So you like both, help me understand...

[hvdude]

I am 100% gay and, while I love most women, I am not attracted to them sexually.

I do, to be honest, on occasion watch straight porn. In most of the scenes the guys are hot and the women are "porn star" pretty (for the most part). But as I watch the guy fucking the girl his cock looks dry, even though she's making those fake sounds I guess porn gals are supposed to make "ooh yeah!" "mmmmmmm, ooooooh" etc. And you're supposed to think she's cumming, his cock stays dry as a bone. What's up with that? I thought she was supposed to get wet, no? Without lube how does he stick it in? Some of the vaginas look so....well, used. Do you even feel like you're penetrating something?

Honestly, I am just curious and NOT trying to be funny or anything. I just don't get it (and maybe never will). Thanks for the info!

 

[1013903]

I am 100% gay and, while I love most women, I am not attracted to them sexually.

I do, to be honest, on occasion watch straight porn. In most of the scenes the guys are hot and the women are "porn star" pretty (for the most part). But as I watch the guy fucking the girl his cock looks dry, even though she's making those fake sounds I guess porn gals are supposed to make "ooh yeah!" "mmmmmmm, ooooooh" etc. And you're supposed to think she's cumming, his cock stays dry as a bone. What's up with that? I thought she was supposed to get wet, no? Without lube how does he stick it in? Some of the vaginas look so....well, used. Do you even feel like you're penetrating something?

Honestly, I am just curious and NOT trying to be funny or anything. I just don't get it (and maybe never will). Thanks for the info!

Skype ? Iamhere4xx

 

[itscomplex]

Well, you know the feels you get when you see a hot guy? I get the same feels with hot girls. Idk how else to describe it. I find a thick big cock as sexy as a wet pussy. Hope this helps.

 

[shard38]

Porn isn't the best way to understand straight sex. Of course the girls will be wet, mostly from being lubed up. It simply doesn't show up sometimes. Also, as you probably know, real sex is messy, sweaty and very often in the dark. No lights, make up or taking breaks to restore your eyeliner

Why do I like men and women? I'm attracted to the person, not the gender.

 

[Mister2101]

Good foreplay with most women is pretty important. Women generally need a little more time than a man to get excited and tuned on. Hugging, kissing, fondling, touching....and yes nice oral sex usually gets women going....and once they are turned on, they usually begin to get wet and naturally lubed up. I really enjoy eating a woman's pussy before fucking....with few exceptions that pussy is ready for action and wanting some dick. Obviously, every woman is different in what they like and what turns them on....but when they are turned on, the pussy is usually ready to go.....

Pussy feels good....very good actually. Most often silky smooth inside her. Obviously "tightness" varies, but there's almost always enough friction to make you feel good and keep you hard. If the woman enjoys fucking and knows what she is doing....and you are both into it, moving together......its a wonderful experience......at least my opinion!! Peace.

 

[submit452]

For me women are the fairer sex lovely gorgeous slinky hot powerful and strong. Men are savage hot buff muscle hard and stiff erect and always ready for a fuck. I love both their bodies, their hair their attitudes and in my mind I am happy as a male but my brain is female think of me as more Piper Kerman and less someone like Clint Eastwood or George Clooney and yes like Piper I am extremely well read and soon will have a BA degree of my own. If you are someone who is monosexual it its difficult to realize that the shades of gray and inbetweeners are around I can get aroused my men and women equally and with men I want to just fuck them like the raunchiest gay porn and women I want to be married and have a relationship like my grandparents who were married 58 years so my arousal pattern is partly gay but my relationships are with women only.

 

[933295]

Not to throw a wretch into the discussion, but I not only like the person but also both genders. The thing is they are different. And I happen to like the differences in the genders. Each has their own attractive/sexy aspects.

 

[Hockeytiger]

Of the two women I've had unprotected sex with, my cock has never emerged from a vagina dry, before or after my orgasm. With a condom, it really isn't all that different. It is slick but, generally, I'm not dripping with her juices either. Only my first two times did I insert without lubricant (I was ignorant). It never happens now, partially because I'm pretty girthy and I definitely feel a lot every time. Perhaps, a slim cock might not need lube every time and might feel somewhat less, but I'm guessing it isn't all that different. Typically there is a decent amount of leakage, requiring a towel placed beforehand.

