so I'm in this bar last weekend, and I run into a gal that lives 2 doors down from me in a duplex w/her SO. I'm standing at the bar, turned slightly to the left, talking to the bartender, and neighbor chick is to my left, she checks me out, checks my bulge. looks at me with her tongue bulging her cheek out, nudges her gf while holding her tongue in cheek. gf giggles, looks at me, and checks my bulge. giggles again. During this time, I am still in conversation with female bartender(we're friends). a little while later she does this again. now, I'm a little rusty on stuff. I been married a long time. and "tongue in cheek" to me always meant " not serious". so was she making fun of me or approving of what she saw??