So, what triggered your attraction to...?

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  1. jorpollew

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    Is there something or someone that triggered your preference for tall or short? hairy or smooth? thick or thin? dark skin or light? blonde, brown or bald?

    We all have preferences, even though we may not know why. But is there a moment that you can recall which triggered the first impulse?; something that flipped the "turn-on" switch for you? And since then, you've been attracted to it.

    What's your "trigger-happy" story? I'll share mine in the next post.
     
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    I'm a leg man. I love tall men with long, hairy legs. They don't have to be defined and muscular, just sturdy looking. I'm also turned on by shorter men with nice calves and thighs. A little beef meat is okay, too.

    A few years ago, a good friend stopped by my place. I told Michael to get comfortable while I went to get drinks. When I came back to the living room, Michael was laying on my couch, reading a magazine with his shoes off, both feet on the cushion, thighs wide open, one leg bent and the other extended and dangling off the side-- ala Burt Reynolds famous nude pose. (Yes, I know that I've just dated myself here. Anyway....) I froze and stared at Michael! He looked up and said, "What's wrong?" I said, "Nothing", and left the room.

    THAT POSE MADE HIM LOOK SO FUCKIN HOT, PLUS THE WAY HE SO INNOCENTLY LOOKED UP AT ME! I just wanted to leap across the room and attack Michael with a full frontal body slam and crazy-stupid sex. Instead, I went back in the kitchen and put a cold drink to my forehead. I needed a moment to compose myself.

    I had known Michael for over 10 years! We're both gay, but we never had a sexual encounter-- just very good friend guppies. (Oh, how retro 80's is that!) And why did I feel this sudden sexual surge toward a platonic friend?
    It was all triggered by an old Playgirl photo I used to have in high school. (No, NOT Burt Reynolds!!) Michael was laying on the couch in the exact same position as the Playgirl model. I vividly remember the model's hairy legs and beefy thighs. I kept that picture in my porn stash and fantasized about it for years; all through college and until my first VCR. So, I have to attribute my leg-man fetish to that Playgirl picture.

    I never knew how much it had an effect on me until that day when I almost raped an innocent friend who was just sitting on my couch, reading a mgazine. Later on, I explained to Michael what happened. We laughed.
     
  3. Northland

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    I always had more of a desire for hairy and stocky men and full figured women as well (when I'm in the mood for having old fashioned heterosexual sex). It goes beyond me as to why these types grab my interest, they just do.
     
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    Someone with Blue grey eyes... it started the whole perverted spiral.:wink:
     
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    I think it was my uncle. My dad was distant and hung up on being masculine, but my uncle carried me around on his shoulders, gave me noogies, and had time to play and talk with me. He was tall, well-built (football before steroids), had hardly any hair on his body, and was blond and good looking. Guys with some or all of those characteristics seem to trigger something connected to the delight I took in my uncle as a small child.
     
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    My dad's favorite drinking buddy, his cousin, was at the house every weekend,to drink, play poker, and dominoes ... was one of my biggest thrills whenever he picked me up as a toddler ... had big popeye type of forearms with a tattoo, dark hair, green eyes, and of course, a killer smile ... exactly the type that gets my immediate attention these days ...
     
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    The first man was our landlord when I was maybe 5 or 6 years old, I adored him and wanted to be naked with him- although I had no understanding of why. The first man I thought of doing something sexual with was when we moved when I was in the 5th grade- March of that year. At the end of the schoolyear he gave each student an art poster and during that summer I would dream of living alone with him. In the 7th grade I had my first interest in a boy my age- and had a few soaker wet dreams about him- I don't have a lot of wet dreams. The first two were men in their 30s and with dark hair, one balding, one with all his hair, one with a mustache, one with occasional evening shadow, the junior high one was taller and bigger than most of the rest of us- he was soon replaced by my lust for the Spanish teacher.

    The first female was a woman down the street- dark hair, big breasts, and made a wonderful chicken cacciatore (I also wanted to get it on with her husband- I was about 15 at the time). With women, there is usually a man involved with my being interested.

    Okay- the link for the adults was they were all Italian. The kid my age- I don't know what his background was.
     
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    I have blue /gray eyes... eep.



    I'm not sure I can pinpoint why I'm attracted to anything, most of it would stem from my gay friend but I'm attracted to what he used to look like.. not what he looks like now.
     
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