So, what's the thing with straight guys interested in cocks?

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Man I love your post. You've summed up a lot of what this site is all about. Being able to share thoughts, ask questions, and also view other guys cocks without the fear of being labeled whatever people think they should label you. I think freedom of expression takes place here daily. Anyway :)
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I think it's a difference in attitude. I think gay guys look at a cock and think "I want to play with that" (excuse my stereotyping but I believe this is generally true :p).
Whereas if I, as a straight man, see a cock in porn then I relate to it and assume it is meant to represent me. Particularly if it is a big one.
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If straight guys didn't enjoy looking at cocks, all straight porn would be lesbian porn and solo scenes.

Doesn't mean we want to suck them or have them jammed up our asses, but if we didn't like seeing them on screen, they wouldn't be on the screen.
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It's about 2 things: comparison & just simple respect/admiration for the human body.

I mean, if a guy is into working out and sees another guy with chiseled pecs and huge biceps, he's gonna think, "Dang, that's impressive. Good on him. I want to look like that one day," which is totally different sentiment than, "Oh, I want him to hold me in his big, strong arms."

Whether it's a dick, a pair of boobs, a butt, shoulders or calf muscles, an impressive specimen of anything is still going to be impressive, regardless of who you are or how your sexuality leans. In the case of things that aren't particularly impressive, the curiosity is still there because, well, you don't know until you look.
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It's a male thing. Guys have dicks and naturally we are curious about what other guys dicks look like. I know a lot of straight guys that have accidentally shown me their dicks just to get my reaction. Some of its pride too. Nothing wrong with it at all.
 
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Seriously Fellas! I am not trying to bash anyone! I am not a hater!
I say Live & Let Live..... But this thread is an ismus!

Stop with the smoke & mirrors and be real... at least here in "cyber land"! If a hung attractive dude showed interest in you...you WOULD take a "walk on the wild side"... scratch that itch!

Below is how some of your explanation(s) sound to someone else! Are you buying it??

I know group of "100%" Gay Men who belong to a Large Labia Social Group (LLSG) because they think the Labia is something...worthy of praise and admiration! On the website they admire and say... Damn, look at those impressive pussy lips. Good for her...You go girl. I want to look like that foxy bitch one day! She is so worthy

Which (LOL) is totally different sentiment than, "Oh, I want her on my face to lick those sweet lips while I wrap my arms around her waist.
 

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Seriously Fellas! I am not trying to bash anyone! I am not a hater!
I say Live & Let Live..... But this thread is an ismus!

Stop with the smoke & mirrors and be real... at least here in "cyber land"! If a hung attractive dude showed interest in you...you WOULD take a "walk on the wild side"... scratch that itch!

Below is how some of your explanation(s) sound to someone else! Are you buying it??

I know group of "100%" Gay Men who belong to a Large Labia Social Group (LLSG) because they think the Labia is something...worthy of praise and admiration! On the website they admire and say... Damn, look at those impressive pussy lips. Good for her...You go girl. I want to look like that foxy bitch one day! She is so worthy

Which (LOL) is totally different sentiment than, "Oh, I want her on my face to lick those sweet lips while I wrap my arms around her waist.
Your analogy would people perfect if you were talking about 100% lesbians on this site.
 

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Yeah, I think for the 100% straight guys, it's all about curiosity, seeing how you compare in the spectrum. As straight guys, we don't get many chances in real life to compare.

For me, it's always been such a turn on seeing girls react to a big dick, hearing their thoughts on it, if it impresses them, if it turns them on. I can't explain why that turns me on, maybe because I used to be much smaller and fantasized about what it would feel like to have a big, confident dick to pull out and turn all the girls on. So, especially when I had a smaller penis, whenever I see a photo of a big cock, or a hung guy in real life, there's a fantasy aspect to it, like "If my dick was that big..."

So, that's what turns me on about big cocks, but I'm only into pictures or vids of big dicks, if there's a woman involved on screen, hearing and imagining her perception of the big penis.
 
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Yeah, I think for the 100% straight guys, it's all about curiosity, seeing how you compare in the spectrum. As straight guys, we don't get many chances in real life to compare.

For me, it's always been such a turn on seeing girls react to a big dick, hearing their thoughts on it, if it impresses them, if it turns them on. I can't explain why that turns me on, maybe because I used to be much smaller and fantasized about what it would feel like to have a big, confident dick to pull out and turn all the girls on. So, especially when I had a smaller penis, whenever I see a photo of a big cock, or a hung guy in real life, there's a fantasy aspect to it, like "If my dick was that big..."

So, that's what turns me on about big cocks, but I'm only into pictures or vids of big dicks, if there's a woman involved on screen, hearing and imagining her perception of the big penis.

I think this will be the truth for most men.
 

