Hello all, first time poster, long time reader. Although I am not huge my size is on the larger average side. I am 7 1/2 inches long give or take on the weather. But my main feature is the girth at just shy of 7 inches girth, I am on the thicker side of the equation. Luckily for me I am a grower not a shower. So I have been under the radar for most of my life. I am mostly introverted due to lack of a social life. My work hours are very demanding so I have almost nil time to go out and play. So here is where my story begins. A group of uncles and I went on a camping vacation for a week to different camp site up and down California. Most of the men are woodsman by heart. It would be safe to assume they do this often. I got invited recently because they felt I have matured enough to become âOne Of The Guysâ. I was more than thrilled to be inducted. We had a blast the first few nights at an Indian Reservation camp site. We bbqâd, drank, told jokes and stories. Coming from a single parent home, I never had this male bonding before. I was in heaven. Well about the third or fourth night, everyone needed a shower. We had currently moved from the original site to one in the sierras of northern California. This was true woodsy outdoorsman stuff. No civilization for miles. I was led to an area where we could bathe in a lake. Seeing as no one was around it would be perfect for the purpose. Well I was told that we had to at least be with one person if we left camp for safety reasons. So I asked my momâs brother who was naturally the uncle I was most close to. Weâll it was decided that all would come to shower at the same time. I was so nervous but didnât want to lose approval with all of them so I proceeded. Most of them were average flaccid in length, but I was noticeably about an inch or a bit, larger. To top it off, when the air hit after I got out of the water, its caused an erection. It became the whole topic of the night and most of the trip. I guess where we camped they felt comfortable with being nudist till it got cold enough, but I felt uneasy the whole night. Some told jokes about me, some thought it was the greatest gift to man. I just donât get why people are so hung up on size. They made it seem like I was supposed to just flash it around and women would be begging to sleep with me. Now I would consider myself out of touch with reality, but I donât see why people think itâs a feature to brag about. The few times I tired to have sex, it went horrible wrong most of the time. Even with lube and foreplay, it has its moments of discomfort, and its hard to maintain when things are going wrong. Why are people caught up with superficial matters and not realizing what is important in life. If anything comes out of this forum, I hope it is that everyone should be happy with what god designed for them. Be happy with who you are and what you have become. If you feel the need to change something that your not happy with, make sure its for a positive reason. Become health, become educated, and become active in your community. Donât get caught up in what is superficial and will ultimately not bring you happiness. Just my two cents. Hope to become more active here in the group. I have learned a lot already, just hope I can contribute back.