Of course, this does also beg comparison to low sex drives, and I personally have been more shocked by how low many people's sex drives are, but we seem to be less judgemental of that, so I am concentrating on the attitudes, and sanctions perhaps, aimed at the high sex drive. Do you have any views and or experiences that you would like to throw into the ring? Are attitudes different to gay men and lesbian women? Are some with high drives better off in monogamy if they can find the right partner? and what of those who find themselves committed, but incompatible? Does the partner have a "duty" to deal with their partner's needs? Are we expected to control the drive, are there acceptable and unacceptable outlets for it, and who is to say which is which?