So, what's the thing with straight guys interested in cocks?

[deleted716371]

I often meet the idea that straight guys looking at cock pics are really gay or at least bi. To me that seem like a hasty conclusion. I find it kind of obvious that a cock is a powerful sexual symbol whatever your sexual preferences are, and that an interest in cock stuff doesn't mean that you want to fuck or get fucked by a man. At least that's how I work. :smile:

Would be interesting to hear other straight mens' reflections on this issue?




P.S. I consider myself straight, but have noted 10% gay since I believe that sexuality is bigger than the str8/gay dichotomy.

 

[deleted871301]

I read in another thread that there is a difference between being straight and str8

I quote "Str8" means guys who say they are 100% straight, but freely engage in certain types of gay behavior"

 

[deleted716371]

I read in another thread that there is a difference between being straight and str8

I quote "Str8" means guys who say they are 100% straight, but freely engage in certain types of gay behavior"

That was new to me, but I changed to straight to avoid any confusion. :smile:

 

[deleted871301]

:biggrin1: I have also been educated... a "straight" man clarified that in another thread. I always thought it was an abbreviation

Now I understand the men at my gym a whole lot more... While working out, they're straight but... once they hit the showers... they're 100% str8... LOL

 

[TexanStar]

If straight guys didn't enjoy looking at cocks, all straight porn would be lesbian porn and solo scenes.

Doesn't mean we want to suck them or have them jammed up our asses, but if we didn't like seeing them on screen, they wouldn't be on the screen.

 

[deleted931509]

I think it's a difference in attitude. I think gay guys look at a cock and think "I want to play with that" (excuse my stereotyping but I believe this is generally true ).
Whereas if I, as a straight man, see a cock in porn then I relate to it and assume it is meant to represent me. Particularly if it is a big one.

 

[TexanStar]

I think it's a difference in attitude. I think gay guys look at a cock and think "I want to play with that" (excuse my stereotyping but I believe this is generally true ).
Whereas if I, as a straight man, see a cock in porn then I relate to it and assume it is meant to represent me. Particularly if it is a big one.

Right.

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[deleted871301]

I think it's a difference in attitude. I think gay guys look at a cock and think "I want to play with that" (excuse my stereotyping but I believe this is generally true ).
Whereas if I, as a straight man, see a cock in porn then I relate to it and assume it is meant to represent me. Particularly if it is a big one.

As a gay guy representing only myself... I have to agree... :biggrin1:

 

[Shackleford]

It's about 2 things: comparison & just simple respect/admiration for the human body.

I mean, if a guy is into working out and sees another guy with chiseled pecs and huge biceps, he's gonna think, "Dang, that's impressive. Good on him. I want to look like that one day," which is totally different sentiment than, "Oh, I want him to hold me in his big, strong arms."

Whether it's a dick, a pair of boobs, a butt, shoulders or calf muscles, an impressive specimen of anything is still going to be impressive, regardless of who you are or how your sexuality leans. In the case of things that aren't particularly impressive, the curiosity is still there because, well, you don't know until you look.

 

[Exbiker]

I'm basically just interested in cocks from scientific, artistic and social points of view.

Quite often when I'm on lpsg or other penis-heavy websites, I'm actually wearing a white lab coat, carrying a clipboard and pen, and looking over the top of geeky spectacles...

Just watching the world, taking it in, always moving on...

:smile:

 

[deleted716371]

It's about 2 things: comparison & just simple respect/admiration for the human body.

I mean, if a guy is into working out and sees another guy with chiseled pecs and huge biceps, he's gonna think, "Dang, that's impressive. Good on him. I want to look like that one day," which is totally different sentiment than, "Oh, I want him to hold me in his big, strong arms."

Whether it's a dick, a pair of boobs, a butt, shoulders or calf muscles, an impressive specimen of anything is still going to be impressive, regardless of who you are or how your sexuality leans. In the case of things that aren't particularly impressive, the curiosity is still there because, well, you don't know until you look.

I agree. But I also think that I'm not the only straight guy who find it sexually exciting to see an impressive cock. But again, not following that I would like to have sex with that cock, or essentially a man.

 

[who_me]

Cocks in general do nothing for me sexually. When seeing cocks in porn I can relate to what the guy feels but the cock does not have the same kind of stimulating effect on me as seeing a women's pussy.

With that said, I do have a fantasy about what it would be like to suck the cock of a trans (please excuse the term if it offends, I don't know what correct term to substitute) if that trans looks totally fem other than the presence of a cock. I don't know why the cock isn't a sexual turn off to me when it exists on an otherwise feminine body. I have never acted on this desire because the opportunity has never been there in real life. Perhaps in real life the fantasy would not exist for me... dunno.

 

[Alex22876]

I think it's a difference in attitude. I think gay guys look at a cock and think "I want to play with that" (excuse my stereotyping but I believe this is generally true ).
Whereas if I, as a straight man, see a cock in porn then I relate to it and assume it is meant to represent me. Particularly if it is a big one.

I agree with you here. I never look at dick pics solo to jo to. I like to compare, but after a min or 2, I get bored. It is more about the comparison of me to someone else. I don't get off on watching them stroke, so I normally just hang up lol

 

[elvid]

I think it's a difference in attitude. I think gay guys look at a cock and think "I want to play with that" (excuse my stereotyping but I believe this is generally true ).
Whereas if I, as a straight man, see a cock in porn then I relate to it and assume it is meant to represent me. Particularly if it is a big one.

This.

 

[ZingZong1987]

I thinks it natural. It's one thing a guy being interested in cock out of pure curiosity as to what someone else is packing or what their looks like, or like comradrie in the locker room. But interest in cock(like mine) which is interest in more of a sexual way( but also seeing what other people are packing or what other guys dicks look like) is something very different.

Sexuality is fluid...I really believe in Kinsey's scale of sexuality!

 

[Reddhott]

I don't find it odd or "gay" for straight guys to look at another guy's equipment. It's something normally hidden, so seeing one becomes "naughty" or forbidden. I think we all want to be assured that we are "normal." Also, I think there is just something very primal about seeing a penis. Especially a large one. I am not a size queen at all. But the really big boys hit a part of the reptilian brain that's hard to deny.

A nice cock is like boobs. Who doesn't like to look at a great rack? I don't want to play with them, but you have to look. Because boobs.

 

[1average1]

We all like looking

 

[normalkiwi]

I'm straight, but I'm just interested in how I match up etc.

 

[Daisy]

I don't find it odd or "gay" for straight guys to look at another guy's equipment. It's something normally hidden, so seeing one becomes "naughty" or forbidden. I think we all want to be assured that we are "normal." Also, I think there is just something very primal about seeing a penis. Especially a large one. I am not a size queen at all. But the really big boys hit a part of the reptilian brain that's hard to deny.

A nice cock is like boobs. Who doesn't like to look at a great rack? I don't want to play with them, but you have to look. Because boobs.

Its true. Guys look at my boobs but women honestly look more. I've had more "elevator eyes" from women then men!!

But yes, I think it's absolutely possible to be a 100% straight guy and find a big dick fascinating or interesting to check out.

 

[Reddhott]

I'm sorry, Daisy. What were you saying?