What are you thoughts if you just moved across the country to an unknown area, had no job, and found out your girlfriend might be falling out of love with you?
Just off of the top of my head, I'd say that you have two choices if the relationship is no more:
1. stay in the new locale, get a job and start over
2. move back home, get a job and start over
Remember the cliche saying, "when a door closes, a window opens." I've had to hang and take comfort in that saying more than once in my life.
Change is always scary, even when we make the change ourselves let alone when unexpected changes happen to us.
Good luck to you in your new life. Just remember that change can be a good thing.
Hugs and Kisses,
Karmen