So yeah... I have crush on a guy that might be straight

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Himura, Apr 30, 2009.

  1. Himura

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    How does this work out? lol


    He freaked a guy at a club - video of it
    Favorite movie - August Rush
    I had a conversation with him about if being gay is a choice or not... he said it wasn't a choice.... - this guy is a super duper christian... so close-minded usually? haha...
    I saw him skipping once.
    Pictures on facebook of him wearing women's clothes... he's with people but it's a joke... who knows lol...

    So yeah... what do yall think i should do? He has had a girlfriend for 2 years... but I have a feeling they're going to break up after she moves in a year.

    They are super christians so I'm pretty sure they are not having sex....

    What do yall think I should do? Tell him?
     
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    Super Christian with a girlfriend? I think you're dreaming.
     
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    Go for it...he's a charmer.
     
  4. Himura

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    What are you going for? lol

    Super christians can't have gf? or what... no idea... or Super Christian with a gf... I don't have a chance?

    She's a super christian too...

    More like they appear to be super christians... but we all know how hypocritical they can be

    I'm just a christian
     
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    Find someone else who is bisexual or gay and who actually wants sex and a relationship with men.
     
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    That'd be my read.

    True, that, and that's your only hope albeit a very slim one.

    Then there's hope for you, at least.
     
  7. Himura

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    Would it be a bad idea for me to tell him that I like him after he breaks up with his girlfriend?
     
  8. invisibleman

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    Nuh-uh. That is so-o-o-o 2005.

    This is 2009. The newest trend in gay dating: Mancrush the skippy straight dude who is kinda homophobic but is a cross-dresser. :eek:

     
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    If he breaks up with his girlfriend--in a year, when she moves away--and you still feel the same way, I'd say you're a little obsessed. And frankly, I think there are more receptive, more deserving guys out there for you. But yes. Once he's single--and in a year--you can tell him. But remember to ask me again, then, first. :wink:
     
  10. Himura

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    hahaha :)

    You're right. I only knew him as an aquaintance. I think I'm more involved with liking his face and features than his actual personality...

    What's the limit for oogling
     
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    There isn't one.

    Move on.
     
  12. Principessa

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    Ding, ding, ding! We have a winner. :biggrin1: This is the correct answer.


    IMHO, yes it would be a bad idea.:cool:
     
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