Soaking, Squirting surprises and experience

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  1. hsyahoo

    hsyahoo New Member

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    This is for the ladies out here that in the past didn't easily squirt or soak the bed when it was new to you.

    All of us guys watched those how to make your girl squirt porno.
    But we want the real experience. Always wondered about those real first times. When you are with a guy, and it happens by surprise.

    So I have a few questions and any contribution will help.

    First, how old were you?
    Did the guy mean to give you that experience or it just happened without giving special attention to your g-spot? what did he do?
    What was your reaction to it?
    Also for those who had more then a handful of guys, how many of them made you experience it? ratio?
    Does emotions play a part? love? or its just knowing how and experience?

    Now that you know it can happen, is there a technique that you do that makes you experience it more easily?

    I know there are more questions so if you want to expand and comment about anyhthing else please do.

    I guess I am just curious about what women think, feel and want.
    thanks for all,

    HS Yahoo.


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  2. hawkgirl

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    I had been non- orgasmic for the first part of sexual life. I had always thought that I was just one of those women that don't have orgasms. There is a certain amount of depression and hopelessness in that area that comes along with that inability. To have an orgasm is almost a God given right. I couldn't orgasm
    At one point my frustrations grew to a point where I had to do something about it. I mean , the average Joe is stressed out, has a headache, is a bit nervous and can take it out in the bedroom and have a release. I would just end up more stressed and sexually frustrated than before. I could get horny but not satisfy that hunger. So after years of suffering I decided to do something about it. I would do whatever was needed to get to the bottom of this problem and I did. Wearing thongs to the beach to feel more comfy in my own body, clit creams, sex therapist, stroking to various set cadences during sex and the therapist had suggested... You name it. Then finally it happened for me. I had my first orgasm from a penis. I was dumbfounded. Come to find out all it took was a larger that average penis.

    As interesting as that may be, it was years before I squirted. Interestingly enough, it was also with the same guy. I think that he was more surprised than even I was. I didn't know if I had urinated or what. I didn't know whether to be embarrassed or just keep going. It kind of ruined the moment for me in that, that was the hardest I had ever come to that date. I don't know if he had a squirter before that night or not but I know that he was surprised to see how far I had come. TEEHEE! Sensing that I wasn't sure what had happened or what to do, he started talking dirty to me about how hard I had just come and how turned on he was and how juicy I was and such. At this point I was thinking, 'As long as one of us knows what just happened, I'm good. WHEW!'. Then I felt his cock growing even harder and began to relax and enjoy the ride.

    After that night I don't always squirt but I have many times. For me, comfort and having concern for my partner, knowing they have concern for me matters. We don't have to be in love but certainly have to be in like and be friends. When I am comfortable enough with a guy to experiment let him know what I really like in bed I can squirt easier. I usually squirt with that guy. YES! He's still around. What did you think... I would stop doing the first guy that gave me an orgasm and made me squirt?
     
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  3. Opalite

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    The first time I squirted, was just on my own playing with a little vibrator I just bought. I think I was about 16. It was amazing, but when I later noticed the huge wet spot in my bed, I freaked out a bit. I've heard of squirting before - my best friend told me once she always squirts, and was a bit ashamed of it - and I was certain I didn't pee (it looked and smelled totally different. I silently hoped it would be the first and last time I ever did, eventhough the orgasm was amazing.

    But it wasn't. The more I tried to hold it in, the more I would squirt. Funny enough, if I would try to do so, and focussed on it, it would get a lot harder to squirt (and still is, any other girls who have noticed this?)

    Most of the time, I squirt from regular penetration, or likewise penetration with either a dildo or vibrator.
     
  4. tiger2403

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    Back in the day, when I was younger and a bit more niave, I was with my girlfriend of the time.

    We were in my bedroom ( I still lived at home then ) and we were doing the usual fumbling around - hands down each others pants, you know.

    Anyway, she said she needed to use the toilet, which was next to my bedroom.

    When I went in there afterwards the floor was soaked and I thought she had pissed herself.

    It was not until until many years later, when I realised that women did this wonderful squirting thing, that I cottoned on to what must have happened.

    Sadly, to this day, I have never experienced a squirter again
     
  5. hose 85

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    My wife has never squirted, but if we have a long session she will soak the sheets. We usually put a towel under her but after about 10 min. of good sex she will start to leak fluid. I love it it has on smell or taste but it feels good running down my balls if she is on top.

    Just my 2 cents, J.
     
  6. tiff86

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    I was w/my bf and I remember I didnt even realize it, I had a huge orgasm and was sorta in my own world :smile: but then I saw he was a little wet on his stomach and I was like what's that? lol Now it happens sometimes if it's a big orgasm, not most of the time tho. If he really wants to make me squirt tho he can.
     
  7. StraightCock4Her

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    I have always heard that if women don't feel comfortable (and when you get uncomfortable, you tend to pay more attention..) it's really hard to get them to squirt.
     
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    It's the same thing - female ejaculation (FE). Only a few women really squirt in a hard stream. Most 'gush,' and some tend to dribble slowly.

    A hard squirt means that there was a more violent 'clench' to the O. (It can also mean that most of the fluid was forced out the urethra, which is rare. In most women, most of it is ejected from the vag.)

    But if it doesn't happen so abruptly, it's still FE, and that's what it's all about.

    ""... but it feels good running down my balls if she is on top.""

    YES! And it can also happen if you are on top, balls deep, and she has a gusher. About like dying and going to heaven; other than that, nothing special!
     
  9. Mr_Cumalot

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    Sometimes my girl's gush juice is unique, but sometimes does have a slight urine scent. Is that normal too?
     
  10. pony

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    [FONT='Verdana','sans-serif']My wife squirts. Not during intercourse but with finger stimulation.[/FONT]
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    [FONT='Verdana','sans-serif']She never squirted before until we figured out the technique.[/FONT]
    [FONT='Verdana','sans-serif'] [/FONT]
    [FONT='Verdana','sans-serif']See previous posts:[/FONT]
    [FONT='Verdana','sans-serif'] [/FONT]
    [FONT='Verdana','sans-serif']http://www.lpsg.org/14636-female-ejaculation-3.html#post244900[/FONT]
     
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    Sorry for the last post.

    To repeat.

    Mid wife squirts, but not during intercourse.

    It only occurs for us during finger stimulation.

    She never squirted before, until 4 years ago, after we figured out the technique.

    We love it.

    See previous post.

    http://www.lpsg.org/14636-female-ejaculation-3.html#post244900
     
  12. StrictlyAvg

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    You have THAT close a relationship with yr mid wife :eek::rolleyes:
     
  13. got_lost

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    First, how old were you? umm.... 43

    Did the guy mean to give you that experience or it just happened without giving special attention to your g-spot? what did he do? no he didn't intend for it to happen, he was just hammering me

    What was your reaction to it? :eek: what the hell was that!?

    Also for those who had more then a handful of guys, how many of them made you experience it? ratio? N/A

    Does emotions play a part? love? or its just knowing how and experience? not really emotions, more speed and pressure. At the moment still working it out but it's certainly seems to be something that can be repeated....


    Now that you know it can happen, is there a technique that you do that makes you experience it more easily? We don't aim to make it happen, but just fucking hard seems to be pretty effective :rolleyes:
     
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