socks and heels and their place in porn

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    I think it took three long decades (the 70's , 80's and 90's) to finally get most of the gay porn studios to have most of the actors NOT wear white socks...yet in watching some straight porn the other day, I noticed that most of the videos still have the ladies wear high heeled shoes, or even stilettos...- question for the straight/bi guys: does that turn you on or off? question for the women: is this what guys want from you? - is it a reasonable representation for what straight/bi guys and couples find sexy? -- or is it like the socks in gay porn- take them off already and get naked!.... just curious... :smile:
     
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    LOL i guess no one cares... :smile:
     
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    It's not really an attractive portion of any porn I've ever sampled. I mean, I'm kind of simplistic in my tastes, but time and place for everything. Footwear while being having sex on camera seems to weaken the ideal of total sensuality. I guess I'm used to sex sans shoes and/or socks.

    Bottom line, as an aesthetic, women in high heels isn't on top of my list of appealing if they wear it during the whole fuck scene. Bare naked, head to toe.
     
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    If a girl wants to get my attention, all she has to do is wear open toed, stiletto heels with a bit of a platform. Basically, any variation of what strippers now wear. Even an ugly girl will at least get my attention with this. Throw in a French tip pedicure, (the kind with the clear nail) and I am there.

    In porn, for me it is huge. I would rather watch a less attractive girl wearing those heels while getting fucked than a super attractive girl without.

    I dont know why it turns me on so much. It is not like I have a foot fetish. I dont want to lick the heels or cum on them or run my dick all over a girl's feet. It is just the visual that is a huge turn on. Even a flat chested girl with stripper heels will get me going. Throw in an anklet and i will go crazy.

    It this still considered a fetish?

    And socks turn me off completly. Probalby why I do really NOT like the Babysitter/ teens porn theme.
     
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    i guess taste is not arguable...both of you guys just like different things... anybody else lean either way? ladies, your thoughts?
     
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    Not a lady (in any sense of the term). But count me among those who prefer naked skin to any kind of gear.
     
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    I like the presentation of shoes when it's done tastefully (no 8-inch stiletto heels or 4-inch platforms, please), particularly with stockings...but they should exit the scene at some point early in the action.

    Yes, I know porn is fantasy, but it's distractingly unrealistic for the girl to keep her stupid shoes on through the entire fuck, especially when they're obviously cumbersome or intrusive during position changes, etc. The stockings, however...those can stay... :tongue:
     
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    I'd really like to know what the women in the forum think of this question...!? :smile:
     
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    I think ladies having shoes on in porn is stupid. As Hazel said, it's awkward and looks so fake. I want them both, or all 5 of them completely naked!!
     
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    As a gay man I can't answer the question about women wearing heels, except to say that I don't get the attraction. I can see how high-heeled shoes can complement an outfit, but wearing them in bed and during sex seems out of place--about as much so as wearing them in the bath or shower.

    I would like to comment on the subject of guys wearing white socks.

    I kinda like the white socks.

    When I was a boy, guys wore tube socks that came at least to the mid-calf, if not up to the knees. A guy wearing tube socks today would look ridiculous, but back then I thought they were sexy. Back then shorts were shorter, so although the leg below the knee was mostly covered, the thighs were exposed, and I do like muscular thighs. Secondly, if a guy has "shapely" calves, tube socks that come up mid-calf emphasizes that.

    When fashions changed and guys started wearing crew socks (often bunched down), I was slow to accept it. It looked weird to me. Although calves are sexy, shins are not. Between the late 80s and early 90s, shorts got longer, until they were usually knee-length, or lower. I'm used to it by now, but there's still a part of me that doesn't understand exposing the lower leg instead of the thigh. Thighs are sexier.

    My freshman year in college I had a suitemate from California. He wasn't your stereotypical California beach guy (e.g., not blonde or tanned). He was tall and handsome, with short brown hair, soft brown eyes, and rather hairy legs. He wore those little white ankle socks. It was the first time I'd see a guy wear socks like that--I'd seen women wear them, but never guys. It looked weird but it was strangely fascinating. The bright white of the socks contrasted with his dark leg hair, and made his skin look dark even though he wasn't tanned. They drew your attention to his legs. It was hard looking him in the face when I talked to him, because those bright white socks just kept pulling my eyes down--not to the socks themselves, but to his legs, particularly his calves.

    So, to this day, I love seeing a guy in white socks IF he has good legs (especially if they are a bit hairy). It's also important that he not be too pale. He doesn't have to be tan, but he has to have some color to his skin; it's no good if he's white or pink.

    But I also like bare feet. Feet can be really ugly, on both men and women, and ugly feet are a huge turn-off to me. But some guys have nice feet. It would be impossible to explain the difference, so I won't even bother trying.