 

[shard38]

Not to throw a wretch into the discussion, but I not only like the person but also both genders. The thing is they are different. And I happen to like the differences in the genders. Each has their own attractive/sexy aspects.

I agree with you that both can be attractive and sexy. For me personally I just seem to notice the difference between people more than between gender. Just the way my mind works, I guess.

 

[Jckd_co]

Pussy feels amazing, but pro porn is garbage lol gay or straight, pro porn doesn't do anything for me, specially having done gay porn.

 

[Mr Ed in Mass]

Porn is not real life ,I 'm equally attracted to. Both sexes

 

[Phil Ayesho]

Pussy gets EXACTLY as wet as it needs to be to maximize pleasure for both parties.... A pussy is designed by evolution to provide optimal physical stimulation of the whole penis.

Because the vagina is designed for penetration, and the skin of a cock is extremely smooth to provide minimal friction, it doesn't take all that much wetness to make everything Just Fucking Right.

You want it just wet enough to minimize abrasion... but not so wet that it eliminates all sensation of the surfaces sliding against each other.


Assholes just do not provide any lube of their own... and male precum is not being deposited where the lubrication is needed. ( the sphincter itself is tight and needs lube- but beyond the sphincter, the colon does not actually provide much close contact.)

As to porn stars- I don't know that they are all that excited by what they do... any job becomes just another job.
Even a blow job.

But A woman who is really into you and what you're dong to her WILL get excited and will self lubricate and when you feel that wetness with your fingers, or your tongue you KNOW she's having a good time and wants you.

I understand how great it feels to take it in the ass... I really like sucking on a dick... but actually, in my experience, fucking a guy in the ass doesn't come anywhere near to the perfect balance of sensation you get when fucking a woman who is excited and eager.

I mean, I get that if women don't Do it for you then that's a huge difference in how you feel about it... I get that some gay men find the scent of flavor of pussy to be a boner killer and that would naturally diminish your appreciation of everything else about sex with a woman.

If I had a choice of fucking a guy or a girl- I would chose to fuck the girl, every time.
If I had a choice of fucking a girl, or getting fucked by a guy... then that would be a real coin toss.

 

[Marcbow]

I am 100% gay and, while I love most women, I am not attracted to them sexually.

I do, to be honest, on occasion watch straight porn. In most of the scenes the guys are hot and the women are "porn star" pretty (for the most part). But as I watch the guy fucking the girl his cock looks dry, even though she's making those fake sounds I guess porn gals are supposed to make "ooh yeah!" "mmmmmmm, ooooooh" etc. And you're supposed to think she's cumming, his cock stays dry as a bone. What's up with that? I thought she was supposed to get wet, no? Without lube how does he stick it in? Some of the vaginas look so....well, used. Do you even feel like you're penetrating something?

Honestly, I am just curious and NOT trying to be funny or anything. I just don't get it (and maybe never will). Thanks for the info!

I used to be like you until I was at university and saw the most beautiful girl I've ever seen we dated and fucked like rabbits she changed my mind about women
A gay friend of mine who's in his 50's had a MMF threesome only last year and had sex for the first time with a woman and how cells himself bi. He like dick better that pussy but he will try anything now

 

[trailerguy]

Most sexual pleasure takes place in the mind. If your cock is in an orifice that's on a person that you are not attracted to because of their gender the level of arousal (not hardness or erection) and excitement is difficult to obtain. Some gay men fantasize about men as they have sex with their wives.
That being said, I have found an anus on either gender to be more pleasing than a vagina because of the tightness and friction and perhaps the taboo factor as well.

