Thanks for liking my pics and your recommendations, Wallyj84
Neutrno, let me contextualize my answer to your question.
Our gay sexual freedom model isn't neutral for two reasons:
(a) it's performance-oriented;
(b) it enables guys who aren't especially slender to have hardcore sex, because that model is thought by and for (urban) extroverts.
Consequently, the guys I met, that is too much:
─ hide their own performance anxiety;
─ feel themselves confronted with it by meeting a beginner;
─ reassure themselves by sniggering his lack of experience or initiative, which destroys his self-confidence.
Reason says that being a beginner is neither a disease nor a crime.
However, in this model I just mentioned above, you can insult, beat, contaminate consenting people... However, don't you dare ask some patience or indulgence for rebuilding your self-confidence: you'll be ostracized.
Sorry, guys, for being unpleasant, but it's my humble experience.
And thanks for your recommendations
