So... who knows you post here?

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AA if you left I would be so sad :crying: !!!... But knowing how parents are and fathers for sure I understand... Some who are very close to me know... But as some know I'm here because of a bet between my sister... Had to win so I posted.. But reading you guys post and the people I have met make me stay... So I understand that for sure AA.. Do the people who know shake there head because they dont understand why I'm here sure...Do I care NO... Well sweets I'm glad you are hardheaded!!! Woo Hoo.. But then again parents are so lovely...
 

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Who knows i'm here? me and myself. I would die if my gf knew i came here.. she might think i'm a complete dick!! Anyway, its just fun.. and i have picked up some good info here.. However, she lives in Stockholm and haven't had the chance to try anything for a month now. I week left.. she'll be tender and sore going back to stockholm 5 days later...:biggrin1: She won't regret it :tongue:
 

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My boyfriend knows (and thinks the whole thing's silly) and my best female friend from childhood has a membership here though I don't think she's ever posted.

She does, I believe, read the threads from time to time. My boyfriend couldn't care less about it.

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My ex is the only person that knows. She's okay I think with me posting here, but didn't like that I had pics of my cock up here. But fuck her :cool:

Well she's just afraid I'd drool over that photo.

:33: Perhaps Wonderboy her suspicions were correct.:cool:
 

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Well, no one knows about me posting here. It helps that I live alone, but it'd be an awkward situation, I believe.

Although there are some people that know about my size, it's not something I like to advertise around.
 

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Yeh AA..you already know what I think about your situation...:smile:

I came here by chance and because of big bf..at that time I told him I found a support group site but he did not pay attention or maybe even remember...what I find great because its my personal business LPSG. And here is many things to me I have learning a lot since I became member...a lot about sexuality, genitals, politics,pc,many many different issues and exchanging with so many different people from different places and walks of life that I would never had opportunity! And the cool thing is that most of them are very sexual animals and these private look we get on here of people one could not get in the real world...plus their faces are their privates...you shake hands with their privates isnt that cool and unique???

As a woman like myself that is very social but private where I could talk to men so openly and learn like that without being afraid to being sexualy atacked??? Is not safe I learn to talk to unknow men in sexual manner or about stuff because many of them can become 'predators'...:eek: than here is safe plus I choose to be outside/body anonimous and show just my inside expressions and it interesting that even without pics of mine here people can 'feel' me too.

Than nobody knows that I post here the only one I gave the info did not paid attention and the others are doing their own things that I dont have a clue what they are into too...and they would for sure be shocked because as much sensual people said I am I do look angelical..outside..well, I was...:eek: not long ago...:biggrin1:

OMG..its my naughty secret life!!!:cool:






Everybody in the world deserves to have someplace where they can express themselves without fear of repercussions. I consider this site to be a kind of communal diary. Better. In a diary you just put your thoughts on paper are still left to wonder "Am I normal?" Here you get feedback, advice and above all SUPPORT. I find the sharing of veiw points found here make this site one of the heathiest groups to be a part of.
 

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My two best friends know i am here (one has even contributed to some very controversial threads, the other has a handle, but doesn't use it, i don't think). Several of my other friends know about the site. Nobody cares, and anyone who's taken the time to actually listen to what i say about it knows it isn't some sort of silly site.

My family has no clue, but they live eight hundred and some odd miles away. I suspect they don't know a lot of things about my internet habits.
 

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people may know, but i don't know they know, which is fine by me. cock narcissism is my private guilty pleasure!
 

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Don't discount the fact that it's just you and your mom though Jeremy. My father and I have always had a rocky relationship... far back as I can remember. Sometimes I think things would be easier if he just wasn't around :biggrin1:, but I've found there's always a way around things (I'm posting here now afterall!)

I wouldn't bet on the secret account though. I'm not sure she's that computer literate - she only knows how to check internet history thanks to Oprah. :tongue:

Yeah AA, I love my mom, and while I think about all the great posts on the site about great dads, I wouldn't change a thing. I do feel very lucky.

And it certainly does sound like your dad is giving you a hard time, it is odd to say, You probably are right in wishing he wasn't so uptight, just to give you that freedom.

And you never know bud, has Oprah done an episode on the lpsg?!:biggrin1:
 

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I think two people know, one is the guy that told me about this site and one of my best friends who we were talking to about it. She knows about it because she's someone who I talk very openly about sex with. In fact, I know a little too much about her boyfriend.

Other than that I like that nobody else knows, though recently I realised the path here might be a little easier than I previously thought. That's why I took my cock photos down a while back. My family are largely computer illiterate and probably wouldn't care that I was here anyway, but I have a fair few friends who would give me plenty of grief and I just can't be bothered to deal with it. There are plenty of people I love to death who just wouldn't understand why I'm here, or would jump to conclusions. I like being here because I don't have to explain myself for things I consider absolutely irrelevant or unimportant. It's boring, frustrating and most of the time nothing you say makes a difference anyway.

I've said it before, but the thing that is great about this site is because it's centred on the penis the sexual issue is the first to arise. Once that is over and done with we are forced to talk about other things, or not talk at all because the sexual side becomes very boring very quickly. To be here in the first place you are exposing your sexual side to a large group of people, so once you are comfortable with what for most people is the most private aspect of you being out there it then becomes far easier to open up the rest of you. In real life your sexuality tends to determine which section of social groups you belong to and on the whole any deviation from the set standard is met with derision. Here it's as inconsequential as it should be. Therefore people are free to say what they really think without fear of trial by peers. Perhaps this is just my own view, but I imagine a fair few of you share it.
 

