their morning wood is so hard in the shaft that it's actually not a lot of fun to toss off with?