I don't find that video much cop at all. Putting a femidom through a fixed width hole in a bottle is going to be nothing like putting it in a vagina. My problem, and the main reason I've never bought one (let alone tried one), is left unanswered there - how deep / roughly where does the inner ring have to be positioned in order for the thing not to be dislodged during sex? Does it matter? Will the initial penetration help place the thing?
That video shows that you stick the femidom in a cunt closed end first -
:duh: I have that kinda figured.
Having had more than one relationship that relied on external prophylactic contraception, and assuming I could have worked out placement issues, I would have happily tried using those instead of condoms but the men in question were wary and expressed a lack of trust in the notion of a femidom. As dolf says above, no pre-ejaculation check of integrity possible = not good.
Another thing that, in my condom buying days, radically decreased the likelihood of me buying femidoms to the point where I didn't was lack of availability. I did go out one day with the idea of buying some and trying them but after 3 pharmacies (in a busy part of a major European city) I gave up.
Ah well - not something I have anything more than an academic interest in these days. Being in a monogamous relationship with a guy who's been snipped is beautifully low maintenance ...for both of us :smile:
