So, what's the thing with straight guys interested in cocks?

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I think the bigger question is what's the thing with all these types of threads and everyone being so concerned about what everything means to someone else? Not picking on this thread, just these types of threads in general since there's 238958 of them. Sexuality isn't something that is black and white (unless we are talking interracial porn of course). There isn't one answer, everyone is different. It could be denial, exploration, taboo, empathy, or just plain not giving a crap about putting sexual preference in a box. I don't think there's one meta answer that it seems are often being sought in these type of threads, or vice versa a conspiracy that every dude who looks at cocks is secretly in the closet. Like Daisy said, when women look at another woman's body no one is psychoanalyzing the motives. But rejoice women, at least there is finally a double standard that applies to men instead of women.

Now back to your regularly scheduled masturbation.


Absolutely!

Why do we care why a man is looking at peni? Well, for one, he has a penis himself... That makes you quite curious to know about others'. But many other reasons as you stated apart from curiosity: insecurities, comparison thrills, jealously, pure gay attraction, etc...
 
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I think the bigger question is what's the thing with all these types of threads and everyone being so concerned about what everything means to someone else? Not picking on this thread, just these types of threads in general since there's 238958 of them. Sexuality isn't something that is black and white (unless we are talking interracial porn of course). There isn't one answer, everyone is different. It could be denial, exploration, taboo, empathy, or just plain not giving a crap about putting sexual preference in a box. I don't think there's one meta answer that it seems are often being sought in these type of threads, or vice versa a conspiracy that every dude who looks at cocks is secretly in the closet. Like Daisy said, when women look at another woman's body no one is psychoanalyzing the motives. But rejoice women, at least there is finally a double standard that applies to men instead of women.

Now back to your regularly scheduled masturbation.

I agree on this, but it seems the question keeps coming up and needs to be discussed. Why else would I still be confronted with the attitude that I am probably gay or bi since I like to look at cocks?
 
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I'm married and only been with women, and I enjoy it very much. But I do get turned on watching another dude stroke his big cock. I think I just enjoy anything sexual. In Ancient Rome it was common to be bisexual, I think they had it right. Being sexual is pleasurable. Why not double your chances of receiving pleasure by being with both sexes?

Personally, I like big cocks (at least looking at them) because part of me finds a big cock superior for some reason. I have only ever been dominate, but the idea of being submissive to a big cock excites me. With all that said, I have no idea how I would react given the opportunity to stroke or suck a big cock, but I'd like to find out. Just tough to do when you have been living the total straight life.
 

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I agree on this, but it seems the question keeps coming up and needs to be discussed. Why else would I still be confronted with the attitude that I am probably gay or bi since I like to look at cocks?

I don't think thats going to change for some people no matter what you say. Whether you should care what they think is another story.
 
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I think the bigger question is what's the thing with all these types of threads and everyone being so concerned about what everything means to someone else? Not picking on this thread, just these types of threads in general since there's 238958 of them. Sexuality isn't something that is black and white (unless we are talking interracial porn of course). There isn't one answer, everyone is different. It could be denial, exploration, taboo, empathy, or just plain not giving a crap about putting sexual preference in a box. I don't think there's one meta answer that it seems are often being sought in these type of threads, or vice versa a conspiracy that every dude who looks at cocks is secretly in the closet. Like Daisy said, when women look at another woman's body no one is psychoanalyzing the motives. But rejoice women, at least there is finally a double standard that applies to men instead of women.

Now back to your regularly scheduled masturbation.
I think the problem is that a lot of people here paint their sexuality as black and white (ie. 100% staight) but we still see them maling threads like "chilled out 100% str8 bro lookin for str8 j/o bud nd ass play." I mean I get the live and let live mind set you preach, but that does get a bit annoying
 
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I think the problem is that a lot of people here paint their sexuality as black and white (ie. 100% staight) but we still see them maling threads like "chilled out 100% str8 bro lookin for str8 j/o bud nd ass play." I mean I get the live and let live mind set you preach, but that does get a bit annoying

Taboo creates denial.

Some men aren't interested in romantic relationships with other men but will have sex with. There is a difference between sexual preference and sexual orientation, I believe.

We have a few on here who really downplay the taboo of male homosexuality in our culture.
 

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The reason I look at penis pictures here is the same reason racecar drivers look at other racecars; I want to improve, tune, see what can be done, learn both from others failures and others successes
 

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The reason I look at penis pictures here is the same reason racecar drivers look at other racecars; I want to improve, tune, see what can be done, learn both from others failures and others successes

You're naturally "sizing up". What is more natural than that?
 
