I suppose satisfaction is the result of a whole lot of things, many of which I can't even pin down or vocalise.
You did a pretty awesome job describing it, by the way.
Time is a massive factor. Most guys seem happy to stop after an hour or so. I always want to keep going for a whole lot longer than that.
Unfortunately, it's probably more physical fatigue that hampers the best of us. Missionary is unbelievably tough on the arms if your're doing it for more than 30 minutes. The key (for me anyway) is trying to make the act of fucking as easy as possible on the muscles. If one set of muscles start getting fatigued, I find keeping a hard on hard gets too be difficult.
We have a moified sex swing where the seat's been converted so it feels like you're slouching on a chair instead of the biting straps that comes with it. The sex on that thing is so damned effortless (on her and my part) I can see it being used for hours on a stretch.
Sheer number of orgasms is probably a factor. If every orgasm releases chemicals and hormones, eventually my system would have to be overloaded (you'd think). I know that the more orgasms I have, the more floaty my head space gets, so I suppose if someone gave me enough they could probably get me so spaced out I wouldn't even notice what they're doing any more. My FB has come close to this, but hasn't quite achieved it.
Not meaning to brag (ok, maybe a bit), but on the, "Multiple/Highly Orgasmic Women (and the men who adore us =)" social group board, since there isn't much activity, I've been using that space as my personal orgasm log/journal. You might enjoy reading some of my entries (to make a long story short... 45 times in an hour and a half, 130 times in one whole weekend)
The biggest factor for me is probably the mindfuck. My FB is as into BDSM as I am and knows exactly which buttons to press. Vanilla sex could never completely satisfy me because this factor is conspicuously missing.
Here's where I fall short with my skills. I'd like to get better at this, but haven't had the opportunity to practice much. (my wife doesn't do the whole BDSM thing... an ex did though)
Size is unfortunately a factor. I say unfortunately because it always seems like such a superficial thing to say, but the fact of the matter is that small/average guys just can't give me orgasms as intense as big guys can. Only big guys can reach the deep spots.
Never apologize for having preferences, much less being honest about those preferences. I was telling my wife a few minutes ago that one of the draws of this forum was not only because the women are honest about what society labels as "superficial" preferences, but are celebrated as well.
The problem is, that even when if I reached that point of complete satisfaction, it just wouldn't last long. A lot of people seem to think that a session of good sex should last you a few days at least. I don't even feel satisfied for a few hours (or minutes). I'll still be running the wonderful memories through my mind and enjoying them, but my body craves more.
Ditto. Once again you've hit the nail on the head. I can identify with that wholeheartedly. Even after an orgasm, and I go soft and can't get hard again, I still want sex.
Short answer...I didn't say I wasn't satisfied. I've never had better sex in my whole life than I am right now.
When you said, "I've yet to meet someone who matches my sex drive on a sustained basis." I took from that that you hadn't been satisfied. I should've read that as not being satiated on a sustained basis. Totally different. Sorry for the confusion.
And I've had a lot of sex. But when the sex is amazing, I want more. I never get enough. I never get tired of sex, exhausted, bored. It's addicting. I have so many orgasms I lose count.
Yup, same here.
There was one fuckapallooza weekend in Vegas, in the LUV TUB suite when I was raw, bruised and so swollen that I could not be fucked anymore. But that was only once. And that was a little slice of heaven.
Love that feeling, wish I had it all the time. My wife loved the word "fuckapalooza" by the way.