.... if you are non attached. Think of past experiences? View yourself by yourself giving yourself pleasure. Place yourself in another zone? Get to a point where nothing else means anything except to get to the arrival point? If attached, do you think of your partner pleasuring your body? Or the above? There is more detail to this but hey...My partner places my aftershave on a shirt and use's the scent for arousal....just curious. Should have placed this in etcetera, etcetera. Apologies. Annnnnnd, if there is another thread that crosses this ones path...whatcanayado?