    Bare feet look especially good if the guy is wearing casual, comfortable pants--but again, they have to have a good color. There's something appealing about the contrast of being mostly dressed, but having that bit of skin showing. (Personally, I love the feeling of being barefoot, especially when walking on tile or hardwood floors, or outside in the grass. It's very relaxed and natural. Socks are sometimes too hot, or too tight, and it's great to take them off at the end of the day. On the other hand, if it's a bit chilly, it's nice to put on a nice pair or comfy socks.)

    I also like seeing a guy being totally bare-legged. To me, legs are the sexiest part of a guy's body.

    When it comes to real life sex, sometimes it's sexier to keep your socks on. In my experience, sexual encounters start off dressed. You start kissing, caressing...hands start moving under clothes, then clothes start coming off. Shirts come off so that you can kiss and caress each other's chest, shoulder, etc. and so that you can lie skin-to-skin. Pants come off for...well, for obvious reasons. But the socks? Unless foot play is part of your sexual activities, it's almost a bother to take them off, an interruption to the action. If you're lying on top of each other, the guy on top has to get up both to take his own socks off and so the other guy can move enough to reach down and take his socks off.

    On the other hand, I have no particular desire for myself or my partner to leave our socks on, so if I get a chance during the action to pull them off, I usually will.

    So, when it comes to gay porn, I can go either way. If the guys leave their socks on, fine. If they take them off, that's OK too. If one guys leaves his on and the other doesn't, great. If it's a solo scene, then it's kind of nice if the guy leaves his socks on for a while, slowly working his way to complete nudity.
     
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    interesting, interesting... :)
     
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    Oh, heels could stay on. I have done it. How about the postion in doggy-esque where the girl could grab the heels to give herself some leverage.

    Funny, i dont really like stockings. I thing it takes away the look of pretty pedicured, bare feet in an opened toed 3 inch platform with a 6 inch heel. Dam this topic is getting me hard! :biggrin1::cool::tongue:
     
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    One more thing. I cant be the only guy who is into this. I mean, it is very common in porn. Stippers where them for a reason. They are motivate to wear what makes them money.

    Car show models wear them. Even the fitness competition bodybuilding ladies wear them. In the 80's stippers wore closed toed pumps, no platform. I am not a fan of that. I prefer bare feet to that. I am so glad it changed to what it is today. I hope it does not change again. I love this look. I have been making all my fucks where shoes at some point when they open up. We go shopping or they have something close to it. They find it sexy and kinky at the same time. I am just happy they cooperate fulfilling a fantasy of mine. Where is that dam cum rag!!!
     
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    I'm still waiting for someone to say that he or she likes white socks to be worn IN highheeled shoes :)... you never know...
     
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    i do not like that for the same reasons i do not like stockings. In the "schoolgirl" outfit sometimes, they wear those socks that only go ankle high, and have some trim on them. Again, not a big fan.
     
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    It's not the kinda porn I watch. Stilletos are ugly Ithink, but some nice shoe with a highe heel is okay and can be very hot, this kind for example (http://cn1.kaboodle.com/hi/img/2/0/0/f5/4/AAAAAqHKDFUAAAAAAPVPGQ.jpg)
    I love how they fit the woman, but prefer it in black or so lol. Have to got nice legs too if you were shoes like that...
     
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    Socks on a guys feet in porn is to me like scratching a blackboard with one's nails...goes right up my spine...can't watch it.

    Women in heels is not my cup-o-tea either, unless it's the open heel kind that has no back or straps on the shoe. I prefer women in barefeet, no lingerie or hosiery. Other no-no's for me:

    tennis shoes, boots, plastic shoes, pantyhose (EEEUUWWW), and socks. Oddly though, those thong like flip flops (somehow) are a turn on. Go figure.
     
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    I gather you also indulge in sans footwear as well there, Jenny? OOOOOOH, now I GOTTA get up to canada to see this.:biggrin::naughty:
     
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    interesting how suddenly some of you str8 guys become fashion experts :wink:
     
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    I wouldnt call stripper heels fashion. I like what I like.

    I have vaired interests, some that are considered "gay".
    I will sometimes joke and say that I am "gay", I just dont like men. :rolleyes:

    Anyway, I wrote a song explaining what I like. I posted this somewhere else here on this site.

    Here are a few of my Favorite Things
    (think Sound of Music and sing along)

    Open toed, stripper heels, platforms that buckle,
    Beautiful, D-cup breasts, pink nips to suckle.
    Anklets and chokers,
    Boy shorts, Thongs, G-strings.
    These are a few of my Favorite Things.

    Clean shaven cootchies with small pubic patches,
    Long silky elbow gloves, a gater that matches.
    Pedicured French tip
    Clear nails and Toe rings.
    These are a few of my Favorite Things.

    When her mood snaps,
    when her mouth yaps.
    When she starts to nag.
    I start to remember the sex that we had
    and I dont feel, the drag.
     
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