 

[latinluva]

I think in straight porn, the women usually douche before a shoot/scene. Most of that wetness or the creamy look is washed away. But I can see some clear juices once in a while. Probably really difficult to get excited when everyone is telling you where to put your legs, how to grab him here or there, move your hands. Takes away from a lot of joys and pleasures of sex. I'm bisexual and married. I prefer to be strong and dominant with my woman, rarely allowing her to strap on and submit, but I enjoy sex with my wife a lot. I'm definitely submissive with men (though it's been many moons since I've enjoyed a man). I love to suck dick and feel him inside of me. Hopefully one day my wife and I can find a man that would love to please the both of us. A cool guy with lil to no hang ups. It's hard, because alot of men act like assholes when you bring them in. They think you can't satisfy your wife, that's why they're there. Not the case at all.

 

[latinluva]

..also, as men. I think we just gravitate to what comes easiest. No pun intended lol. I was cute and petite as a young man, 5'4" 135 with a great body and booty. I had a lot of men hitting on me. Women not so much. So I had sex with a lot of men.....as I got older, my body developed more and I became sexier to women at 5'8" 175 lbs. and muscular frame. So I got more pussy. But the damage was done, I found the joys of being with a man and the joys of being with a woman. Eventually, I married an amazing woman.

 

[Black_Frost]

Straight porn is not representative of the way most hetero folks actually have sex. It's nearly always crafted to suit male fantasies of what they think really great sex would be if it were all about themselves and nothing but themselves.

Really good hetero sex is about each partner pleasing the other. It's generally very different from what's depicted in straight porn -- it's far less violent, for one thing, although sometimes it can get rough. And yes: A general tip as to whether she's really enjoying herself is whether she's keeping wet (Caveat: There can be exceptions, involving physical issues, circumstance, and serendipity.)

But what you're seeing in most straight porn videos isn't indicative of good hetero sex. It's just fantasy beat-off material for guys to jerk to.

 

[itscomplex]

Straight porn is not representative of the way most hetero folks actually have sex. It's nearly always crafted to suit male fantasies of what they think really great sex would be if it were all about themselves and nothing but themselves.

Really good hetero sex is about each partner pleasing the other. It's generally very different from what's depicted in straight porn -- it's far less violent, for one thing, although sometimes it can get rough. And yes: A general tip as to whether she's really enjoying herself is whether she's keeping wet (Caveat: There can be exceptions, involving physical issues, circumstance, and serendipity.)


But what you're seeing in most straight porn videos isn't indicative of good hetero sex. It's just fantasy beat-off material for guys to jerk to.

But I cannot beat off to something that objectifies women. I have to feel very slutty myself to do that. I want to be made to believe the guy and the girl love each other. Same goes for any other kind of porn I watch. It's rare to find passable stuff.

 

[sizehungry]

For me women are the fairer sex lovely gorgeous slinky hot powerful and strong. Men are savage hot buff muscle hard and stiff erect and always ready for a fuck. I love both their bodies, their hair their attitudes and in my mind I am happy as a male but my brain is female think of me as more Piper Kerman and less someone like Clint Eastwood or George Clooney and yes like Piper I am extremely well read and soon will have a BA degree of my own. If you are someone who is monosexual it its difficult to realize that the shades of gray and inbetweeners are around I can get aroused my men and women equally and with men I want to just fuck them like the raunchiest gay porn and women I want to be married and have a relationship like my grandparents who were married 58 years so my arousal pattern is partly gay but my relationships are with women only.

Couldn't have said it better , i love being sexually devastated by hung men , but there's no real love . Women i love for who and what they are ,...amazing on so many levels .

 

[ManchesterTom]

For me women are the fairer sex lovely gorgeous slinky hot powerful and strong. Men are savage hot buff muscle hard and stiff erect and always ready for a fuck. I love both their bodies, their hair their attitudes and in my mind I am happy as a male but my brain is female think of me as more Piper Kerman and less someone like Clint Eastwood or George Clooney and yes like Piper I am extremely well read and soon will have a BA degree of my own. If you are someone who is monosexual it its difficult to realize that the shades of gray and inbetweeners are around I can get aroused my men and women equally and with men I want to just fuck them like the raunchiest gay porn and women I want to be married and have a relationship like my grandparents who were married 58 years so my arousal pattern is partly gay but my relationships are with women only.

Sounds pretty common. More people feel this way than they let on.