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There are plenty of people I love to death who just wouldn't understand why I'm here, or would jump to conclusions. I like being here because I don't have to explain myself for things I consider absolutely irrelevant or unimportant. It's boring, frustrating and most of the time nothing you say makes a difference anyway.

I've got a "fair few" too who wouldn't understand too.. so I get that. But it's a guilty pleasure.

I've said it before, but the thing that is great about this site is because it's centred on the penis the sexual issue is the first to arise. Once that is over and done with we are forced to talk about other things, or not talk at all because the sexual side becomes very boring very quickly. To be here in the first place you are exposing your sexual side to a large group of people, so once you are comfortable with what for most people is the most private aspect of you being out there it then becomes far easier to open up the rest of you. In real life your sexuality tends to determine which section of social groups you belong to and on the whole any deviation from the set standard is met with derision. Here it's as inconsequential as it should be. Therefore people are free to say what they really think without fear of trial by peers. Perhaps this is just my own view, but I imagine a fair few of you share it.

You're a clever one you are.

And YEAH! I noticed your cock pics were gone. :mad: :wink: :redface:
 

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What I'm really curious about though, is who in your life knows you come here? Spouses, girl/boyfriends, friends, family, just you? How do they feel about it?

I don't know really, I haven't told anyone directly. I'm not really a very private person. I work closely with quite large numbers people for long hours everyday, so when I get home I really enjoy some quite space.

I am very happy for friends/family to use my computer at home when they are staying here. Of course I don't have people that I don't trust here or people that are in the slightest bit judgemental about anything, let alone me.

My feeling has always been that if people want to go snooping around then they can, it doesn't really affect me negatively, but they have to live with what they find. I may or may not choose to discuss it with them further, I am certainly not the kind of person who would change my behaviour in this regard. That said of course I go out of my way to be polite, and respectful, but my mind is very clear about the boundaries.

Everyone who knows me, and works with me, understands that I am not interested in their opinions about anything unless I ask for it. I find life is much easier that way. It helps me stay sane. Well, what I call sane.

It is very clear in my mind that although people have the democratic right to have an opinion, they also have the right to be stupid, and ignorant, and frequently excercise it. Then they feel they have the right to inflict it on the rest of us.

I find the tyranny of mediocrity and ignorance is generally the result of a misunderstanding about the rights that people think they have. I assert my right to care for my mental health. Well that is my explanation and I'm sticking to it.

So the answer to the questions posed are: 1. I don't know and 2. It hasn't been something I have ever thought about. They are probably fine.

Oh and a further thought about kids and parents. Obviously late adolescence is a time when kids can't live with their parents and can't live without them.

Of all the negative things one could be doing, I think your parents should be pleased you aren't spending time on the net with ideas, and people, who are truly evil and dangerous. Lord knows there is plenty to choose from in that regard.

You can show some regard for their feelings by cleaning up the computer when you have finished, using it when they aren't around, inviting them to look around the site. Perhaps be more discrete about your pictures, out of respect, not out of shame, until you get your own computer. You might start by discussing some of the replies to these questions with your mother, and giving an indication of the more conspicuous personalities here who are fun, talented and thoughtful.

Parents are often afraid of things they don't understand, so one can become compassionate about that. If it is their computer in their house, then that is an important factor, and deserves some respect.

If they look around the site, and have any concerns, then I'd certainly reply to a pm from them. I realise this is unlikely, but as you know there are many extremly accomplished, educated, decent people here, who are in fact well regarded in their communities. Large penises are equally distributed throughout society.


Obviously the answer to all this really is to develop your own independence, get your own computer and place to live one day, and not to stop being who you are, and living your own life. I'm sure you can accommodate each others' feelings until then.

In my own life I had very liberal parents with liberal friends. A friend of my mothers had a cabin that I stayed in every year from the age of 14 (I'm 41 now). It was full of books about research and thinking about human sexuality. Not pornography. Research reports by Kinsey, books by Havelock Ellis, Freud.

I am concerned that young people today seem have to little access to good information, (despite what the net can offer, and joyfully living in the information age) to thoughtful, and well researched information regarding an important part of their own lives. This information is important in coming to understand people who are different to us, as well as our own experience ,within the context of broader human experience, and thinking.

What is hard for your parents may be the fact that they can't ever control your life as they did when you were younger, and stick to the "community standards" that they are familiar with. The world has changed. If their motivation is to protect you, then you can talk that through.

However, if they want to make you think like them, well it's too late, isn't it. The only action left on your part, in this case, is a dignified and respectful withdrawal from their world, into one that you can create for yourself, as your own life develops.

If you alienate each other, you will both lose what you are trying to have, an understanding, and supportive relationship with each other.

There will be times when young people have to make the break, my own experience is that parents are programmed to forgive, and mellow as they get older. Even if you upset them a bit, if they are half way decent, they will forgive you in time. I hope that my hopefulness is justified. Good luck with sorting it out.
 

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Not a soul, unless the Government is spying on me again...


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Umm, nobody I know knows I post here.

I think i'd be single and dis-owned by my family.

And my friends would be jealous or think I'm more of a perv than they already know I am.
 

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I told a fe friends about it, ot the fact thats its a site for guys wth big dicks, but about the cool people, but they are reluctant to even look at the site, I think they think it is for gay people only.

Lol