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I think the problem is that a lot of people here paint their sexuality as black and white (ie. 100% staight) but we still see them maling threads like "chilled out 100% str8 bro lookin for str8 j/o bud nd ass play." I mean I get the live and let live mind set you preach, but that does get a bit annoying

Yes. After being on this site for some time I've become convinced that the gay/straight dicotomy is a very narrow way of describing human sexuality. And that would go for a majority of us.
 

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I recently had a very straight former Navy guy stop by my house in the morning, and I noticed he was looking at my crotch! He was going to be spending the day so he wanted to take a shower. When he finished he yelled to me to bring him a towel, so I did, and he presented me with a view of his very large hard dick! I assume on purpose, as he knew I was gay, so knew I would enjoy seeing his dick.
We didn't talk about it, but ever since he has been very friendly, he hugs me, and kisses me goodbye on the lips!
I told him he needed to do a nude photo shoot, and proceeded to show me on his phone, some shots his girlfriend had taken! OMG....beautiful!
So, my presumption is that he is an exhibitionist, not gay, but will have to wait until next time he comes over to see what happens!
 
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i dont know about these other so called "straight" guys but im not interested in other guys dicks at all. i am here only for me. i am not concerened with other guys at all i was worried about myself and girls i may potentially get with, the ladies here have given the best advice possible for every situation. If it wasnt for them i would not continue to use this site.

i have never once complimented another guy on this site because their dicks are their problem not mine. And for guys that are straight(not str8 or "straight" or any variant) this is how we feel.
 
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I think it's a difference in attitude. I think gay guys look at a cock and think "I want to play with that" (excuse my stereotyping but I believe this is generally true :p).
Whereas if I, as a straight man, see a cock in porn then I relate to it and assume it is meant to represent me. Particularly if it is a big one.

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I don't look at cocks with a feeling that I want to play with one. I like the competition they provide. That's what gets me off.

No gay, straight, or bi man is exactly has the exact same sexuality - far from it. We're all unique sexually-speaking, even if some of us share points of attraction in common.

What straight man doesn't like to see big dicks? That's why it's a recurring theme is straight porn. Big peni are the ideal physical trait of raw masculinity.

Gay attraction is more the desire to want to interact with a cock (e.g., suck it, etc.).
 
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Yeah straight guys think of it more in admiration whereas gay guys think of it with lust.
But they still think of it.

Today I was talking with some co-workers who were reminiscing about guys they had worked with. Both these guys are 100% straight as far as I can tell, but that didn't stop them from having the following exchange:

1 - You remember Francis?
2 - Yeah. Great guy.
1 - Hung like a horse too.
Me - hahaha... (?!?!?!?)
1 - no really.
2 - Crazy. Dick down to here. (Points near his knee)
1 - Unbelievable.
2 - When he came into the showers, everyone went the other way.

All this was said with awe, and maybe envy. But definitely not lust.

Neither of these guys wanted to play with the other guy's big dick. But they sure remembered it even after 10 or 15 years. Maybe it's just that you would remember anyone who is physically unique or freaky? Or is it tinged with some other feeling, because it's a dick?
 
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I think it's a difference in attitude. I think gay guys look at a cock and think "I want to play with that" (excuse my stereotyping but I believe this is generally true :p).
Whereas if I, as a straight man, see a cock in porn then I relate to it and assume it is meant to represent me. Particularly if it is a big one.

What he said. :biggrin1:

Ss a straight guy I describe my curiosity about cocks as my taking comfort in sexuality. I think men in general (excuse the stereotyping) are born obsessed with cocks. We're always curious about our own and how we stack up against fellow men. Whether we want to play with another one is just a matter of sexual preference. I think there's no denying that men - straight, bi or gay - are obsessed with cocks. But that could just be me.
 
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I've never considered myself gay I don't even find men attractive . But I am obsessed with big cocks. I love looking at them, would love to suck them or feel them squirting inside me. It's wired but if the cock is a huge one it seems to be a being of its own, have it's own personality ie. cock worship. I just want to feel it all over me, inside me. Even the balls would love to feel the weight of them dragging across my face. I just love cock and balls
 
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The response here seem to suggest that there is a multitude of reasons for straight guys to be interested in cocks. Sometimes transcending the gay/straight dicotomy.
 
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