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I often meet the idea that straight guys looking at cock pics are really gay or at least bi. To me that seem like a hasty conclusion. I find it kind of obvious that a cock is a powerful sexual symbol whatever your sexual preferences are, and that an interest in cock stuff doesn't mean that you want to fuck or get fucked by a man. At least that's how I work.

Would be interesting to hear other straight mens' reflections on this issue?




P.S. I consider myself straight, but have noted 10% gay since I believe that sexuality is bigger than the str8/gay dichotomy.


I will be the first to say amen to this thread Bro! Sexuality is a little broader than we want to give it credit for! For those who want to put a label on everybody and everything go ahead and make your day. Who gives a fuck what you say or think. It just shows how narrow minded your thinking really is to the rest of the world. I am straight but left a 10% difference also because I have always enjoyed admiring the body of a well build man who is fit and takes care of himself. A man is a nice sexual fucking creation. With his powerful cock and his hairy chest if he is lucky enough to have hair on his chest. I have some friends and relatives that do not have a hair on there chest and cannot grow any facial hair but they fuck like animals. To me there is nothing more attractive than a man that is good looking, sensitive, strong, hard working, someone who is committed to his family ,someone who doesn't fuck around and that is clean and keeps there body hair trimed to keep it looking nice. A man is a powerful human being and we are all different and that should not give him another label because he is a little different. Examine yourself truthfully and see wheat labels you should put on yourself.
 
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If straight guys didn't enjoy looking at cocks, all straight porn would be lesbian porn and solo scenes.

Doesn't mean we want to suck them or have them jammed up our asses, but if we didn't like seeing them on screen, they wouldn't be on the screen.

Amen bro!
 

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Exactly, it's a sympathetic or empathetic reaction, which is why porn works in the first place. We perceive it as being us who is in the situation, also the same reason say when you see someone fall, you instantly feel bad, or some of us laugh, because our brain instantly places us in their situation. When someone feels pleasure it does the same. The whole thing of men's interest in large penises in porn is simply that reaction that we are the ones giving that woman said pleasure, and since we place ourselves as the male star a larger penis is preferable. When it comes to solo male videos being watched by a male though then that is a whole different thing. One of the reasons why straight males are attracted to transsexuals is also because of that empathy response, we know the pleasure they are feeling because we have the same equipment while at the same time it's the visage of a female, confuses our brains that way.


I love to watch my cock thrust in and out of my wifes pussy does that put another label on me. I love my cock and love to watch in pound my wifes pussy and always have loved watching this. I would love to eat her pussy and fuck her at the same time if that was possible. Does that put another label one. Fuck you people that all you want to do is sit around and stick labels on people like you don't have any!
 

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I'm married and only been with women, and I enjoy it very much. But I do get turned on watching another dude stroke his big cock. I think I just enjoy anything sexual. In Ancient Rome it was common to be bisexual, I think they had it right. Being sexual is pleasurable. Why not double your chances of receiving pleasure by being with both sexes?

In porn I love watching a guy cock pound a woman pussy! Does that put another label on him? I think not. He just enjoys watching it which is normal. Comparing as well as watching a man like him fuck a woman pussy!
Personally, I like big cocks (at least looking at them) because part of me finds a big cock superior for some reason. I have only ever been dominate, but the idea of being submissive to a big cock excites me. With all that said, I have no idea how I would react given the opportunity to stroke or suck a big cock, but I'd like to find out. Just tough to do when you have been living the total straight life.
 

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Every thing you said is true for me as well. But, I'll make some additions...

Further, I'm kind of obsessed with huge dicks. I will view photos and videos of them straight or gay. I like my own big dick. And I like any way that will please my big dick, whether it's a (male or female) mouth, some (male or female) hands, or a vagina (sorry... anal penetration repulses me no offense).

I am with you man but I love a good cock sucking from whoever will give men one!
 
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Yeah, I think for the 100% straight guys, it's all about curiosity, seeing how you compare in the spectrum. As straight guys, we don't get many chances in real life to compare.

For me, it's always been such a turn on seeing girls react to a big dick, hearing their thoughts on it, if it impresses them, if it turns them on. I can't explain why that turns me on, maybe because I used to be much smaller and fantasized about what it would feel like to have a big, confident dick to pull out and turn all the girls on. So, especially when I had a smaller penis, whenever I see a photo of a big cock, or a hung guy in real life, there's a fantasy aspect to it, like "If my dick was that big..."

So, that's what turns me on about big cocks, but I'm only into pictures or vids of big dicks, if there's a woman involved on screen, hearing and imagining her perception of the big penis.

this is exactly what I feel lol
i dont have a big dick but i wish to have one. or at least a bit bigger. I think a nice looking dick with average size makes the porn much for appealing to watch.
 
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